Nearly 40 Aspie with Debilitating Social Phobia - T Help?

I have been lurking on the forum for a little while, and thought I'd create a thread to share my story and ask for feedback.

I have Asperger's Syndrome and Social Phobia. I am fortunate enough to come equipped with a high I.Q., which I believe has helped me to navigate through life by "acting" - and by that I mean, producing appropriate behavioral response to social stimuli.

I've learned this by observing how "normal" people behave. Moreover, as an outside observer of life, first, and a participant in life, second, I've been able to identify the behavior patterns of socially successful people, and mimic these characteristics in a manner that appears more natural as I grow older. (Practice makes perfect!)

The issue is that it my behavior is only "natural" appearing in response to social stimuli. It is extraordinarily difficult to assume the role of the protagonist in my life's story, and initiate social engagement. I believe this is largely due to my often overwhelming social phobia. There are many days that I do not leave my house.

My question for the forum is this:

Has anyone part of this forum, also suffering from social phobia, had any success with testosterone supplementation? I am reluctant to use pharmaceuticals, but I am intrigued with the notion of more assertive behavior, increased virilization, and other associated physical benefits of testosterone.

I'd appreciate any feedback. Thank you very much.