I don't date and yet people at work and all my neighbors try to ask me personal questions about my sex life like its any of their business!

I know how you feel.

so you're a lesbian?

or you're asexual


you're either a lesbian or asexual, and that's fine, but just please share more so that we can explore your clogged-up vagina for the better

"How can a girl like you be single??"

Uh..because I choose to be.

Please kill yourself now and do the rest of us a favor.

No, I am not a lesbian,ge tthat straight. I just haven't found anyone I'm interested in around here. This area is devoid of anything a decent, normal person could want.

Why are you even having those types of deep conversations with your co-workers??

To quote Ron Swanson:

Good for you OP...stay true to yourself and screw what other people think/say...you're doing nothing wrong.

What type of environment do you work in where it's seen as acceptable to talk to coworkers about having sex?

I don't blame the OP at all. Shoot so many people are asleep out there and you can't even carry a conversation with anyone. I would do the same.

Who cares what other people think.

You are not missing anything. Focus on getting your finances right.

I am male and didn't date anyone until I was 37. People would tease me in the same way and drop hints that people thought I was gay. At first it irritated me, but then I just brushed them off. "I am happy as single", "My sex life is my business", "I couldn't care less if someone spends time trying to figure out if I am gay? So what if I were?" (liked to confuse them by suggesting that I might, if fact, be gay - gave me a laugh).

Ever since this generation grew up on reality shows (with PAID participants) they think EVERYTHING is OK to talk about at work to.

It's where a bunch of black people work. I don't say anything to this one girl who constantly tries to ask me such personal questions. I just mainly ignore her. she seems to think it's not rude or anything to ask such thing. She will tell you, "I just wanna get into your personal business." I tell her, No, it's is none of your personal business, so shut up and leave me alone.

One of the forklift drivers keeps worrying me about the same thing, saying stuff, like, "Don't you ever want some wood?"
I just shake my head and tell him to shut up and go the hell on.
They're nosey and jealous. I i just think to myself, lease let me find a much better job so I can get the hell away from these people.

It's jealousy, period. People are so scared that they are missing out on something you're doing that they're not.

Put a 10' high privacy fence around your place, get a BIG dog, and do as you please.

You shouldn't live life worrying what other people think about you. What's the point? To stress out over it? No thanks!

Don't let people put pressure on you to do something that you don't want to do. It's better to tell them to mind their own business since you have been there and done that already.

I don't have those conversations ok? they ask me but i don't give them anythng to go on. They just think it's weird but yet it's okay for one guy to be gay becuase everyone knows it but, he doesn't rub our faces in it, ya know? These people are just worthless pcs of ghetto shit who have nothing. They post everything on FB,too. I don't.

I've been applying for state jobs, so yeah, I'm definitely looking for something much better. This temp shit sucks donkey balls.

Oh okay so you're working in a warehouse environment?

That explains why some of the individuals display a lack of professionalism...

Yes, and right now, it's all I've got.

i didn't have sex from last 6 years and most probably will never ..before that,i never had sex..
so i was sexually active for only one year..2008
nobody asks me this question...it my own business..it seems USA have very rude and undisciplined people


when people ask me "why are you single?"..i answer"i am man and i got divorced..i don't intend to marry again and donate my wealth to some ungrateful,greedy,filthy woman"..they just go very quiet
just tell them to fuck off

We are in the same boat.
Misery loves company, that's what I think when they start in on me.

People are very simple creatures and trained to put people into boxes. If you're not in the box with them they want to know which box is yours. Most are then content, whether acceptable or not, to let you alone once they know. They'll still trash talk you behind your back but that's happening anyway. There's always a few of the more stupid that can cause trouble for you, they're often the same ones causing trouble from their presumed ideas already.

If you're not a drone, it's best to avoid people altogether, I think. Overall they're not worth the trouble.

Sounds like good grounds for a sexual harassment suit.

Sounds like good grounds for a sexual harassment suit.

Just tell them that you masturbate profusely and leave it at that. Oh wait...then yell...WORLDSTARHIPHOP!

It's projection.

People assume that you must share their obsessions.

I've heard that sort of thing my whole life from my own family.

I pursued relationships, but I was rejected. I dealt with rejection by forgetting about it and moving on to other things. The world is full of things to do, between work and hobbies.

Yet, year after year, my family kept assuming I was either visiting prostitutes or a closeted homosexual.

Bless their deluded hearts - they simply couldn't believe that women would reject me.

But there was no end to the weird things they would imagine.

There were also frequent rumors among women that I was homosexual, which I only learned from third parties long after any acquaintance with those women. I think that was due to misunderstanding. I practiced what I always considered normal traditional morals - no flirting and nothing sexual before marriage.


When I spoke of love, women would go crazy and start acting mostly paranoid and hostile. So, I gave flirting a try, but women would overreact to that with inflamed imaginations. (When I spoke to one woman after dating her once, she said she would kill herself if I didn't date her again.) I agreed with something I later read by an Indian guru, who said that you have to be careful about what you say to women because they have overactive imaginations, and they can quickly blow things out of proportion. I had decided that flirting was dangerously dishonest.

I simply couldn't find a woman who could relate to me, with an emphasis on love and not on sex, which I considered a non-issue, the lowest common denominator. I considered at least 50% of all women sexually attractive enough, but I wanted to find out if they were any fun, if they could be reasonable and intelligent enough to sustain a lifetime of conversation, if they could fight fair in an argument, and especially if they were chaste, and not prone to screwing around with other men.

To learn such things about a woman, I needed time and a considerable amount or relating, which most women weren't willing to grant.

They were just plain rejecting me - not willing to do things with me and spend time with me. It has nothing to do with asexuality, or any of the perversions that so many people imagine.

As I see it, it was I was more sane and more moral than most people can imagine.

People project their own craziness on others and make wrong assumptions. So the hip new thing is to call you asexual. They simply can't imagine that some people just don't find love. In a world full of divorce, how could they draw such a silly conclusion?

Evidence of the failure of people to find love is everywhere.

Don't you ever get that urge to have sex?

lol...someone had to do it.

Yep....I had a female coworker ask me how much cum I squirt....she wanted to compare to her lover....I was sooooo tempted to ask her if she wanted to go into the storage room and find out....

They would also ask nosy questions if you DID date. So they're just being Equal Opportunity Busy-Bodies.

NWO etiquette...

Never give up your privacy.


NWO can go to hell.