A letter to my wife.

Annie must have a big dick

Funny, no it's an emotional affair. She gets what she "needs" from her. And Annie is a pill head too.

your fucked.

Pill heads never quit until the money is gone.

I suggest you divorce before you lose everything.

Good luck mate, its a hard thing.
Sometimes you just have to move on, although its hard to.

She needs help, but may not realize it. And this Annie is the only person she may feel knows what she is going through. Believe me, she does not WANT to take the pills at this point, if she's spending thousands...she HAS to....or actually she THINKS she has to. I am praying for you. Maybe try to talk to her and offer her to be there supporting her while she goes through a treatment program. She may be relieved and take you up on it. If not, then she's not sick and tired yet of being sick and tired. And then you will have decisions to make.

I cry for you and myself brother, and im not a guy you think cries much.
Sometimes it really just is what it is man.
And that's that.

This sounds like one of those situations. You will have to move on to protect yourself and others.
I'm so sorry for your pain and sorry all those involved in this situation.
<3

fk them drug users. that shit will fk up your children

You will still have nightmares about it 20 years later though.
About what you could\might have done different.
But sometimes thinks really are just are what they are.

You can say it to your wife, you just choose not to.

Ask yourself why.

OP NEVER, EVER put a personal note to someone on here. It will be attacked and chewed up and spit out within a minute. Write the letter physically on a piece of paper and either tear it up or keep it for later.

Just don't open yourself up to the lions here...that's the only response you can get in this place....

sorry!

Because it turns into a huge fight, and things get twisted oround on me.

Welcome to the real world op. It's shitty and evil. Just be thankful you only pissed away ten years instead of a lifetime. Your not fucked but your kids will be.

You know her lifestyle is wrong and dangerous for all of you, especially the kids. Offer to help her but tell her you won't let her endanger your family any longer.

If she refuses help tell her to go. Maybe she will be happier living with Annie.

Remember, 'in sickness and in health'. Your wife needs help and she apparently is seeking emotional help through another lady. Wake up and except your responsibilities. To help your wife she must admit she has a problem..once she does, she can receive professional help. PROFESSIONAL help. She has your children and she deserves respect and love. Stop feeling sorry for yourself..feel compassion for her.

Glp members are all disrespectful assholes. Op you don't want or need their opinions. They will post meaningless bs about fake stuff like chemtrails and ufos. Op you don't need the opinions of those ignorant evil Hillary supporters.

That's how she deflects to try and avoid the issue. You can still shrink away or hold your ground. Your choice.

I don't want to pour salt in your wounds, but you really need to man up here. She is an addict, and she rides a death spiral. You need to stand firm against her drug-addled abuse and FORCE her to make a choice: clean up or get out.

You can love and support her as she goes through this, but ONLY if she decides to clean up. That is her choice to make after all.

And if she chooses not to, you owe it to yourself to not let her drag you down with her. You also owe it to your children.

bang Annie and your wife will end her friendship with her

You sound as fucked up as her, posting this on GLP

What the fuck were you during those 3 years? You know...before you were partners?

^^THIS^^





This guy would.

Op, did you write this letter personally to your wife? Did you ever try talking to her to let her know what you feel?
Sometimes it takes a tete-a-tete to patch things up no matter how complicated the issue is.

As you asked, God Bless and God Speed to you and yours OP

THIS

Sorry you're going through this

Annie---> Going down on your wife---->

Hey OP. I am so sorry for your situation. My mother had a drinking problem. It made for some awful family scenes but she was financially responsible. She was the glue that held the family together. She always put others first though she was never recognized for her efforts. My dad was a wonderful person who was loved by all. He stuck by her and always saw the beautiful person who he fell in love with.

I dated a guy about 10 years ago who had recently divorced his wife bacause of the same issues you list. She was into drugs and the financial expense was hurting the family. It was a messy divorce. He got the children. He lost all the love that he had for her.

I have had experience with both sides of this story. The husband who stuck with his wife and the one who divorced his wife. The difference being, one was still financially responsible and one was harming the family by reckless spending.

My friend who divorced was encouraged to do so by his children. Pay attention to their feelings and use that to guide your path forward. Make sure you will get the children before you choose divorce.

Could work.

Otherwise dude, you have to put your foot down.

My wife had a friend, Cheryl. Cheryl would buy the pills and booze and just wanted someone to get fucked up with.

All fine and dandy till it starts affecting me and my kids.

I had to go over to Cheryl's and physically remove my wife from the scene.

Yeah, she was fucked up and pissed, but it had to be done.

The wife has not seen Cheryl since, to this day.

Oh, and BTW, Cheryl has since been divorced from her husband, lost her job and gone totally off the reservation.

You have to grow a pair and stop this shit, NOW!

Good luck.

Last Edited by TheGasMan II on 05/28/2016 11:40 AM

You sound like someone who has been through it. So have I. Still have dreams about what was, about when times were good, and he was the love of my life.

But the drugs won. They won over our family, our children, our love. You can see and know what could have been and it's utterly heartbreaking. But you have to choose sometimes, because the possibilities you can see will be replaced by a drug-induced hell.

I am sorry OP. I've been there. But for your sake, for the sake of your children, save yourself. Document her drug abuse so you can have custody and protect them from her chosen lifestyle. It's the hardest thing in the world, believe me I know. But to save your own physical and mental and emotional health, and that of your children, if she doesn't get clean and sober you have to make a new fresh start for yourself.

Do they bump donuts?