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Its True! - Women's sex drive pluments once she is in a secure relationship

 
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Security 'bad news for sex drive'

Differences in sexual appetite may be driven by evolution
A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research.
Researchers from Germany found that four years into a relationship, less than half of 30-year-old women wanted regular sex.

Conversely, the team found a man's libido remained the same regardless of how long he had been in a relationship.

Writing in the journal Human Nature, the scientists said the differences resulted from how humans had evolved.

For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male

Dr Dietrich Klusmann

The researchers from Hamburg-Eppendorf University interviewed 530 men and women about their relationships.

They found 60% of 30-year-old women wanted sex "often" at the beginning of a relationship, but within four years of the relationship this figure fell to under 50%, and after 20 years it dropped to about 20%.

In contrast, they found the proportion of men wanting regular sex remained at between 60-80%, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship.

Tenderness

The study also revealed tenderness was important for women in a relationship.

About 90% of women wanted tenderness, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship, but only 25% of men who had been in a relationship for 10 years said they were still seeking tenderness from their partner.

Dr Dietrich Klusmann, lead author of the study and a psychologist from Hamburg-Eppendorf University, believed the differences were down to human evolution.

He said: "For m...


huh


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"He said animal behaviour studies suggest this could be because females may be diverting their sexual interest towards other men, in order to secure the best combinations of genetic material for their offspring."



How true. Women are only as loyal as their options.
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Women's sex drive pluments once she is in a secure relationship
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That's why you always keep them guessing...

They try harder...
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shit pac-man....that's more depressing than mutant hot-dogs!
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Nones of da' bitches loose sex wants when dey be wif me caus i be a black man wif 10 inchs, afro
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women ain't cars

they derive most of their pleasure form emotional processes

they all like sex
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is it coz you got a hoe preggers?
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Oh how foolish you approach this and I am referring to the researcher,not the poster. Men pursue women arduosly to which she ,if there is an attraction,responds lustily and with passion. Then when the man and she enter into a permanent or lawful relationship things change. He does,they both go to work,she gets pregnant or not,she does his and her clothing,the housework,the books more times than not,arranging for the social and family obligations and enything else that falls in between. He does no longer bother with the dates,the attention nor the foreplay leading up to very satisfying relationships for both of them. Instead he gets a hardon perhaps from thinking about the lady who crossed the street,something on t.v. or a movie or just random woolgathering and he wants it right now with none of the things which are turn ons for her. I know all kinds of people who have been married or together for many years who genuinely create and repeat the things which lead to this most satifying of things given to us to enjoy. Also,men,women's sex drive increases geatly as she matures and you know what happens to yours. Particularly in her forties,fifties and into her sixties. Just sit by a table of women at lunch sometime and listen to them and what they discuss,you might learn something.
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there's more to life than sex
like
raising the children
the sex gave you
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 114312


Spoken exactly like a bitch that shuts off her husband right after the ring is on her finger...

rolleyes
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jeez...\'people\' and their fixations.
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Lucky for me... NOT my girlfriend
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Maybe this will answer One of the greatest mysteries of human nature:

The wedding cake effect.

"It's commonly known that eating wedding cake causes a 90% drop in a woman's sex drive. But only if the woman eating it is the bride. Bridesmaids and horny guests don't suffer this effect."


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Security 'bad news for sex drive'

Differences in sexual appetite may be driven by evolution
A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research.
Researchers from Germany found that four years into a relationship, less than half of 30-year-old women wanted regular sex.

Conversely, the team found a man's libido remained the same regardless of how long he had been in a relationship.

Writing in the journal Human Nature, the scientists said the differences resulted from how humans had evolved.

For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male

Dr Dietrich Klusmann

The researchers from Hamburg-Eppendorf University interviewed 530 men and women about their relationships.

They found 60% of 30-year-old women wanted sex "often" at the beginning of a relationship, but within four years of the relationship this figure fell to under 50%, and after 20 years it dropped to about 20%.

In contrast, they found the proportion of men wanting regular sex remained at between 60-80%, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship.

Tenderness

The study also revealed tenderness was important for women in a relationship.

About 90% of women wanted tenderness, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship, but only 25% of men who had been in a relationship for 10 years said they were still seeking tenderness from their partner.

Dr Dietrich Klusmann, lead author of the study and a psychologist from Hamburg-Eppendorf University, believed the differences were down to human evolution.

He said: "For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male."

But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner.

But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines, he added.

He said animal behaviour studies suggest this could be because females may be diverting their sexual interest towards other men, in order to secure the best combinations of genetic material for their offspring.

Or, he said, this could be because limiting sex may boost their partner's interest in it.

Professor George Fieldman, an evolutionary psychologist from Buckinghamshire Chilterns University College, said: "These findings seem to fit in with anecdotal studies and his explanations seem plausible.

"The rational for why a woman's sex drive declines may be down to supply and demand. If something is in infinite supply, the perceived value would drop."

huh


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 Quoting: PACNWguy

and they had to do a fuckin study to find this out??!!! Geez Louise! And women wonder why infedility is so high. Although their are exceptions to the rule for the most part a wedding ring= a chastity belt!
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Lucky for me... NOT my girlfriend
snogging ura kiss
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you're missing one important thing . . . she's a girlfriend not a wife. Just wait.
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you're missing - we LIVE TOGETHER.
like I said LUCKY ME.
hugs
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Nah, not true at all
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you're missing - we LIVE TOGETHER.
like I said LUCKY ME.
hugs
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LIVE TOGETHER. Cute. Get married and wait a couple of years then report back. Or better yet get married have a kid then report back.
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Well, I've been married 18+ years, and I'd "do it" everyday if I could! kiss

Some people say a woman's sex drive fizzles after a hysterectomy, too, but in my case, it magnified it! bananasex
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P.S. We don't have kids, by choice.
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yeah, there is more to life than sex...
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yeah, there is more to life than sex...
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Yeah, like bouncy tits!
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children suffer
when men don't understand the nurturing role of a mother
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You are preaching to the wrong person and making excuses for your own inadequacies...

I am a 'stay-at-home-dad' and have been home since my Wife went back to work at 3 months after our child was born...That would be 9 years that I have been the chief cook and bottle washer, chauffer, skinned knee kisser etc....

Wife gets off on being the 'bread-winner' (though I make a good chunk from home)...

We have sex at least once a day (usually in the AM) but often more than that when we can sneek some...

Cry about how tired and nurturing you are to someone you can snow...
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Well, I've been married 18+ years, and I'd "do it" everyday if I could! kiss

Some people say a woman's sex drive fizzles after a hysterectomy, too, but in my case, it magnified it! bananasex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 115017


everyday if i could. hehehehehe. what's stoping you. You probably spend much more time watching tv or some other useless thing per month. Women almost always thing that they're having sex 2-3 times more often that they actually are (men have the opposite problem). You have to ask the husband and wife and average the two for a real number :) Your sex drive probably did fizzle but you're getting older and you don't remember stuff so well anymore (Didn't we just have sex yesterday?) hehe. J/K on that one. If you really are having sex that ofter then bully for you. Your husband will probably never cheat on you.

BTW Sex is that important. Men who get their fill at home are much less likely to cheat. If you're not haveing sex at least once a day and your husband cheats on you, It's your fault.

Flame away for the last part but it's true
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women are created to nurture children
not to breastfeed big baby daddies



children suffer
when men don't understand the nurturing role of a mother

You are preaching to the wrong person and making excuses for your own inadequacies...

I am a 'stay-at-home-dad' and have been home since my Wife went back to work at 3 months after our child was born...That would be 9 years that I have been the chief cook and bottle washer, chauffer, skinned knee kisser etc....

Wife gets off on being the 'bread-winner' (though I make a good chunk from home)...

We have sex at least once a day (usually in the AM) but often more than that when we can sneek some...

Cry about how tired and nurturing you are to someone you can snow...

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 114312

Then why don't you 'Women' be upfront about it then when your dating. Tell that to us ahead of time and see how long we stick around. My bet is a woman who did this would NEVER find a husband and if so they'd be gay!
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I think a woman's sex drive is directly related to the attractiveness & desirability of the man she's with.

So, instead of blaming the women, look at your fat, disgusting, beer drinking, football watching, porn addicted, burping self.
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If any woman want to have 0 responsibilties around the house all she has to do is provide quality sex at least twice a day (no lying there) and most guys i know woud do the rest. No woman that i've met has or would take any guy up on the bargain.
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I think a woman's sex drive is directly related to the attractiveness & desirability of the man she's with.

So, instead of blaming the women, look at your fat, disgusting, beer drinking, football watching, porn addicted, burping self.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 129933

in my experience the opposite is true a womans sex drive nose dives if she has a poor self-image. I'll give you porn addicted and to a lesser extent football watching but the rest is untrue.
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Then why don't you 'Women' be upfront about it then when your dating. Tell that to us ahead of time and see how long we stick around. My bet is a woman who did this would NEVER find a husband and if so they'd be gay!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10903


Because most have been conditioned by their Mommies to be dependant on a male for their happiness and wellbeing (money/home)...

I waited, paid off our first house, and then we got married and 'pregnant'...

Just because you aren't smart enough (or discriminating enough) to find a real woman (as opposed to a little girl looking for a 'daddy), don't blame the rest of us...

Just because it would be an afront to your 'manhood' to have to do dishes or change diapers, don't blame the rest of us...

rolleyes
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many men expect sex on demand
and a live in maid/housekeeper/nanny

so, do you research
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 114312


Men shouldn't have to "demand" sex. It should be happily given and received. I'd gladly play the role of maid/housekeeper/nanny for my fill of lovin'.
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I think little girls get a handbook with all this type of information in it so they have always are one up on the men. For instance the handbook tells them they need to do certain things to get a man hooked, then can become comfortable with whatever they want to be later. (This should get some women to attack.)
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