Did I mess up completely? Any advice?

Ouch!


You scared her off dude,Think she doesn't have the same feelings for you.She may have just wanted a friend..Best to let it be and when she calls you don't bring it up but let her bring the topic up if she wants

fall in love fast, you'll
fall out of love fast too.

you did tell her "might be"
so you aren't even sure.

Y don't you call her...the most
she can do is not answer or
hang-up.

You told her you might be falling in love with her before you have even kissed? Sheesh! If you really do want to see her, ask her out for a date, not just hanging out together. If she says yes, then you have a second chance. If she says no, then forget about her. She may not want to be in a relationship at this time. Just wants to have you as a nice friend. What do you know about her? Was she recently in a relationship? How did it end?

Send flowers. Then play it off and ask for a date. Just say, I really like you and would like to get to know you better.

tmi

you should have said it makes you happy to spend time with her

and left it at that

just don't talk to her again
let her make the first move

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You made a mistake there, bro

You can recover though

If you tried to look really sensitive while you said it,

you're fucked...

it takes a long time to learn to love someone
you should have said you were infatuated with her

probably the best option.

You were just full of excitement after believing you found a rare jewel of a girl and you were happy. Very normal. Every man has done that at least once.

the smart ones know you don't "fall in love"

Agreed, she may think you are a bad boy after all and that you tried to sweettalk her...

but i don't think she is looking for love, and i think that's what you're after...

too many guys use that line for some quick sex

maybe she thinks you want to use her

We had kissed and fooled around prior to me telling her what I felt.

I like the rare jewel comment... thats likely closest to how I felt...

i had a guy tell me that he thought i was his soulmate on a first date...turned out to be a creep from hell who hated his mother...

what he said

Sorry but she probably feels

When you say 'I love you' or close to it, you put yourself in a very vulnerable position....If I were you, I'd call her, let her know that it was her dazzling beauty or personality that made you temporarily insane, that it is FAR too early to speak the word 'love' and that you would still like to pursue a friendship. This way you will know. Don't torment yourself. Either forget it, now, and let her go forever, or confront the issue head-on in a light-hearted manner...

wait her out...

So I waited...
and waited...
and waited...
and waited...

and waited some more..
and some more...

then again I waited...

Then she called.

We hung out last night and will have breakfast in the morning.

:o)

Waiting can be good!

Congratulations!

Now take it slow!

Yey! Congrats man.

Cool pays off but it was close. Treat her right and get to know her, true loves grows slowly but it's the best and knows no bounds.

ok i want you to feel her up next time.

What ever happened to dating?

Congrats!!

Easy now! Her initial reaction maybe invoked by fear, because of past relations. Be easy on her, but try to make sure, that you are not going to get hurt again!!!

Dude, never tell a woman how you ~feel~


If you're having a great time with her and the two of you like being together, there is no need for you, as a man, to verbalize how you feel about her. It's self-evident, isn't it?

Feelings are for a woman to experience.

You start telling a woman how you feel and you're giving your power over to her. Retain an air of mystery and you'll become more desirable. Let her wonder, "What's he feeling? What's he thinking?".... and if she asks, DON'T TELL HER!

Let your actions do the talking.

Smooth move ex-lax...

Quick...call her and tell her you were drunk and had a case of the luv ya man syndrome.