Men!!! what is on your mind with your female friends???

You ever think of going to a therapist to help you with your low self-esteem issues? Nothing will get better until you do.

“The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.”--Bob Marley

I have all the testimonies of others, all my years of study,. all my years of own experiences too. I can´t experience the experiences of others. When you study statistics, you scry others, not your own experiences.

Then you do the math.

It´s all that cold, impersonal, obvious.


Your attempts on invalidate all i said fail, Ms Citadel Moon.

What makes some drawn to these type threads?

A man cannot understand a woman, because he does not possess the experience itself. It works both ways.

Math won't help you either.

I haven't attempted to invalidate everything you've said. I haven't even attempted to invalidate your experiences as a man, but have said quite unequivocally, that it is unique unto itself. No amount of study or testimonials can substitute for experience itself.

No No, we shouldn't blame ALL men. Just the one who said it...lol

Well said, dear Knight.

No Spark.

Agreed.

I can assess from talking to a man, and watching the way he moves, and how he looks me in the eye if he would be a n intriguing partner or not. Sometimes tone of voice too. You would be surprised the amount of information that come across. And again, I am assuming this is a personal preference thing. As in, not that they wouldn't be the perfect man for another woman...just not me.

And I do not care for the beta men...if that is what we are agreeing to call those who would be subservient to a female.

Like you have to at least be able to beat me in chess.

lol

Citadel Moon, you are brilliant dear.

That is a welcome compliment coming from a woman who carries herself gracefully as a mystic.

I seek to understand people. To understand the inner workings of the mind. I love men, and yet that doesn't work out so well for me sometimes...lol

This thread is interesting. Raw, uncensored, straight to the point Shadow of men.

There is a huge disharmony with men and women in the world. In case you haven't noticed.

In some countries, it is so horrible, I wonder what the hell happened.

As a bartender for many years, in many places, I have been privy to a wide assortment of conversations, and experiences that make me even more curious.

I do know the desire to biblically "know" someone is driving. And the lengths one will go to achieve this are really mind blowing. And then I see the result of this after years of random people from all walks of life, sitting in front of me, drunk, spilling out their hearts.

I believe men and women can be friends, because there are things about men I respect, and admire. And I am not conditional with many things.


However, I have had a lot of experiences where I have put too much faith on mens ability to find value beyond fucking. And have felt the resentment of those who I thought were friends. So - this interests me.

Even if I have to pull off my mask of wanting it to be a reality.

Unless it's me, then I mean just friends.

Unless I use the word Consort, then I mean Consort.

:-)

Amen Sister!

Women´s basics are not a mistery any longer, they were deciphered long ago.

Only thing they can do is to whine about it, calling those men aware of the women´s game "delusional".

Me, for one, i am the most reluctant to think this way, as always trying to find i was wrong.

Yet years passes of experiences, and no, i find the sad evidence to confirm the sad expectations....

And when so many people, both in and out of the internet, confirms the same, there is a bigger pattern going on.



Last Edited by Senaden2 on 03/01/2015 03:23 AM

Ok - Lets just break this one down. "Women's Game" - I am taking this as an option that Females can pursue. Therefore, it is a free will choice of behavior, that is a possible choice, yet not inherent to women themselves.

That said - personally i would add that those behaviors are "Girls" games, and you probably have met very few actual Women.

Who was that spot on Author that referred to people as generally mentally younger than their apparent age, and added that they just might have a lot of experience being 22, or 18 or what have you. Like a 65 Year old man, can really be mentally of the age of 20, with 45 years of experience being a 20 year old? Yet never surpassing the intellect?

Yeah. That. :-)



That also being said, I would like to edit your previous comment about sleeping with 1000's of Women, to sleeping with 1000's of girls.

LOL

Warm cozy feelings.

All fun aside - there is a bigger pattern going on. And it has nothing to do with what is inherent in a girls/womans nature.

I see some very strong, grounded, centered women with compassion and integrity running around the world though.

And so many more growing up.

When you look back in a couple generations from now, it will be quite different on a wide scale.

This is the middle of the shift, I think.

Yes, it is an option they pursue. The easy choice. Although it seems conditioned more or less also by biology.

there would be other women who aren´t that much conditioned by it.

but the women´s game, is something mainstream.


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Only a handful of women i met were beyond the need to play girly games. But hell, those are extremely scarce. To the point of givin up Ms. Bodhi.


I haven´t slept with 1000 women, thats stupid, a joke i made about people who boast about sleeping with many women as numbers on their lists...

I was playin....jeesh. Gotta have some humor in this thread...

And yeah - my half sister is pure evil. So I am not defending the gender. By any means.

And we are rare. Yet not out of print...lol

The women´s game is a series of techniques to dominate and domesticate the men they are interested in.

The women´s game supress your free will, to support the will of the woman´s desires.

Most obvious tools of supression are: threats, shaming, withdrawal, discrimination, and finally, rupture.


So, few women i met in fact enhanced and encouraged my manliness in any respect. The opposite: they were self-centered bitches who only cared about themselves and their needs. That makes you feel, like a tool for them, in fact, an object.

Men who submit to this, are manginas.

To reply to the thread in general, after more meditation and pondering...

I think this whole categorizing women in the way that most of the men on here have, is a way to gain control, since the women choose who they sleep with.

And you don't like that part.

So you demean them. Because somewhere, sometime, there was one you really wanted, and you couldn't have her. So you took it out on all the rest.

IMO

I don´t seek to control anyone. I love women. I love everything. Even a rock or a grain of sand.

I hate the woman´s game, only.

Who would like to feel humiliated in any way?, women feel their aura of holiness threatened by this raising of awareness on how many women choose to use the woman´s game to dominate relationships.

If you love a man, encourage his manhood.

If you love a woman, encourage her womanhood.

That should be the base. But it seems rarely followed. Nowadays everything is twisted in a whirlpool of stupid fads seeking to create ambiguity on every corner to generate confusion to any loner that tries to build anything strong and hopeful on this society.

We can choose to have some sense of identity, although it is something always temporary, it can be something good, for a temporary period, as well.

Last Edited by Senaden2 on 03/01/2015 05:13 AM

K - you don't get to be "Most" then..lol

Wasn't specifically referring to you.

No one should be humiliated, or made to feel their worth is just flesh.

So, many women think their worth for men is just flesh.

And, many men think their worth for women is just their money.

Both are being objetified.

It seems we came here to experience gender.

Neither manhood, or womanhood are being encouraged.

Thus, all the pain we are living in our deranged societies.



We could seek for whatever to be blamed on that, but ultimately the responsability of our actions falls on each one of us. So each grain of sand counts.

There's an urgent need for us to get back to the Divine Male/Divine female nature. It basically all sums down to that.

I like how the thread asks men to express their feelings and when the man expresses his feelings women take over the thread to explain how the men are wrong.

hes right