Want a Big Unit! You can have it!!Can't find jeans that fit, slacks looks like I stuffed Cuike in there

In my 40's. When I was 18 to now it was OK. I guess I always took it for granted. But now if I wear a summer color suit, it looks like I'm stuffing in a sausage.

And don't tell me women and men don't look! I blush sometimes from the looks I get!!!

I now have a new job that requires a suit and I must wear my coat all the time. It's not all it's supposed to be.