The PAIN when you discover a loved family member is a psychopath

How did you find out? What behaviors did they have?

Psychopaths is a word created by medical field like ADHD and autism. Why u so stupid?

People who are hard to program. OH lets just brainwash people into believeing those individuals are psychopathic and make people hate them and shun them so that they self destruct on their own. Brilliant!

Hong Kong you don't know what you are talking about. Sounds like you've never had the experience of growing up with narcissits.

Yes my best friends oldest son is a diagnosed psychopath.

When he was very young age 6-10 he often would intentionally hurt people and animals and destroy everything/

I thought I could reason with him and would often try talking to him at this young age.

He would openly admit to me that it makes him feel good and he enjoys hurting people and animals.

Now that he is 17, Conner is a a very successful at social media and has very large following in a number of communities and networks.

He looks angelic girls love him, he steals does drugs fights and is huge coward. He takes of advantage of all those he can, and abuses them when ever he thinks he can get away with it.

Parents have spent hundreds of thousands literally trying to help him , but now have given up on him.

His parents are counting down the day that they can legally bar him from the home when he turns 18.

I am afraid ultimately what will happen here at this home and pray for all of them.

My older brother is a psychopath/malignant narcissist, and used to beat me so bad he almost broke bones when I was kid. Flash forward 25 years later, and he still stalks me, shows up at my workplace, spreads false information about. Had to report him to the police, who suggested I take out a restraining order on him. But what's interesting, is that most of the family adores him and thinks he can do no wrong. They follow him like little lemmings.

I am one myself and my friend is one also and also my mother and grandmother. Speak for yourself but this is just signs of intelligent humans that are hard to program because they have thick skin and good genes.

You must have done something to him for him to behave like this. Psychopaths are not 100% pure evil. They are not mentally ill either nor are they out to get everyone that cheats them or hurts their feelings.

the behavior was extremely charming and "caring" with lots of concern for me, and expensive gift giving, emails and phone calls to me. She tried to make me feel special...and she did-- to the point that she edged out my other friends.

She is an older second cousin who lives in Iceland--- so not genetically that close, but over 12 years she reeled me in like a prize fish-- and all that time I thought she liked and respected me-- so I confided in her, which is the exact wrong thing to do with a psychopath!!! They use every confidence against you for their own narcissistic supply reasons.

When my mom died she quickly swooped in-- taking my mom's place in my mind-- as as trusted female relative..

I kind of new that something was not quite right-- and I started feeling put upon by having to reciprocate so many expensive gifts from her (she is wealthy) -- but I really missed my mom and she (the psychopath) is the last older female relative I have left-- and she is highly educated and intelligent and I respected that--- so I overlooked the signs that she was using me for narcissistic supply..

I also wanted connection to my Icelandic roots and she provided this (at a great cost, I found out...)

Suffice it to say, I found out that she was a Narcissist, when my abusive father got Alzheimers disease, and asked for my help in fixing his broken computer. I did so and I found 12 years of trashing emails about me from her (the cousin) to my own Dad--- where they were both laughing about me, skewering my character and gaslighting me behind my stupid back!!

The two of them -- both narcissists with PhDs--- were having a field day at my expense behind my back, and I never suspected a thing--- in all those years..!! I have since learned everything possible now about this disorder so that I never repeat this scenario again. I did feel like such a dupe--- but they are very clever and deceitful, and I can't blame myself too much for not seeing it coming.

I did see signs, (like she would stare at me with this cold, assessing reptile stare sometimes) but I refused to admit that she was a Narcissist because I had no solid evidence.. and her gifts and positive emails just kept flowing.

I even found out that she and my father had forwarded the denigrating emails to other family members. I have physically cared for both of these individuals during their own times of illness(cancer, alzheimers) and loss--- and I can't understand this level of deception....

It brings "trust" to a new level.

Zeph Daniel would just say that it is a spiritual aspect of gangstalking. I agree with Zeph on this one. I got gangstalked by these two atheists over a long period of time-- it was spiritual --- and I now understand how deep, beautiful and close evil can be--- right in our own midst.

I am a christian, and they are both extreme atheists. Zeph would say that because they are atheists, they are being influenced by demons to gangstalk me for pleasure and enjoyment..

I agree with Zeph's assessment on this---

I do forgive them both, since this personality disorder is not curable.

So-- I do have peace about it.

Jeffrey Dahmer was pure evil. Many people are pure evil.

They're the worst! They treat you like hell and then when you complain they'll turn it all around and blame you. They're the ultimate bully.

Hong Kong-- I am sorry to inform you that what you have-- Psychopathy-- is not curable, and it may end up destroying your life, plus those around you.

The man above did NOTHING wrong-- he is just the designated Narcissitic supply (meat) for his sick, immoral, vampire brother.

Sadly, most psychopaths are what are known as "tares" in Christianity--- they look like everyone else---but they are predestined for Hellfire, since they are demonically controlled individuals..

I am very sad to tell you about your condition-- perhaps its not too late for you to at least admit to God that your condition- Pyschopathy--- is harmful to your fellow man.

Ask God-- sincerely --- to take this away from you, and maybe He ---in his great mercy will free you from the bondage of self love, vampirism against your fellow man, and false superiority.

I don't even know you, but I now hate your brother for how he treats you.
You should take out a restraining order.
I hope your brother gets a pay back real soon.

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... barry is in this group ...
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... he's doing this to the citizens of the u$ofa ...
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Agreed--- really skilled at lying and deception. Ropes you in with sweet talk while planning our destruction.

Yep. Classic narcissistic psychopathy-- under demonic influence..

Come soon--- sweet Jesus.

Narcissistic people are just demon possessed.

Do you really believe your excuse? pretty funny!

So true, been through this too with my family.

Wow-- showing up at your workplace is TOTALLY EVIL..

Unfortunately psychopaths are skilled at self promoting propaganda, and they stay up all night long thinking of new ways to denigrate their source of narcissistic supply. (The bible tells us this) This is how fragile their egos actually are!!

Much of it is a projection of their own inner self hatred onto you.

You must calmly inform the rest of your family that your brother is very jealous of you, and that they must take this into account when listening to his tales about you. tell them that you have an order of protection against his meddling at your office, and that they are welcome to take his side on it, but you are opting out of this merry go round. Tell them also to be careful around him.

Then you must have nothing more to do with your brother. Any contact will be distorted and twisted in his propaganda campaign against you.

His meddling is threatening your family's security!! Just ice him out completely. And then forgive him. He really is demonically controlled---- and he is headed for eternal hellfire, I am sad to tell you.

Good for you OP.

an in-law fits this description.

Agreed. Demons are the only thing that truly explains it. When I caught my cousin looking at me in this weird reptilian, dissecting way-- it really spooked me-- but I ignored it to my own peril. I should have been asking for God's advice all along-- but I thought I was being a good Christian by helping her with her cancer. Then my husband mentioned to me that he had seen tarot cards on her family room coffee table-- and I realized that she is a practicing witch, as many in Iceland are powerful witches.

Yup-- demon possession. I have tried to tell her about Jesus-- but I am not the potter-- only God can save her now. She has cancer and will sadly die unredeemed. My heart is so broken over it but I must accept God's will. He told me to stop praying for her several months ago, and I didn't know why, and I stubbornly asked God to keep praying for her.

Psychopaths are born that way and Sociopaths are created usually through neglect in their infancy/childhood. They are victims too suffering from a personality disorder that none of them asked to be born with. How dare you condemn them to hell. You have no Authority to state that. You are as much a tare for suggesting such. Evil snake you are. Repent! Your sins are many too!

so true

They are demon possessed. Once they become born again( asking Jesus to come into their life and save them) that's their only way out.

Yeah you have to accept they'll never feel the love you feel for them or that they'll never feel any regret or guilt for anything they do to you. You're not really human to them. No one is. In their world the only human on the planet is them.

And right. The only relationship you can have is with strict zero tolerance boundaries because they start to manipulate the second you give them an inch of trust. Everything has to be "pre pay only" with them. They have to come good on their part of an agreement first before you can do yours because there is no way to trust them and they have to accept that's the way it is. They have to trust and respect you and you will respect but never trust them.

Are you sure He told you to stop praying for her? I mean absolutely 150% sure of it????????

Wow-- his poor, poor parents!! I will pray for them-- and also for all the girls that he is going to hurt. Psychopathy really is DEMONIC. The demons came into this young boy at an early age, probably due to some generational curse or sin and maybe having nothing to do with his parents. Yes-- you cannot reason with psychopaths because this is demon based..

Most of Jesus' ministry was expelling demons..This is why our fallen planet needs Jesus. The fallen angels really did a number on us. Its called the "mystery of iniquity" with Mystery Babylon at its head--- and it won't be cleaned up till Jesus comes back.

Heh... Well if you don't care about anyone else or can't empathize with their 'feelings' then you are a psychopath!

But caring about people's feelings is overrated because there are a lot of weak sensitive people out there, and you just want to be an opinionated ARSEHOLE!

No Im not 150% sure-- but I did get the impression from God that he wanted me not to be too engaged with her. He knows everything and I know nothing!!! Praying every day was wearing me out. LOL..

I am still praying for her, but not every day like before. (I just wanted to be obedient to God) I think God revealed her extreme betrayal to me for a reason-- so that I would know the truth which would test my ability to forgive.

The weirdest thing is that she (the psychopath) had THREE consecutive dreams about ME, three nights in a row-- several months ago.

In her dream, I was wearing a GREEN COAT, with pink pants and a yellow hat. I immediately interpreted these dreams to be a modified Joseph annointing on ME, for some reason, and I was happy that God chose me.

Joseph was betrayed by his own family(as she betrayed me) , but was the vehicle of their salvation despite their treachery to him. 2 dreams in a row means that it is established by God, and the third third means that it will come to pass QUICKLY.

But so far, I see no signs of her salvation coming to pass soon -- since she is now sending me hostile emails, blaming me for having read her emails and basically telling me that I am nothing. And her cancer has returned despite chemo.

I still have hope that she will turn to God in her illness.

God really is amazing.

I never condemned anyone to hell--- only God does this. I am being LOVING by telling this man the TRUTH--- that perhaps it is not too late for him to repent over being a psychopath and ask God to heal him..

In your eagerness to judge me, you failed to read my full post, and you condemned me to hell.

I can assure you that I love God, I do not want anyone to perish. But sometimes the loving Gospel of John does not work with psychopaths because of their arrogance. Some people do need to hear about hell, plain and simple-- if they are to be saved.

Psychopaths need to hear about the possibility of hellfire for their own protection!! Hearing about Hell is for their PROTECTION.

No one knows what his or her spiritual condition is.

Our own righteousness is as dirty rags. Only God is righteous-- this is why we all need Jesus. .

I repent every single day of my life-- I can assure you that God is probably tired of hearing me repent.and I am a pretty kind person, and not a psychopath... I believe that Jesus is my savior, I give to the poor, I was a kind relative to those who abused me. And I am concerned that no one go to hell- but some people do need to hear about hell for their own good.

And now maybe you too should repent over calling a person you do not know an evil snake. I have been extremely victimized by the psychopath in my life, yet I still care for this person enough to pray for her salvation, and wish for her salvation and forgive her. despite the harm she has done to me. I also do not want the Hong Kong psychopath above to go to hell.

What greater love is this? And who are you to condemn me for telling people about the Gospel--- both the good news and the news that there is a Hell and that it is real?

I don't want anyone to go to hell, but it is a real place, and all psychopaths are headed there unless they repent of their selfishness, and accept Jesus. This is sad, but true.

Anyone who tries to sugar coat it is lying.