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In dating, confidence is the effect not the cause

 
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10/21/2016 04:21 AM
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In dating, confidence is the effect not the cause
All that dating advice that tells guys to be more "confident" is spouted by simpletons. What really matters is charisma and charm (I.e. good social skills). Once (and if) you learn these things through EXPERIENCE, only then will you BECOME confident.

In other words, you CANNOT simply will yourself to be more confident. If you go around confidently saying a bunch of awkward, weird things, people are just going to look at you funny like you're an alien from another planet. No, this will not turn girls on. It will scare them away.

Most girls want to date human beings, not freaky nerds.
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10/21/2016 04:37 AM
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Re: In dating, confidence is the effect not the cause
Thing is, stupid people aren't confident... they're arrogant.

Confidence comes from a mixture of intelligence, charm, and personality.

I'm an old fuck. Been married longer then some people on GLP have been alive. But not anymore. I divorced the thieving, drug addicted bitch, and I took half of all our shit. But now here's the kicker - I have gotten more pussy in the last two months then I have in years.

Woman are starving for confident, alpha-type males (I'm a big hairy biker with guns and tattoos, so yeah, I'm one of those). But I can charm the panties off a nun... and I can hold an intelligent, rational conversation afterwards. I'm not the greatest looking guy, and I could stand to lose a couple pounds, but I got a swagger... and for good reason.

I'M GETTING MORE STRANGE THEN I KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH!!!

And that in itself make me even more confident... which seems to attract more women.

Life is fuckin' good!

Last Edited by Mike Ehrmantraut on 10/21/2016 04:39 AM
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10/21/2016 04:41 AM
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Re: In dating, confidence is the effect not the cause
Meh I'm going hunting in a few hours for pheasents.
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10/21/2016 04:49 AM
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Re: In dating, confidence is the effect not the cause
Women go with the flow. If you're a man and you want a mate then you need to stand out. This is true in all forms of life in nature.

This is why men have built and lead civilizations for centuries.





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