GLP Help Needed... My Marriage is in serious jeopardy...

An obvious lie no matter what other words are used is only FUCK YOU using other nicer words.
Until she stops with the FUCK YOU its got no upside potential, a lie maintained means only one thing, ITS OVER.

If she says "ima finna git me sum chicken" then its bbc. Or, if she really loves that tv show Ellen then......

This is the best advice here! Go love her, pay attention to her. I wish you all the best.

Shit, my wife lost 98 pounds in the last 9 months.

Could you tell?

Two things...
One: You better learn how to eat the pussy right fast of she'll be off quicker than a dress at a father/daughter dance in West Virginia.

Two: You are an idiot for confronting her about this shit. You already know she's lying. You are beating a dead horse, she never would have admitted the account existed in a million years, so just knock her up so you can trick her into staying with you.

Could you tell?

Each other? It only takes one to screw up a marriage

Knocking her up will add 1000 per month in support and alimony payments to the total bill, what are you, Amish?

Kill her.

don't ignore evidence
my son suspected his woman was sneaking with the tard son of her employers
six months she convinced him he was crazy
and in all honesty I didn't believe she would do it
searched her phone records(cause he pays her cell bill)
and found she had indeed been texting the guy for months
he was at my house when he checked the phone records and I will never forget the look on his face as long as I live
they have two small children or she would be gone
you think you know someone but you don't
she even swore on her children nothing was going on

found out later that when he called at 10 pm from my house (8 hours away from his house)to confront her the creep was in my son's house
integrity is a rare thing these days
I love this girl like she is my own
I forgive her because that is who I am
my son is trying to forgive her,not so easy for him
he will not leave his precious children

Someone suggested being careful, and I suggest you do as well.

You just don't know what that page is about. She could have a stalker she's afraid of telling you about because you act this way and she's using a second blank account to look at her real one.

There's all kinds of reasons to have a dummy account.

As for the "checking in", if it's tagged to her phone, ie, she verified the account using her mobile phone number, it's going to ping her location periodically. Unless you go into settings and purposefully turn that "feature" off FB is going to be doing that. If the dummy account is at all related or connected to her real page then postings on the real page can cross pollinate location data.

Remember, it only takes 4 - 6 data points to pinpoint who a person is, even without a digital trail, and Facebook and Google are amazingly good at it.

You already don't trust her. What gives you the right to be a creeper and secretly stalk her? That's creepy as fuck. If you think something is up, talk to her.. she is your WIFE.

If you can't have an honest conversation and trust her, then its already over and you both need to chat about parting ways as amicably as possible before you both get too bitter with each other and do something one of you regrets.

Seriously - the people stalking profiles, cell phones, etc is getting ridiculous and you have insecurity issues for one reason or another - whether warranted or not.

FWIW - it is her account. If the IP's match, the email matches, the passwords match, then it is her secret account. I doubt she is special enough to have some secret stalker. The simplest solution is generally the correct solution.

I would say she lied to you. Maybe she is simply as miserable as you are and is looking up all her friends, or is flirting with other men or even past flings to try and keep herself marginally happy, since your relationship already sucks because you obviously don't trust eachother.

She doesn't trust you, because she is cleaning the account.

You both have an opportunity to just come clean and admit how much things suck and decide whether it is worth fixing, or if you'd both be happier doing something else. Hopefully when she reads all of these replies you both realize it is worth talking about and not pretending the issue is something else.

Last Edited by ifSHTF on 11/19/2015 07:57 AM

She is done with you, move on.

Hes not leaving her, the state is taking daddy away so the kids can meet her various boyfriends one after the other..
She will run off eventually if theres any money in it for her.

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Another good reason to be careful is that it really sucks to be accused of something even though you are innocent.

Play it cool and get good cards(evidence) before you go playing your hand.

Reading comprehension isn't a skill you posess I take it. The author of the reply was advising the original poster to be crafty in his snooping.

Yes you know this is the solution.

your wife has facebook.

that's enough grounds for divorce.

Meh my wife pulled the same shit. She's now my ex wife. It's not worth the mind fuck OP

You are one guys that blame all his life failures on his woman, are you not? 1st its password guessing, next its "putting your lady in a sleeper hold to calm her down and make her go to sleep" because she's high strung.

Some men are so un intelligent that they must now resort to crude neanderthal like tactics to remain in control.


guess what? MEN HAVE NEVER BEEN IN CONTROL OF WOMAN. Your material garbage dont mean shit to women on the path. The houses mankind builds for 'home' today are made of toxic "manville" materials succeptible to mold rot mildew loosing tiny particles of poison into the air over time which are making People sick! MANVILLE FAIL.

The only thing woman ever needed from mankind is love and appreciation, and her rightful place by your side with freedom of space if she so chooses, along with a pure home and family. Any man that does not get this either tries fruitlessly to control, or destroy his lady, sometimes raping or killing her, inevitiably seeking companionship with each others cocks because they are incapable of being real men.

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Make a similar account for you, just like hers.

Leave it open one day. Let her find it.

She will think you are doing the same as her. Hopefully, the truth comes out.

tell her you know she's a Lizard person!

Completely stupid advice, the court will see hers as a cry for help and yours as abusive and mean.
Even squeeky clean isnt clean enough for men in family court.

You sound like quite the catch for some lucky lad, yes indeed

I wouldn't worry. I also have a ghost Facebook account. I don't use it for nefarious purposes, I just use it to see what my other family members are doing. I don't want them to know that I have a Facebook acct.

Have you checked the Ashley Madison dump for her name?

If not. Is that something you'd really want to know?

There are 100s of sites and millions of lonely people ..

Marriage is just a legality .. Counseling is not a bad idea,but you both need to open up be honest with each other .. And yourselves.

oh you automatically assume a woman wants to be caught?

Problem 1-Men today think once they 'catch' one,they are not required to release her.