Its True! - Women's sex drive pluments once she is in a secure relationship

Women's sex drive pluments once she is in a secure relationship

there's more to life than sex
like
raising the children
the sex gave you

Security 'bad news for sex drive'

Differences in sexual appetite may be driven by evolution
A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research.
Researchers from Germany found that four years into a relationship, less than half of 30-year-old women wanted regular sex.

Conversely, the team found a man's libido remained the same regardless of how long he had been in a relationship.

Writing in the journal Human Nature, the scientists said the differences resulted from how humans had evolved.

For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male

Dr Dietrich Klusmann

The researchers from Hamburg-Eppendorf University interviewed 530 men and women about their relationships.

They found 60% of 30-year-old women wanted sex "often" at the beginning of a relationship, but within four years of the relationship this figure fell to under 50%, and after 20 years it dropped to about 20%.

In contrast, they found the proportion of men wanting regular sex remained at between 60-80%, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship.

Tenderness

The study also revealed tenderness was important for women in a relationship.

About 90% of women wanted tenderness, regardless of how long they had been in a relationship, but only 25% of men who had been in a relationship for 10 years said they were still seeking tenderness from their partner.

Dr Dietrich Klusmann, lead author of the study and a psychologist from Hamburg-Eppendorf University, believed the differences were down to human evolution.

He said: "For men, a good reason their sexual motivation to remain constant would be to guard against being cuckolded by another male."

But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner.

But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines, he added.

He said animal behaviour studies suggest this could be because females may be diverting their sexual interest towards other men, in order to secure the best combinations of genetic material for their offspring.

Or, he said, this could be because limiting sex may boost their partner's interest in it.

Professor George Fieldman, an evolutionary psychologist from Buckinghamshire Chilterns University College, said: "These findings seem to fit in with anecdotal studies and his explanations seem plausible.

"The rational for why a woman's sex drive declines may be down to supply and demand. If something is in infinite supply, the perceived value would drop."




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Lucky for me... NOT my girlfriend

you're missing - we LIVE TOGETHER.
like I said LUCKY ME.

yeah, there is more to life than sex...

children suffer
when men don't understand the nurturing role of a mother

Well, I've been married 18+ years, and I'd "do it" everyday if I could!

Some people say a woman's sex drive fizzles after a hysterectomy, too, but in my case, it magnified it!

women are created to nurture children
not to breastfeed big baby daddies



children suffer
when men don't understand the nurturing role of a mother

You are preaching to the wrong person and making excuses for your own inadequacies...

I am a 'stay-at-home-dad' and have been home since my Wife went back to work at 3 months after our child was born...That would be 9 years that I have been the chief cook and bottle washer, chauffer, skinned knee kisser etc....

Wife gets off on being the 'bread-winner' (though I make a good chunk from home)...

We have sex at least once a day (usually in the AM) but often more than that when we can sneek some...

Cry about how tired and nurturing you are to someone you can snow...

I think a woman's sex drive is directly related to the attractiveness & desirability of the man she's with.

So, instead of blaming the women, look at your fat, disgusting, beer drinking, football watching, porn addicted, burping self.

Then why don't you 'Women' be upfront about it then when your dating. Tell that to us ahead of time and see how long we stick around. My bet is a woman who did this would NEVER find a husband and if so they'd be gay!

many men expect sex on demand
and a live in maid/housekeeper/nanny

so, do you research