really strange my gf is happier to talk to a stranger than to me via text | |
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darkwolf007 User ID: 45524775 United States 11/25/2015 10:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So over the weekend we had an awkward moment after sex with a slight emotional breakdown from her about us but swore it was just so unreal etc. She made it clear she doesn't want a break. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70899755 She knew I was gonna get a new phone. Yesterday my phone card ended and I wanted to wait to get a new phone later after work. All day I guess I obsessed with how she would be so sad that she couldn't talk to men I envisioned her being sad because her bfs phone was dead. I went and got a new phone with a new phone number. I was giddy to mess with her via text. I tested her acting goofy pretending that I had the wrong number but kept texting. At first she was saying don't text me again etc. Then I got a lol out of her. I then was like where are you from and she told me. I said I lived in the area too. She seemed excited to be talking to a new guy. I didn't get super weird just mostly gibberish. But I was weirded out how she insisted at times to keep the conversation going. I got her to lol 2 or 3 times. At this point I was the last thing on her mind. The bf she hadn't talked to all day.....Then I confessed it was me and I felt the magic die. She goes "oh". Then her next response was "good times". The conversation died when she realised it was her own bfs she was talking to. It took her at least 15 minutes to get back on track and start talking fine to me. I dunno just odd right? Why is a woman sending lol's to complete strangers? It could of been a fluke. I don't know, but maybe she felt that you betrayed her trust by leading her on. You should apologize to her and make sure things are alright between you two. This type of crap can cause a growing rift between you two. Clear the air before the rift grows too wide and the emotional damages become too great to fix. Conspiracy Theorist is nothing more than a derogatory title used to dismiss a critical thinker. A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, 'You are mad; you are not like us." -- St. Anthony The Great Social Credit Loser here. |
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darkwolf007 User ID: 45413956 United States 11/26/2015 04:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bingo! You hit the nail on the head with OP's issue, Boris. Sad too. It's people like that who ruin perfectly good relationships too. Conspiracy Theorist is nothing more than a derogatory title used to dismiss a critical thinker. A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, 'You are mad; you are not like us." -- St. Anthony The Great Social Credit Loser here. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 49891729 United States 11/26/2015 05:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Made it clear means made sure she convinced you. Doesn't mean she's cheating (yet) but it means you need to really start thinking about number one (you). Especially if you want things to have a chance of working out long term. You are probably overly dependent |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12345495 Australia 11/26/2015 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I grew tired of that after some time and caught her deliberately dodging my call after just having got off the phone with her friend. I lost my shit and took the phone from her and threw to the wall and smash the shit out of it. "You wanna act like you're a big shot and you don't need me then fine you go and get your own damn job and buy your own phone. Then you can ignore me all you want" The reaction was some sobbing but I stood firm. She said she was sorry and then I told her it the phone got what it was good for now it's yours. Threw her on the bed and proceeded to smash it up. There was a complete change after that, 180degree turnabout. I even got sandwiches and shit. Point is be a man and keep her in her place and you'll get the respect you deserve and she won't even think about talking to another man. Well I just bought my wife a $1200 Iphone cos of the new found respect, tried to call her earlier today and she didnt answer.... and round and round we go. |
darkwolf007 User ID: 45413956 United States 11/26/2015 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I bought my wife a $700 phone. She would take countless pictures of herself, message constantly with friends, more selfies etc. When I called or messaged it would ring out or reply would come hours later. Missed calls weren't always returned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12345495 I grew tired of that after some time and caught her deliberately dodging my call after just having got off the phone with her friend. I lost my shit and took the phone from her and threw to the wall and smash the shit out of it. "You wanna act like you're a big shot and you don't need me then fine you go and get your own damn job and buy your own phone. Then you can ignore me all you want" The reaction was some sobbing but I stood firm. She said she was sorry and then I told her it the phone got what it was good for now it's yours. Threw her on the bed and proceeded to smash it up. There was a complete change after that, 180degree turnabout. I even got sandwiches and shit. Point is be a man and keep her in her place and you'll get the respect you deserve and she won't even think about talking to another man. Well I just bought my wife a $1200 Iphone cos of the new found respect, tried to call her earlier today and she didnt answer.... and round and round we go. Man... you can buy yourself a decent used car for $1200, Aussie AC. That's good that you earned your respect with her. Congrats. Funny how there are people like that too. They'll run you over repeatedly till you stand up for yourself then they'll either take two roads with you. One being learning to respect you as you've grew a spine, and the other road is they'll hate you more than ever and may even try to murder you for your standing up for yourself. Conspiracy Theorist is nothing more than a derogatory title used to dismiss a critical thinker. A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, 'You are mad; you are not like us." -- St. Anthony The Great Social Credit Loser here. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12345495 Australia 11/26/2015 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I bought my wife a $700 phone. She would take countless pictures of herself, message constantly with friends, more selfies etc. When I called or messaged it would ring out or reply would come hours later. Missed calls weren't always returned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12345495 I grew tired of that after some time and caught her deliberately dodging my call after just having got off the phone with her friend. I lost my shit and took the phone from her and threw to the wall and smash the shit out of it. "You wanna act like you're a big shot and you don't need me then fine you go and get your own damn job and buy your own phone. Then you can ignore me all you want" The reaction was some sobbing but I stood firm. She said she was sorry and then I told her it the phone got what it was good for now it's yours. Threw her on the bed and proceeded to smash it up. There was a complete change after that, 180degree turnabout. I even got sandwiches and shit. Point is be a man and keep her in her place and you'll get the respect you deserve and she won't even think about talking to another man. Well I just bought my wife a $1200 Iphone cos of the new found respect, tried to call her earlier today and she didnt answer.... and round and round we go. This is all completely made up by the way but the moral to the story has a truth to it and therein lay your solution. I'm too much of a tight ass to spend that much on a phone. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12345495 Australia 11/26/2015 06:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Man... you can buy yourself a decent used car for $1200, Aussie AC. That's good that you earned your respect with her. Congrats. Funny how there are people like that too. They'll run you over repeatedly till you stand up for yourself then they'll either take two roads with you. One being learning to respect you as you've grew a spine, and the other road is they'll hate you more than ever and may even try to murder you for your standing up for yourself. Quoting: darkwolf007 $1200 for a used car?! One that drives? Wow, spend that much and you're lucky if the thing has wheels in Oz. Yeah we have prices jacked on everything here. |
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