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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72109048 India 04/27/2016 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 so sad...i am not there to help you in time of need |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69703057 United States 04/27/2016 11:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 Are you Keeping up on yourself op? Keeping decent weight, shaving your legs, making yourself pretty? Are you trying to be intimate or waiting on him? Sometimes couples get into a rut. Primp out and get his attention. Its a 2 way street honey!! Good luck |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71987608 Belgium 04/27/2016 11:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 so sad...i am not there to help you in time of need ^^ watch out for this indian guy. Thread: WTF is wrong with modern women?Why talk on smartphone during sex? (Page 2) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72109048 India 04/27/2016 11:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 so sad...i am not there to help you in time of need ^^ watch out for this indian guy. Thread: WTF is wrong with modern women?Why talk on smartphone during sex? (Page 2) are you incriminating me for writing that thread? you must be insane |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72109048 India 04/27/2016 11:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 so sad...i am not there to help you in time of need ^^ watch out for this indian guy. Thread: WTF is wrong with modern women?Why talk on smartphone during sex? (Page 2) besides the girl is lonely and needs help... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 63007147 United States 04/27/2016 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 Are you Keeping up on yourself op? Keeping decent weight, shaving your legs, making yourself pretty? Are you trying to be intimate or waiting on him? Sometimes couples get into a rut. Primp out and get his attention. Its a 2 way street honey!! Good luck Yep, my husband gets turned on because I get so turned on by him. Google "The Celestine Prophesy" its available on PDF. It explains how love becomes a power struggle because both people stop giving and start expecting. Both my husband and i had read that book before we had met and it taught us how to interact. You are expecting of your husband. You expect him not to watch porn. You expect him to shower you with love. You say nothing about wanting to give to him. I bet you attempt power struggles in an attempt to take energy from him. In your case it sounds like "poor me" and the "aloof" power dramas. Though you might also use "the intimidator" and/or "the aggressor" power dramas too. |
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trueforger User ID: 72105556 United States 04/27/2016 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How about a series of tatt's as a row of buttons running from your neck to...wherever. I heard it worked in a song. Blacksmith King of Trades I make your tool DEPLORABLE MAKING AMERICA GREAT AGAIN VULGARIAN LOVE TRUMP'S DEPLORABLE HATE Wisconsin=Deplorable Honey Badger State "We have to re-jigger it" VULGARIAN "Tough times don't last, Tough People do." DEPLORABLE |
Candle_In_the_Wind Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 65955727 United States 04/27/2016 11:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 So, okay...let's be honest here. I get into a porn/masturbation cycle and it's all I want. There's no hassle, it's quicker, and most importantly, the women are prettier. Once I blow the load, there's zero percent chance that I'm going to have anything left for anyone else for at least 24 hours, preferably 48 minimum. In addition to not having a ready load, I am also desensitized and need the time to have a new layer of nerve endings if I want to have a hope of orgasm with a partner. Regarding that: I'm kind of a hard case. I have a very difficult time having an orgasm with a partner with rare exceptions...certain vaginas just work like magic on my. Unfortunately, not my Wife's. It's a struggle at best, impossible at worst. I usually have to give up. I would be all about sex with the wife if I were able to orgasm in a reasonable amount of time like a human being. I would put aside the porn. I've gone weeks without the porn to try to revirginize myself a bit, but when it's time to finally have sex, SHE ends up having a reason to not feel up to it. So back to the porn because I can't wait anymore. As for the women being prettier, this is something that probably is much harder to fix. If you are overweight, plain, not underscoring your femininity, not acting sexy...there is no motivation for your Husband to turn to you instead of readily available porn. Add to this 1000x if there is a risk of pregnancy, he may not want more children. If you want him to get off the porn, you need to fix yourself up and literally tell him if he takes a few days off of porn, he's going to be rewarded...outfits, makeup, shaved legs...whatever you can do to be your best. After that, keep the sexy routine going and I think you'll find yourself getting it more often. Talk dirty, let him know sex is on your mind even when you can't currently get it due to stuff going on or whatever. I'm not trying to say this is all your fault, he might just be sexually apathetic, but if you do your part 100% you can rule out anything being your fault or within your control, you see? And if it turns out it's not you, than you need to might need to look outside of the home for fulfillment...maybe even reach an agreement. Or divorce. That's the deal. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72109048 India 04/27/2016 11:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 So, okay...let's be honest here. I get into a porn/masturbation cycle and it's all I want. There's no hassle, it's quicker, and most importantly, the women are prettier. Once I blow the load, there's zero percent chance that I'm going to have anything left for anyone else for at least 24 hours, preferably 48 minimum. In addition to not having a ready load, I am also desensitized and need the time to have a new layer of nerve endings if I want to have a hope of orgasm with a partner. Regarding that: I'm kind of a hard case. I have a very difficult time having an orgasm with a partner with rare exceptions...certain vaginas just work like magic on my. Unfortunately, not my Wife's. It's a struggle at best, impossible at worst. I usually have to give up. I would be all about sex with the wife if I were able to orgasm in a reasonable amount of time like a human being. I would put aside the porn. I've gone weeks without the porn to try to revirginize myself a bit, but when it's time to finally have sex, SHE ends up having a reason to not feel up to it. So back to the porn because I can't wait anymore. As for the women being prettier, this is something that probably is much harder to fix. If you are overweight, plain, not underscoring your femininity, not acting sexy...there is no motivation for your Husband to turn to you instead of readily available porn. Add to this 1000x if there is a risk of pregnancy, he may not want more children. If you want him to get off the porn, you need to fix yourself up and literally tell him if he takes a few days off of porn, he's going to be rewarded...outfits, makeup, shaved legs...whatever you can do to be your best. After that, keep the sexy routine going and I think you'll find yourself getting it more often. Talk dirty, let him know sex is on your mind even when you can't currently get it due to stuff going on or whatever. I'm not trying to say this is all your fault, he might just be sexually apathetic, but if you do your part 100% you can rule out anything being your fault or within your control, you see? And if it turns out it's not you, than you need to might need to look outside of the home for fulfillment...maybe even reach an agreement. Or divorce. That's the deal. come on candel,good advice try to save the marriage |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72105582 Morocco 04/27/2016 11:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 Let him hit the backdoor and he will be crazy over you again! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 68212574 United States 04/27/2016 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 So, okay...let's be honest here. I get into a porn/masturbation cycle and it's all I want. There's no hassle, it's quicker, and most importantly, the women are prettier. Once I blow the load, there's zero percent chance that I'm going to have anything left for anyone else for at least 24 hours, preferably 48 minimum. In addition to not having a ready load, I am also desensitized and need the time to have a new layer of nerve endings if I want to have a hope of orgasm with a partner. Regarding that: I'm kind of a hard case. I have a very difficult time having an orgasm with a partner with rare exceptions...certain vaginas just work like magic on my. Unfortunately, not my Wife's. It's a struggle at best, impossible at worst. I usually have to give up. I would be all about sex with the wife if I were able to orgasm in a reasonable amount of time like a human being. I would put aside the porn. I've gone weeks without the porn to try to revirginize myself a bit, but when it's time to finally have sex, SHE ends up having a reason to not feel up to it. So back to the porn because I can't wait anymore. As for the women being prettier, this is something that probably is much harder to fix. If you are overweight, plain, not underscoring your femininity, not acting sexy...there is no motivation for your Husband to turn to you instead of readily available porn. Add to this 1000x if there is a risk of pregnancy, he may not want more children. If you want him to get off the porn, you need to fix yourself up and literally tell him if he takes a few days off of porn, he's going to be rewarded...outfits, makeup, shaved legs...whatever you can do to be your best. After that, keep the sexy routine going and I think you'll find yourself getting it more often. Talk dirty, let him know sex is on your mind even when you can't currently get it due to stuff going on or whatever. I'm not trying to say this is all your fault, he might just be sexually apathetic, but if you do your part 100% you can rule out anything being your fault or within your control, you see? And if it turns out it's not you, than you need to might need to look outside of the home for fulfillment...maybe even reach an agreement. Or divorce. That's the deal. My husbands porn addiction isn't my problem anymore. I'm attractive. Take care of myself. MY stuff gets excited when I see him. His stuff doesn't. So I plow myself:) while he wishes he could get it up like he does with the porn. His problem. His very selfish problem. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72107781 United States 04/27/2016 12:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband has a porn addiction and wont have sex with me or even show a sign of intimacy. All I get is a hello and good bye kiss every day.... I don't know what to do..... How long can the marriage last. My heart is broken. maybe he does not love me... I wish he would just tell me he wants a divorce and get this over with.... I rather be alone. Quoting: Cania 70709665 Can't just blame porn. Few problems are the result of just 1 thing. Problems are a combination of things. Sometimes trying to unravel them..... is to hard, easier sometimes to just live with them. If there was an emergency he would try to help. If you had car trouble, he would try to help you. If someone tried to hurt you...im sure he would show. Yea, Sex is important ...but not everything. About 3% of a typical marrage.. WHat you throw away may not stay thrown away long. |