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M1.618 User ID: 61275893 Canada 11/30/2015 03:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. 11 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; He that overcometh shall not be hurt of the second death. 12 And to the angel of the church in Pergamos write; These things saith he which hath the sharp sword with two edges; 13 I know thy works, and where thou dwellest, even where Satan's seat is: and thou holdest fast my name, and hast not denied my faith, even in those days wherein Antipas was my faithful martyr, who was slain among you, where Satan dwelleth. 14 But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication. 15 So hast thou also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitanes, which thing I hate. 16 Repent; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth. 17 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the hidden manna, and will give him a white stone, and in the stone a new name written, which no man knoweth saving he that receiveth it. wmMmw |
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M1.618 User ID: 61275893 Canada 11/30/2015 03:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. And who gives an F if it does. The Bible was written by man. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 61898857 Why would anyone live their life based on the literal words of a desert, nomadic, Semitic tribe from over 2,500 years ago? There are some good moral parables, but those are to be found in the literature or oral traditions of all cultures around the world. Try to live by the Golden Rule. Actually you are speaking about the Torah, the bible is different and unique among literature. What is the "Golden Rule" outside of the context of the bible, found in traditions of all cultures? You really have to ask??... Treat others as you'd like them to treat you. How is the Bible different and unique among literature? Yes I do, as you have learned that not from other writings but the gospels in the bible. Your entire world is relative to the bible, in great part. It's story has influenced recorded history more than anything else in your knowledge at this point. This makes it unique. Even if you were Chinese. wmMmw |
Turkey456 User ID: 70889363 United States 11/30/2015 03:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. Revelation 2 Quoting: M1.618 11 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; He that overcometh shall not be hurt of the second death. 12 And to the angel of the church in Pergamos write; These things saith he which hath the sharp sword with two edges; 13 I know thy works, and where thou dwellest, even where Satan's seat is: and thou holdest fast my name, and hast not denied my faith, even in those days wherein Antipas was my faithful martyr, who was slain among you, where Satan dwelleth. 14 But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication. 15 So hast thou also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitanes, which thing I hate. 16 Repent; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth. 17 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the hidden manna, and will give him a white stone, and in the stone a new name written, which no man knoweth saving he that receiveth it. Thanks, this is important on today's world stage and LARGE organised religions that usurped Jesus Christ's work as a weapon..... The Doctrine of the Nicolaitanes Revelation 2:15, "So hast thou also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitanes, which thing I hate." In the Ephesian Age, the word, Nicolaitane, comes from two Greek words: Nikao which means to conquer, and Lao which means the laity. Nicolaitane means, "to conquer the laity." Now why is this such a terrible thing? It is terrible because God has never placed His church in the hands of an elected leadership which moves with political mindedness.... [link to avenueoflight.com] Last Edited by Turkey456 on 11/30/2015 03:47 AM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69149990 United States 11/30/2015 04:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. Sorry for the slow response, here's your scripture: Quoting: javierruizleon "but on account of fornications, let each have his own wife, and each woman have her own husband." 1 Corinthians 7:2 "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 Kind of makes me wish arranged marriages were still round sometimes.at lest back then I would have had a decent chance to find a loyal bride,and reproduce. But sadly I was born in the modern corrupted era,to a conservative family.So that makes me 'square' right off the bat to large number of modern women. Secondly I have bad mental issues,and highly suspect I'm on the autistic spectrum.Empathy and emotions are hard for me.and frankly I don't even feel human,when I try to communicate with people half the time.I don't 'get' people at all. So here I am a virgin at 32,and no relief in sight. I ll too often turn to porn and masturbation,because I have zero other sexual outlets.I have heavily considered a prostitute in the past,but have never carried through I just don't understand why God is so critical of us being so vulnerable,to an instinct he ingrained so thoroughly in us.Especially in the modern corrupt era,where we are sexualized so young. and how unfair it is to people like me that are 'off in the head',just enough to have severe social deficiencies. but at the same time be fully aware of what we are missing out on. Have you considered therapy/counseling? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70554723 United States 11/30/2015 04:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. What was the law for the thousands of years or more before Moses? From Moses until Christ Marriage to the church. Preachers want talk about this. No more Jews, all are one under Christ, old law done away with. Ephesians 2:15 Having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of twain one new man, so making peace; |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 68585979 United States 11/30/2015 04:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. The truth is, I've been a committed relationship with the same woman for 10 years. We own property together, our finances are combined, and we have 2 children. We are "married" in every sense of the word except for the government permission slip that says we are married. Our reasoning for not being "legally married" is strictly financial... long story short it benefits us to be unwed in the legal sense. What people must understand is that God was wise enough to allow his Word to be easily accessible by the masses. You can pick up a Bible at any number of stores in your locale. It's not just for some clergy elite to interpret and tell you what to do, for as history demonstrates they often have gotten it wrong or used it to suit their own agenda. Since we are all beings with critical thinking skills, we can ALL form our own opinions (within reason) about what God's message is. Now if you delve into Biblical "marriage", traditionally it was permission from a woman's father for her to co-habitate with another male... usually accompanied by a dowry. That's it. There were no courts, no "legal bindings", no tax unifications, no government permission slips. End of story. "Fornication" came from the Greek word "pornea" which essentially meant a sexual slave trade. "Adultery" meant being unfaithful to one's SPOUSE. Neither of those words mean JUST sex outside of marriage. There are specific conditions associated with them. I'm unaware of any scripture that explicitly forbids sex outside of marriage simply on the condition that they are not married - and I'd challenge anyone to present such a passage. To further my point, my significant other and I have joined a new church in the EXACT SAME synod. Our current pastor questioned the details of our relationship, and when we explained all of the above he asked us: "Do you consider yourselves married in Christ"? "Yes, we do" "Then I don't see a problem." And we haven't heard a peep about it since. So you see... as far as the Church's go it all depends on who's behind the pulpit. God didn't want us to blindly follow Church leaders, he wants us to come to his Word on our own terms. Granted, we are imperfect beings and every last one of us could be interpreting things incorrectly, but that is why Christ was sent to save us. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33347459 United States 11/30/2015 04:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. I say you're trying to find excuses for your sinful behavior. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70920272 For it is also written: But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I might as well rip my eyes out of my head then. Been married for over 25 years, never cheated on my wife and never will. It is impossible, however, to pretend that other beautiful woman do not exist. Appreciating their beauty from afar does not imply adultery. |
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A Believer User ID: 70929722 Australia 11/30/2015 05:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. I say you're trying to find excuses for your sinful behavior. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70920272 For it is also written: But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I might as well rip my eyes out of my head then. Been married for over 25 years, never cheated on my wife and never will. It is impossible, however, to pretend that other beautiful woman do not exist. Appreciating their beauty from afar does not imply adultery. It is referring to lustful intent over another women. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70669417 United States 11/30/2015 05:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. the hebrew word for "fornication" is zanah Quoting: Salt means: zanah - a primitive root [highly fed and therefore wanton]; to commit adultery (usually of the female, and less often of simple fornication, rarely of involuntary ravishment); figuratively, to commit idolatry (the Jewish people being regarded as the spouse of Jehovah):—(cause to) commit fornication, × continually, × great, (be an, play the) harlot, (cause to be, play the) whore, (commit, fall to) whoredom, (cause to) go a-whoring, whorish. to commit fornication, be a harlot, play the harlot to be a harlot, act as a harlot to commit adultery to be a cult prostitute to be unfaithful (to God) (fig.) to play the harlot to cause to commit adultery to force into prostitution to commit fornication [link to www.blueletterbible.org (secure)] what say you? The thing is, you're committing adultery against your future spouse or the future spouse of someone else when you have sex outside of marriage. I know it's really tough to not have sex before marriage and everyone who isn't a conservative Christian laughs at the idea, but honestly, I wish I had waited until I was married. I would have saved myself a lot of emotional pain. Seriously, I know how tough it is to abstain, so don't think I'm being high and mighty. If you've messed up and feel guilty, or if you think I'm wrong and later see that I'm right and feel guilty, remember that there's nothing God hasn't already forgiven (but you have to repent). Explain to me how having consensual sex with another human being (both single) is adultery. I just don't see it, I did not know my spouse the hundreds of times I had sex before I met her, nor did she know me. But we comitted adultery towards each other.......? DOES NOT COMPUTE..........ERROR.......ERRORRRR...... Seriously though, help me understand this if you would. Thanks in advance. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70930934 Ireland 11/30/2015 05:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. I say you're trying to find excuses for your sinful behavior. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70920272 For it is also written: But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Yep. That's the clincher and the one where all red blooded men fall. No ambiguity. |
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A Believer User ID: 70929722 Australia 11/30/2015 05:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. So we're not in agreement, some say sex is fine before marriage? Simpletons I say, we know sexual activity outside of marriage is against God's law's. Last Edited by Moving mountains on 11/30/2015 07:05 AM 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70925251 United Kingdom 11/30/2015 06:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. So we\'re morning agreement, some say sex is fine before marriage? Simpletons I say, we know sexual activity outside of marriage is against God\'s law\'s. Quoting: A Believer according to the bible, sex IS marriage. And what is the divorce? There is no divorce, because you can't undo having sex. Does this aspect of the bible make more sense now? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46761908 United States 11/30/2015 06:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. So we\\\'re morning agreement, some say sex is fine before marriage? Simpletons I say, we know sexual activity outside of marriage is against God\\\'s law\\\'s. Quoting: A Believer according to the bible, sex IS marriage. And what is the divorce? There is no divorce, because you can\'t undo having sex. Does this aspect of the bible make more sense now? Does it mean the whole US population is one big happy family now? |
Candle_In_the_Wind Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 65955727 United States 11/30/2015 06:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70920272 (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70925251 United Kingdom 11/30/2015 06:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. There is no divorce, because you can\'t undo having sex. Does this aspect of the bible make more sense now? Does it mean the whole US population is one big happy family now? lol |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70922063 Ireland 11/30/2015 07:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. Whoredom/Whore-mongering is sex outside marriage. They give gifts to all whores: but thou givest thy gifts to all thy lovers, and hirest them, that they may come unto thee on every side for thy whoredom. Ezekiel 16:33 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70922063 Ireland 11/30/2015 07:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Does the biblical definition of fornication really mean sex without marriage? I'm not so sure about that.. But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70920272 You can only commit adultery if that women is married or if you are married. |