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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71036515 United Arab Emirates 12/15/2015 11:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sometimes I can't take any more of others pain or misery because they largely inflict it upon themselves...and then want to share their pain with me! The negativity can sometimes be like a vampire sucking all the joy right out of my life. I have every right to save myself from drowning in their pain & letting it ruin my life as well! |
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Professional Amateur (OP) Cancelling Tomorrow User ID: 69288358 United States 12/15/2015 11:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WHy be sorry? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71036515 Sometimes I can't take any more of others pain or misery because they largely inflict it upon themselves...and then want to share their pain with me! The negativity can sometimes be like a vampire sucking all the joy right out of my life. I have every right to save myself from drowning in their pain & letting it ruin my life as well! Agreed. But sometimes, they don't inflict, it's just an observation. I distance myself because I don't want to feel down. Am I selfish, probably. |
Lo Pan User ID: 71031162 United States 12/15/2015 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Perhaps I'm reading this wrong, but I distance myself not from their pain, but from possible pain inflicted from them... [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] Sybok: Your pain runs deep. J'Onn: What do you know of my pain? Sybok: Let us explore it... together. Each man hides a secret pain. It must be exposed and reckoned with. It must be dragged from the darkness and forced into the light. Share your pain. Share your pain with me... and gain strength from the sharing. Last Edited by An Hero on 12/15/2015 11:48 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71036515 United Arab Emirates 12/15/2015 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's a friend who drinks too much or never learned a damn thing to better himself in life...I see no reason why I should watch them suffer. If my mom or dad was dying from a disease...yeah, I would be there for them no matter the pain they were suffering. This is one thing I took away from the book of Job. How in Job's misery, he had 3 friends who just sat there with him...they didn't even need to talk. Job even asked them to leave & they said "we shared the good times, we will share the bad times". And they stayed. |
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Cptn Hindsight User ID: 65628652 United States 12/16/2015 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WHy be sorry? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71036515 Sometimes I can't take any more of others pain or misery because they largely inflict it upon themselves...and then want to share their pain with me! The negativity can sometimes be like a vampire sucking all the joy right out of my life. I have every right to save myself from drowning in their pain & letting it ruin my life as well! so true and exactly the reason love is not enough. Even unlimited love cannot force your partner to love you back. |
Nikola Tesla User ID: 3320371 United States 12/16/2015 12:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WHy be sorry? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71036515 Sometimes I can't take any more of others pain or misery because they largely inflict it upon themselves...and then want to share their pain with me! The negativity can sometimes be like a vampire sucking all the joy right out of my life. I have every right to save myself from drowning in their pain & letting it ruin my life as well! Absolutely right. I do this when someone becomes an emotional vampire. You have to do this sometimes to preserve yourself. "One person with courage is a majority." - Thomas Jefferson "You’ve heard that we are what we eat. But we also are what we think". “Liberals claim to want to give a hearing to other views, but then are shocked and offended to discover that there are other views." -William F. Buckley Jr. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71036515 United Arab Emirates 12/16/2015 12:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quote: You have to do this sometimes to preserve yourself. You got it! Same reason you don't jump in after a drowning person...they'll push your head under water in their panic. It doesn't have to be pain either...It could be constant negativity or bitching. |
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Nikola Tesla User ID: 3320371 United States 12/16/2015 01:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quote: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71036515 You have to do this sometimes to preserve yourself. You got it! Same reason you don't jump in after a drowning person...they'll push your head under water in their panic. It doesn't have to be pain either...It could be constant negativity or bitching. If you allow someone who is negative unlimited access to your time and your thoughts, it will rub off on you. Its very simple. "One person with courage is a majority." - Thomas Jefferson "You’ve heard that we are what we eat. But we also are what we think". “Liberals claim to want to give a hearing to other views, but then are shocked and offended to discover that there are other views." -William F. Buckley Jr. |