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Anonymous Coward
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07/25/2015 02:34 AM
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need help GLP family
I have split custody of my 5 yr old with my ex.
Today I went and picked him up for the weekend. He starts telling me his mom's boyfriend was slamming her against the wall and holding a knife to her throat. . .

I need help, what legal options do I have?

I definitely don't want my son thinking that's how men treat women.
But most importantly I'm worried about his safety.
Anonymous Coward
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07/25/2015 02:35 AM
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Re: need help GLP family
Hire some people to teach him a lesson...
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07/25/2015 02:36 AM
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He goes back monday, and my stomach knots up just thinking of sending him back to that
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07/25/2015 02:36 AM
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I have no idea, don't have kids with a stupid bitch with poor judgment I guess.
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07/25/2015 02:57 AM
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Re: need help GLP family
Call local leo's to speak to him? If old enough they be able to give you some direction? Also in this state refusal to return the child is only contempt of court. Gives you time to seek help before returning the child? Or file for an emergency order if the child is old enough to voice concern.
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07/25/2015 02:57 AM

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Check into the guys background.
Seek legal advice, first meeting usually free.
Get your son a phone so he can call you.
Hire a detective. Not joking, this is how I helped my sister win custody of my niece. Worth every penny and was not as expensive as you would think.
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07/25/2015 02:59 AM
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Check into the guys background.
Seek legal advice, first meeting usually free.
Get your son a phone so he can call you.
Hire a detective. Not joking, this is how I helped my sister win custody of my niece. Worth every penny and was not as expensive as you would think.
 Quoting: SkinnyChic


Detective is great advice!
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07/25/2015 03:01 AM

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call the domestic violence hot line
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07/25/2015 03:06 AM
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call the cops u will get full custody instantly if u do it the right way

never let your son go here again
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07/25/2015 03:08 AM
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I need help, what legal options do I have?

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Contact a lawyer for legal advice and confidentiality.
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07/25/2015 03:13 AM
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Talk to your ex and see if she needs help getting out of an abusive situation?
SkinnyChic

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07/25/2015 03:13 AM

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Re: need help GLP family
Check into the guys background.
Seek legal advice, first meeting usually free.
Get your son a phone so he can call you.
Hire a detective. Not joking, this is how I helped my sister win custody of my niece. Worth every penny and was not as expensive as you would think.
 Quoting: SkinnyChic


Detective is great advice!
 Quoting: American Cowgirl


Thanks! My detective was a miracle worker! Got video inside house through open windows, followed him even into the bar with video of him sitting there drinking for hours and then video of him driving my niece while he was drunk. We showed up to fight in court but with all the evidence he had we didn't need to! Worth every penny!!!!!!
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07/25/2015 03:18 AM
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Domestic violence is no joke. Being around that kind of terroristic rage causes PTSD at the very least and can get innocent people killed. Sending you encouragement to stand strong for your son's wellbeing. I pray that you see a clear path of action and that all turns out to your advantage.
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07/25/2015 03:40 AM
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Talk to your ex and see if she needs help getting out of an abusive situation?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14992014


Terrible advice. Don't get involved or in the middle of this unless you want your son to grow up without a father. The ex needs to want to get out of it but she's probably too weak-willed to do it "because she loves him". Normal women don't stick around for that after even one episode of domestic violence or abuse. Doubt it's the first time.
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07/25/2015 03:43 AM
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Talk to your ex and see if she needs help getting out of an abusive situation?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14992014


Terrible advice. Don't get involved or in the middle of this unless you want your son to grow up without a father. The ex needs to want to get out of it but she's probably too weak-willed to do it "because she loves him". Normal women don't stick around for that after even one episode of domestic violence or abuse. Doubt it's the first time.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65201002


Normal women don't put their OWN children in harm's way or allow their children to grow up in an abusive household.
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07/25/2015 03:47 AM
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Re: need help GLP family
Talk to your ex and see if she needs help getting out of an abusive situation?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14992014


Terrible advice. Don't get involved or in the middle of this unless you want your son to grow up without a father. The ex needs to want to get out of it but she's probably too weak-willed to do it "because she loves him". Normal women don't stick around for that after even one episode of domestic violence or abuse. Doubt it's the first time.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65201002


Normal women don't put their OWN children in harm's way or allow their children to grow up in an abusive household.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65201002


Women who do this are so selfish, they aren't victims like society wants you to believe, they are putting their own sick need to be in a drama-filled relationship over the safety of their own children!

OP, I suggest you call CPS. They take this shit seriously and won't let your child back into your ex's custody unless visits are supervised.
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07/25/2015 04:36 AM
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You should get back with your ex. You picked him in the first place.
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07/25/2015 06:40 AM
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Talk to your ex and see if she needs help getting out of an abusive situation?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14992014


Thank you this is the best answer.

You have to do what's best for the child and ripping them away from their mother is slightly morbid.

If parents don't like the other parents new boyfriends and girlfriends around their kids, why did they get divorced?

Divorce is always a dumb idea unless it's an extreme situation but divorce lawyers will always tell you it's the first option.





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