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I let my son move back home after i threw him out and he refuses to pay rent

 
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I let my son move back home after i threw him out and he refuses to pay rent
My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
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anyone?
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04/03/2015 10:35 PM
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He should pay rent alright.
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04/03/2015 10:40 PM
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YOU caved after 3 days?

Was his car parked in your driveway?

He's got you wrapped around his finger and he knows it.
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04/03/2015 10:40 PM
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You should probably make him pay rent, but honestly if you first found him a job, he'd probably take it, and probably appreciate the help. Even if it was something he didn't really want to do. Obviously, I guess.

There's the question of what happens until then. IE until he finds or is given a job.
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04/03/2015 10:43 PM
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Also make sure that during this time, you don't allow yourself to be swept into his argumentativeness, but at the same time don't disregard what he says. Nor should it be taken too seriously as he probably hates himself more than you're aware of, and might lash out if he's not reconciled with himself the shame that he feels, thereby attempting to peg you with it.
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04/03/2015 11:00 PM
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Is he intelligent and in good shape? How bout the mil?
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04/03/2015 11:08 PM
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If he is not working put him to work around the house.. Man stuff like maintenance, painting, teach him how to plumb and do carpentry. He basically hasn't found anything that interests him yet and he will never know if he likes anything is he doesn't do it.

Like me, I was the same way till my dad got me doing woodworking and carpentry.. Now that is what I do..
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04/03/2015 11:09 PM
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Next time do a better job raising him.
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04/03/2015 11:09 PM
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No girlfriend?
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My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55498689


Typical woman. A man isn't worth shit if he isn't bring home some money.

Maybe you should try to figure out what he needs to get on with his life and give him the positive support that he needs.
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Communism is SLAVERY

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04/04/2015 12:37 AM
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How is he going to pay rent if he has no job?

If he refuses to pay rent are you going to kick him out?

Then are you going to take him back in because you feel bad?



Sounds like the beginning of a vicious cycle....
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04/04/2015 12:40 AM
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Single parents should realize kids now days kill if they get pissed for being shoved around. The world owes the little shits for being here.
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04/04/2015 12:44 AM
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No girlfriend?
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I can't imagine why.
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04/04/2015 12:46 AM
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No girlfriend?
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lmao because THAT is important. First sign that OP's son is a smart guy.
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04/04/2015 12:47 AM
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Re: I let my son move back home after i threw him out and he refuses to pay rent
We gave our daughter her own condo, paid for - no mortgage - for her 21st Birthday. The terms of the gift deed state that she cannot sell it without our written agreement, until she is 30 years of age. (Figured by 30 she was past making a dumb mistake or being cheated out of it.)

It’s worked out well. She pays her own taxes and maintenance fees which include her utilities. It’s only $300mo for maintenance and another $120 mo for taxes. She does not know it, but we have an automatic warning sent to our email if she fails to pay the maintenance or taxes for more than 2 months in a row. And as part of our wills, we have a release already attached thereto so she can sell it if we die early. I could give a damn what she does with it after I’m gone! If she’s not smart enough to keep it by that time, so what!

The third year she lived there we gave her a new kitchen remodel and bath remodel for her Christmas gift. The value jumped a nice bit from that little gift.

We paid $54,000 for a small 1 bedroom in a good area. It’s now (six years and a new kitchen and bath later) worth about $92,500 or $95k. Our kid swears it was the best thing we could have ever done for her.
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My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55498689


A loser!
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Dicke Bohnen
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04/04/2015 02:29 AM
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Who asked you to have a kid? You made a selfish decision to bring another human being into the evil world of suffering, injustice, illness and death. You didn't ask yourself "Hey, will I make a good parent? Can I give my kid everything he will need? What if my kid wouldn't be able to adjust to life?", did you? All you did was fornicate, pop a human out and treat him like he was your property. "How would you know I am a shit parent" you ask? Because kids are not born screwed up, their parents make them screwed up. The fact that you would dare to demand rent from your child or that you would come here to complain about YOUR CHILD! shows that you are a narcissistic toxic parent that ruined your son's life. Did you encourage your child? Did you help him discover his talents? Did you give him enough love? Did he form a healthy self-esteem and skills he needs to survive in this screwed up world? Did you give him the proper education, i.e. did you put your kid through college? Did you help him find employment?
"Well why should I, he's 21?!" Because you brought this person into this damn world, you raised him to be the way he is today and you are responsible for his failures. If your son failed - YOU FAILED.
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04/04/2015 02:44 AM
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04/04/2015 02:48 AM
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You did your part and that little worthless shit did nothing.
Let him sleep in the street.
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04/04/2015 02:50 AM
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We gave our daughter her own condo, paid for - no mortgage - for her 21st Birthday. The terms of the gift deed state that she cannot sell it without our written agreement, until she is 30 years of age. (Figured by 30 she was past making a dumb mistake or being cheated out of it.)

It’s worked out well. She pays her own taxes and maintenance fees which include her utilities. It’s only $300mo for maintenance and another $120 mo for taxes. She does not know it, but we have an automatic warning sent to our email if she fails to pay the maintenance or taxes for more than 2 months in a row. And as part of our wills, we have a release already attached thereto so she can sell it if we die early. I could give a damn what she does with it after I’m gone! If she’s not smart enough to keep it by that time, so what!

The third year she lived there we gave her a new kitchen remodel and bath remodel for her Christmas gift. The value jumped a nice bit from that little gift.

We paid $54,000 for a small 1 bedroom in a good area. It’s now (six years and a new kitchen and bath later) worth about $92,500 or $95k. Our kid swears it was the best thing we could have ever done for her.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68798937


She is lucky to have you.

I grew up an orphan and have never been given a damn thing in my life, have had to scrape and claw everything I have.

You lot get robbed on your property taxes, with those in mind you never truly own your land.

As for the parent with the lazy son, start a household rota, give him chores, make him understand if he just lays there in his own shitsweat he will begin to smell like shitsweat and act like shitsweat.

Mow lawn, build shed, build BBQ, paint house, if you have a workshop let him loose in there, sure he will find something to get him off his ass and becoming productive for himself, otherwise depression will set in sooner or later, give him different materials to work with, wood, metal, plastic, stone etc... From there he should in the least get a hobby, I like crafting and geometric patterns, in the making it causes altered states from which you can create amazing things.

Oh also, does he smoke weed, I mean just staying in your car for three days seems like a stoner thing to do, I could imagine him laughing to his friends about just getting high in the car until you came to get him.
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04/04/2015 02:50 AM
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Humiliating a mentally ill person like your son isn't going to help him.
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My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
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9teen When TSHTF life is going to be sooooooo much fun. LOL
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Hire some bikers to come over and scare the crap out of him.

Sometimes all a person needs is a little encouragement,

If you let him go on like he is, he isn't going anywhere.
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My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
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:9teen: When TSHTF life is going to be sooooooo much fun. LOL
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True. But we will clean vermin like this up in a month or so. Then what do we do?
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My son , 21 years old, was nothing but trouble. No school, No work, No girlfriend, No motivation to better his life so i threw him out telling him i would be there for him but he must learn to make his own steps in life.

Well after 3 days living in his car i decided i should let him back in but he refuses to pay any rent. Do you think it's fair he should be paying rent since he is hopeless on his own?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55498689


:9teen: When TSHTF life is going to be sooooooo much fun. LOL
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True. But we will clean vermin like this up in a month or so. Then what do we do?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 58904475


I hope you mean you would teach them, every human no matter how lazy, rude, obnoxious etc, will at some point be of assistance to another human, who are you to stop that.

Don't get me wrong, defend self and those close with deadly intent, but some lazy kid just in need of the correct type of motivation could potentially be a great asset, with the right motivation.
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I'm sure this is a shill waste of time thing but on ths tragic note that it is not: YOU FUCKING RETAREDED HORRIBLE PARENTS: you REALLY think it's your poor offsprings problem to pay your gosh-awful bills??? I would use WAY WORSE LANGUAGE but I'm not going to. You have screwed this poor angel up, suck it up and HELP him or her to provide for themselves. What a horrible attitude you have. Go to hell.
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04/04/2015 03:16 AM
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GET A F***IN CLUE!!!!!

YOUR LITTLE BABY ISN'T LITTLE ANYMORE. HE HAS AN OBLIGATION TO HIMSELF, YOU AND OTHERS TO GET A LIFE OF HIS OWN.

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I'm sure this is a shill waste of time thing but on ths tragic note that it is not: YOU FUCKING RETAREDED HORRIBLE PARENTS: you REALLY think it's your poor offsprings problem to pay your gosh-awful bills??? I would use WAY WORSE LANGUAGE but I'm not going to. You have screwed this poor angel up, suck it up and HELP him or her to provide for themselves. What a horrible attitude you have. Go to hell.
 Quoting: Bebe 61740167


You think that someone over voting age who is able bodied should syphon the tit a bit longer?? YOU ARE THE RETARD.

Unless you make bank every month, most people can't afford a deadbeat adult draining the resources at home.
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I'm sure this is a shill waste of time thing but on ths tragic note that it is not: YOU FUCKING RETAREDED HORRIBLE PARENTS: you REALLY think it's your poor offsprings problem to pay your gosh-awful bills??? I would use WAY WORSE LANGUAGE but I'm not going to. You have screwed this poor angel up, suck it up and HELP him or her to provide for themselves. What a horrible attitude you have. Go to hell.
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Go blow a monkey for bananas





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