Truth be known the whole world miss uses sexual energy. To take the sexual energy down and out threw the genitals is to use this energy as the animals do. No right or wrong to this. Just your personal business.
Learning to use our sexual energy the way the creator wanted us to will help to awaken you. This energy is what some call the kundalini energy. Bringing this energy up and out the top of a person and doing ones personal clearing work can take us to what some call enlightenment.