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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 66185270 United States 06/10/2015 01:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of It's Concerta or Ritalin. Mind you she is on prozac herself but seeing as she is the mother of my kids and i didn't know any better at the time about these poison pills. I am sure she has become severly brain damaged after all these years of taking these pills and now she is raising our daughter on half a brains. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 66185270 United States 06/10/2015 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of Both are amphetamines.Tell your wife to go ahead if she wants to make the kid an anorexic tweaker Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67740861 I won't tell her anything i will just tell her that she is not fit to be a mother if she cannot fucking raise children. Why are todays women so utterly clueless and naive? Aren't they supposed to be adults? |
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PirateMonkey User ID: 4509861 United States 06/10/2015 01:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of You need to get this on record somewhere. You probably don't want to file a police report, but at a very minimum you need to report that to her doctor. Or retain an attorney and have him take your statement. It may go nowhere, but if shit goes downhill with your wife you have established a history of her instability. That will weigh heavily with the court. 7/11 was a part time job! Psalm 35:19 Let not them that are mine enemies wrongfully rejoice over me: neither let them wink with the eye that hate me without a cause. |
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BunBun User ID: 68955729 United States 06/10/2015 02:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of What is the child doing or not doing? You need to get a therapist. Men never think to get a therapist involved. Probably, your wife is having trouble functioning and needs help and she isn't well enough to deal with the child. Instead of hating your wife, why don't you go see a therapist with the whole family and find out if there is a problem with both your wife and your child. Maybe the child does have some kind of problem. If you aren't there during the day, then you aren't going to know or be able to understand it. Christard and Lover of God |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69466377 Thailand 06/10/2015 02:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of It's Concerta or Ritalin. Mind you she is on prozac herself but seeing as she is the mother of my kids and i didn't know any better at the time about these poison pills. I am sure she has become severly brain damaged after all these years of taking these pills and now she is raising our daughter on half a brains. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66185270 If she needs a stimulant, adderal is much cleaner. The other two are just modified derivatives of adderal, changed for patent/profit reasons. Generic aderal is clean and cheap. It is not a sucide pill like an ssri, and can really help kids who need it. Just underdo the dose, and play with it. It is just speed. I prefer not taking it, but i have taken it occasionally my whole life. ********Wisconsin Ginseng is a VERRRRY good alternative. Get the chips from a reputable dealer or Chinese grocer. Be careful online, some 'sang gets mold and causes headaches (you can tell from the edges). Steep the tea in a crock pot for an hour. It has the same effects of aderal without the side effects. It is friggin amazing, and not cheap, but worth it. It lasts all day, with no crash. There is a guy in WI with a small farm who exports to China and pulls in $20 million a year. the shit is awesome. I am considering growing it myself, for use and profit. It is worth it's weight in silver. Really. Try the 'sang first. it should do the trick. the pills are not the same. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69466377 Thailand 06/10/2015 02:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of What is the child doing or not doing? Quoting: BunBun You need to get a therapist. Men never think to get a therapist involved. Probably, your wife is having trouble functioning and needs help and she isn't well enough to deal with the child. Instead of hating your wife, why don't you go see a therapist with the whole family and find out if there is a problem with both your wife and your child. Maybe the child does have some kind of problem. If you aren't there during the day, then you aren't going to know or be able to understand it. Unless you have reached complete enlightenment and have gone all the way down the rabbit hole, therapists are useless. They are mental slave drivers just like the media. I have been to them on both sides of the looking glass. Don't go unless you know exactly what I am talking about. It is a ripoff and counterproductive. |
BunBun User ID: 68955729 United States 06/10/2015 02:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of I am mentally ill, but some of it was from childhood abuse and some of it is from mental abuse that my husband has put me through as well as having an autistic child and not having a stable financial situation. I am coping the best that I can, but I am taking care of an autistic child with no money everyday. I am cooking sausage and biscuits or biscuits and gravy or very inexpensive cuts of meat to feed lunches and making do for suppers the best that I can. We can't afford to go anywhere and everytime I get in the car and go somewhere I have a terrible anxiety attack because I am afraid the car will break down and we won't be able to fix it. My youngest son doesn't have autism, but the doc thinks he has ADD. I have all of us in therapy, but the situation is such that I just got the youngest to get out of bed at 1:00 and I have been trying to get him to get up since 10:30. As a mother, when you see this behavior with an almost 18 year old male and you see them work 4 days for 5 hours at the job they have and they think that it's too hard, what are you supposed to do? I put his ass on paxil. I had enough of the depression with that boy. I know things have been difficult and his dad and I have fought a lot with this business and with our personal relationship problems. Dad has issues too. I bet you do as well. Getting shitty with the wife isn't the answer. You are supposed to be working with her and if she is sick, then you need to HELP HER. Depression is just as bad as a broken leg. You can't walk on it and you can't force yourself to get better. You need help. Probably the prozac isn't doing it and if there are additional stressors on the family, she is definitely going to need additional professional help. I'm sure you are doing your best to provide for the family, but maybe there is some behavioral problem with the child. You have to get professional help and find out. What is the wife seeing that is making her think there is a problem with the girl? What is going on in the household while you are gone? I realize that not every mother is a good mother and not every mother is committed to helping their children. I struggle, but I keep fighting to raise my children. I love them very much. My youngest is doing better on the paxil, but he isn't getting the message that now that he's graduated high school, he's going to have to grow up. I'm struggling and I am here alone with them all day 6 days a week. I keep telling him that the situation we are in, we might need him to help us pay bills and he needs to get more hours or a second job, but all he wants to do is sleep and play video games on steam with his friends. How much longer should childhood go on. I have explained to him that the childhood that he has been allowed to have thus far was courtesy of his grandfather who has been keeping our business afloat. His father and I are in no position to do for him. He needs to start carrying his weight a little. Raising children is very hard. It's even harder when the two parents aren't on the same page, when the dad isn't working with the mother and especially when the dad secretly hates the mother and thinks she's a bitch and treats her accordingly. That is no longer a marriage, but a war zone. It seems that maybe your daughter is feeling the strain. Christard and Lover of God |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69466377 Thailand 06/10/2015 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of It's Concerta or Ritalin. Mind you she is on prozac herself but seeing as she is the mother of my kids and i didn't know any better at the time about these poison pills. I am sure she has become severly brain damaged after all these years of taking these pills and now she is raising our daughter on half a brains. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66185270 If she needs a stimulant, adderal is much cleaner. The other two are just modified derivatives of adderal, changed for patent/profit reasons. Generic aderal is clean and cheap. It is not a sucide pill like an ssri, and can really help kids who need it. Just underdo the dose, and play with it. It is just speed. I prefer not taking it, but i have taken it occasionally my whole life. ********Wisconsin Ginseng is a VERRRRY good alternative. Get the chips from a reputable dealer or Chinese grocer. Be careful online, some 'sang gets mold and causes headaches (you can tell from the edges). Steep the tea in a crock pot for an hour. It has the same effects of aderal without the side effects. It is friggin amazing, and not cheap, but worth it. It lasts all day, with no crash. There is a guy in WI with a small farm who exports to China and pulls in $20 million a year. the shit is awesome. I am considering growing it myself, for use and profit. It is worth it's weight in silver. Really. Try the 'sang first. it should do the trick. the pills are not the same. Meaning ginseng pills are not the same as the Wisconsin Ginseng chips. Ancient Chinese secret. |
BoredBoredBored User ID: 69065950 Albania 06/10/2015 02:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of It's not a great sign when you wife has to take pills to cope with the marriage. Personally, I would have just left you, but some women think they can't afford to - so off to the drug shop they go. Maybe consider how things got to that level of desperation in the first place. |
PirateMonkey User ID: 4509861 United States 06/10/2015 05:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Wife wants to put daughter on suicide pills because she thinks she is too difficult to take care of I am mentally ill, but some of it was from childhood abuse and some of it is from mental abuse that my husband has put me through as well as having an autistic child and not having a stable financial situation. Quoting: BunBun I am coping the best that I can, but I am taking care of an autistic child with no money everyday. I am cooking sausage and biscuits or biscuits and gravy or very inexpensive cuts of meat to feed lunches and making do for suppers the best that I can. We can't afford to go anywhere and everytime I get in the car and go somewhere I have a terrible anxiety attack because I am afraid the car will break down and we won't be able to fix it. My youngest son doesn't have autism, but the doc thinks he has ADD. I have all of us in therapy, but the situation is such that I just got the youngest to get out of bed at 1:00 and I have been trying to get him to get up since 10:30. As a mother, when you see this behavior with an almost 18 year old male and you see them work 4 days for 5 hours at the job they have and they think that it's too hard, what are you supposed to do? I put his ass on paxil. I had enough of the depression with that boy. I know things have been difficult and his dad and I have fought a lot with this business and with our personal relationship problems. Dad has issues too. I bet you do as well. Getting shitty with the wife isn't the answer. You are supposed to be working with her and if she is sick, then you need to HELP HER. Depression is just as bad as a broken leg. You can't walk on it and you can't force yourself to get better. You need help. Probably the prozac isn't doing it and if there are additional stressors on the family, she is definitely going to need additional professional help. I'm sure you are doing your best to provide for the family, but maybe there is some behavioral problem with the child. You have to get professional help and find out. What is the wife seeing that is making her think there is a problem with the girl? What is going on in the household while you are gone? I realize that not every mother is a good mother and not every mother is committed to helping their children. I struggle, but I keep fighting to raise my children. I love them very much. My youngest is doing better on the paxil, but he isn't getting the message that now that he's graduated high school, he's going to have to grow up. I'm struggling and I am here alone with them all day 6 days a week. I keep telling him that the situation we are in, we might need him to help us pay bills and he needs to get more hours or a second job, but all he wants to do is sleep and play video games on steam with his friends. How much longer should childhood go on. I have explained to him that the childhood that he has been allowed to have thus far was courtesy of his grandfather who has been keeping our business afloat. His father and I are in no position to do for him. He needs to start carrying his weight a little. Raising children is very hard. It's even harder when the two parents aren't on the same page, when the dad isn't working with the mother and especially when the dad secretly hates the mother and thinks she's a bitch and treats her accordingly. That is no longer a marriage, but a war zone. It seems that maybe your daughter is feeling the strain. This is exactly why there should be mandatory service for kids when they finish high school. Military, Peace Corp, Church Mission... anything that takes them out of the home and forces them to serve others. Kids at that age need help understanding their place in the world and that it's much colder and harder than the world their parents have sheltered them from. This also gives them the opportunity to learn about themselves and what they are capable of doing at a very critical time in their development. 7/11 was a part time job! Psalm 35:19 Let not them that are mine enemies wrongfully rejoice over me: neither let them wink with the eye that hate me without a cause. |