Wtf did I get myself into

Talk about nibiru and the nwo. That will surely ends things pretty quickly....or not who knows lol

Is speed dating the fastest way to spread STDs?

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You get to smell em later.

Yikes

How did it go?

It starts in 3 hours. Gotta get dressed and get food soon. Have to be at the restaurant for 1845

Good luck!!!

You'll knock em dead!!!!

The first three questions determine a suitable date:

Do you think the government has our best interests in mind?

How many guns do you own and how often have you shot guns with a woman only without your buddies, and you acting like a jack ass.

We get in a car wreck, who do you save first, me or yourself?

Now, as simple as those questions are, they reveal a lot about how the person thinks of themselves and of others.

If the respondent asks you anything about your finances, past mates, or vehicles owned....you know they are superficial and not as well off as you are.

From your posts, you sound insecure....who the fuck cares who likes you, based on you, or not?

The reason why I sound insecure is because I get really shy. Always been shy around attractive men. Sometimes I even avoid eye contact

Those questions are really awesome and I will keep them in mind. I would love to find a prepper!

Just remember, you paid for this. They need to impress you.
You never said if THEY pay for the same privilege.
Just remember, you have to present yourself as someone they WANT to impress.

Nothing says you have to commit to any of them. But...
if you haven't had decent prospects IRL, chances are neither
have they.

You had to complete a rather lengthy questionnaire to get your
"Perfect Potential Match"... correct? So did they, so there
has to be some commonalities you both(s) should have.

Who knows, you may walk out with 4 or 5 serious potentials.

Just be yourself, no acting, no fakery. You seem to be a good person
(from your history here), and you seem like a sweetie from your short video.
You deserve a decent fella.

If nothing else, it'll be an experience and maybe lots of fun.

Honey, from your posts on here you're gonna knock their socks off.

I've been to three events in the past decade and the only thing I wish I'd done differently is take a male "spy" to hang out with the guy participants so they can make notes like, "Don't even THINK about it!", etc.

I actually found most of the women (which I am one) to be quite obnoxious but found most of the guys to be pretty fun.

Example: When the bell rings the women sit there. It is the men who move one seat down.

The women have the right to put up a sign that says something like, "Going to restroom" which really means, NOT INTERESTED!

I was amazed how many women did this. I thought, "If you can't be congenial for 5 minutes. how in the world are you going to make it in life?

Also, try and use your peripheral vision with discretion as you notice the guy who's your next date? How does he treat THAT woman?


All and all it's a crap-shoot. But it was sure fun to get the email that told me how many of the guys I marked as "interesting" were also interested in me.

PS. Have a glass of wine with you! It helps!

Let us know how it goes and do NOT go home with anyone tonight! Wait for the date!!!!!!!!

Good luck, Lynne

Thank you so much for the advice!! That cleared up a lot for me!
I know what to expect and I am sure it will be fun. And yes, wine is going to be purchased lol.

Oh no I will never go home with a guy. Never done that before and I don't plan on doing that anytime soon .

Thanks Lynne you cleared a lot up for me !! I'll just be my usual self.

Start every speed date by asking them if they have ever been a moran. If they ask what it means,call them a shill.

Yikes!

You have me mixed up with someone else.

In all the years I've been here, I've never posted anything like, or even remotely alluding to, my thinking people do not like me.

Ha! That's a first!

no.

nice to see some one whos real.

Omg. I don't know how you got quoted. Please understand Esoteric Morgan I was referring to the OP.

I like you EM, MUCH LOVE.

Stoked on seeing your feedback)

Be yourself...

either they are attracted to the REAL you or they or not.

btw...

keep the jewelry to a minimum, it's distracting.

Thats why its cool.
You only talk to each guy/girl for
like 3 or 5 minutes then the bell
rings and you move to the next person.
Its kinda fun cause its not a date and
it doesn't force you to talk to someone
all thru a 2 or 3 hour date.

How did it go?

group date musical chairs kinda

Ask them if they go on glp

Starts in an hour . *bites nails*

do this:



and think about your wasted money

speed dating is for freaks, for narcissists, all body, no head, because everything you get to see there in 5 mins is the looks of the other, and some stupid short conversation

Last Edited by Senaden2 on 05/09/2015 06:49 PM

OP I am Nervous for You

Just be yourself and if that is not good enough

F em

just start off the conversation,

"sorry Im late but I had to move the tomato plants in"

see where it goes from there....

My question would be how do you feel about 9/11? I'd know right away by their answer. Someone who hasn't a clue about the deception would respond with "what an awful day, those poor people" or something like that. Someone who has questions about that day would say something absolutely different.

When and if I date again, you can bet that will be one of my first questions. I want someone who has, and uses, critical thinking; and I want to be able to have good convo's and not have to walk them through their waking up to reality. And I don't want to invest time or get emotionally involved if a man hasn't questioned this event by now.

With that said, I am a differennt age range than you, if that pic is you by your name. I may have felt different at a younger age. (I'm mid 40's).

And you could change the question up if you have another event. But 9/11 is my litmus test.

And if you are physically attracted to one and think you would like a date, maybe ask his name, if he is native to the area; then after he asks you a question, keep the answer short and gently lean in a bit closer (showing interest) and say what do you think about _____ (9/11, Sandy Hook, etc)? Making sure no others are trying to listen, ya know, so they can't prepare for the question when it's their turn)

Well, have fun, use it as a learning experience, and (as a fellow shy gal; VERY!) I admire you for going out of your comfort zone!!! Looking forward to reading about what happened!

if its stressing you dont take it seriously...