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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69138825  United States11/28/2016 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| REMEMBERTHIS User ID: 73506190  New Zealand11/28/2016 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wE LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN ON THE WEST COAST OF THE SOUTH ISLAND NEW ZEALAND...AND JUST YESTERDAY, MY SON 12 WENT ON HIS BIKE TO PLAY AT THE SCHOOL AS IT WAS A PUBLIC ANNERVERSARY DAY HERE DAY OFF, ANYHOWS ON HIS WAY HOME TWO BOYS YOUNGER THAN HIM TRIED TO SLASH THE TYRE ON HIS BIKE WITH A KNIFE AND THEN TRIED TO STAB HIM MISSED AND CUT HIS TOP THANK GOD, WE WENT AROUND TO SEE THE PARENTS OF THE TWO BOYS WHO SAID WE ARENT GOING TO CHASTIZE OUR KIDS, SO WE POLITELY TOLD THEM WE WERE GOING TO POLICE, WHICH WE DID, DONT KNOW THE OUTCOME BUT MY SON WHO HAS A DISABILITY WAS SO DISTROUGHT, YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO NIP THIS IN THE BUD, SO IT DOESANT ESCALATE, THESE KIDS ARE GETTING OUT OF CONTROL AND DANGEROUS THESE DAYS, THATS BECAUSE THIS WORLD IS OUT OF CONTROL THESE DAYS TOO ,,MONKEY SEE MONKEY DO.... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54153377 United States11/28/2016 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to pick the biggest one and beat the living fuck out of him, teach him how to throw a solid right hook. Even better, give him a roll of quarters and tell him to keep it in his pocket until he is ready, then grab it and break the biggest ones nose, sucker punch, and then keep punching til a teacher pulls him off. That, or else move him to another school and tell him not to fuck with the kids who try to cheat, just let it go. Or you could find out the kids names and call their parents and threaten legal action if they don't keep their little idiots away from him. That probably won't work, but it is worth a shot. Regardless, don't let him be bullied. Kids kill themselves over that shit. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 69138825 United States11/28/2016 05:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wE LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN ON THE WEST COAST OF THE SOUTH ISLAND NEW ZEALAND...AND JUST YESTERDAY, MY SON 12 WENT ON HIS BIKE TO PLAY AT THE SCHOOL AS IT WAS A PUBLIC ANNERVERSARY DAY HERE DAY OFF, ANYHOWS ON HIS WAY HOME TWO BOYS YOUNGER THAN HIM TRIED TO SLASH THE TYRE ON HIS BIKE WITH A KNIFE AND THEN TRIED TO STAB HIM MISSED AND CUT HIS TOP THANK GOD, WE WENT AROUND TO SEE THE PARENTS OF THE TWO BOYS WHO SAID WE ARENT GOING TO CHASTIZE OUR KIDS, SO WE POLITELY TOLD THEM WE WERE GOING TO POLICE, WHICH WE DID, DONT KNOW THE OUTCOME BUT MY SON WHO HAS A DISABILITY WAS SO DISTROUGHT, YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO NIP THIS IN THE BUD, SO IT DOESANT ESCALATE, THESE KIDS ARE GETTING OUT OF CONTROL AND DANGEROUS THESE DAYS, THATS BECAUSE THIS WORLD IS OUT OF CONTROL THESE DAYS TOO ,,MONKEY SEE MONKEY DO.... Quoting: REMEMBERTHIS 73506190 Geeze sorry to hear that! I hope your kid will be okay! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 69138825 United States11/28/2016 05:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to pick the biggest one and beat the living fuck out of him, teach him how to throw a solid right hook. Even better, give him a roll of quarters and tell him to keep it in his pocket until he is ready, then grab it and break the biggest ones nose, sucker punch, and then keep punching til a teacher pulls him off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54153377 That, or else move him to another school and tell him not to fuck with the kids who try to cheat, just let it go. Or you could find out the kids names and call their parents and threaten legal action if they don't keep their little idiots away from him. That probably won't work, but it is worth a shot. Regardless, don't let him be bullied. Kids kill themselves over that shit. Fighting will not work. He would just get beat up. I'm pretty sure dealing with that parents definitely wont work due to they are probably the source of these kids behavior. Yea i definitely wont let him get bullied i just feel so f-ing hopeless but thanks for your input. |
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| Tangy User ID: 51847734 United States11/28/2016 05:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A BETTER idea though, is to make the move to home schooling. Remember, school does NOT have to be from 8am to 3pm.. Do it in the evenings. Look into local charter schools that offer home school programs with a couple classes in a learning center per week with other home schoolers. |
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| Useless Cookie Eater User ID: 29696048 United States11/28/2016 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So my son comes home today and tells me a kid in his 4th grade class was bullying him. The kids sit at assigned tables, the tables have 4-5 kids per table. Apparently this kid would slide over to other tables as he pleases and look at others work. My son asked him to go back to his table and thus began the name calling and bullying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69138825 Later that day my son gets on the bus and another 3 kids(I believe all brothers) sit behind him a commence to calling him names and calling him gay for the ride home. I have no idea how it so happened that he got bullied in the class and on the bus by basically 4 different kids all in the same day. My guess is they all know each other an are now targeting my son. My son is white/Asian. All 4 of the kids are black. I honestly think they are the only black kids in his school. We called the school, talked to the principal and the teacher and of course they told us what we wanted to hear. My problem is i KNOW this wont end here due to these kids aren't going to be like oh i learned my lesson and I'm sorry just like their parents wont swoop in and correct their behavior. Anyone have any advice or similar story? I feel so helpless. You have 2 choices.... 1) Police / authorities. 2) Put the fear of god in them in no uncertain terms if the little sh*ts touch your kid. |
| nutmeg User ID: 70579162 United States11/28/2016 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So my son comes home today and tells me a kid in his 4th grade class was bullying him. The kids sit at assigned tables, the tables have 4-5 kids per table. Apparently this kid would slide over to other tables as he pleases and look at others work. My son asked him to go back to his table and thus began the name calling and bullying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69138825 Later that day my son gets on the bus and another 3 kids(I believe all brothers) sit behind him a commence to calling him names and calling him gay for the ride home. I have no idea how it so happened that he got bullied in the class and on the bus by basically 4 different kids all in the same day. My guess is they all know each other an are now targeting my son. My son is white/Asian. All 4 of the kids are black. I honestly think they are the only black kids in his school. We called the school, talked to the principal and the teacher and of course they told us what we wanted to hear. My problem is i KNOW this wont end here due to these kids aren't going to be like oh i learned my lesson and I'm sorry just like their parents wont swoop in and correct their behavior. Anyone have any advice or similar story? I feel so helpless. My grandson was in 3rd grade and kids in 5th or 6th grade were assigned to each child in one of their classes. My grandson was physically bullied by the fat kid assigned to him. My daughter told the school. Apparently they talked to the kid, but it didn't help. My daughter waited for the boy after school one day. She picked him up by the collar, got her face up to his, and said through her teeth, "If you ever touch my kid again, I swear to god, I will beat the shit out of you!" The kid never touched my grandson again. All the kids in his school were white. Unfortunately you have a different problem. Wish I had an answer. How about if you show up after school one day with a large German Shepherd on a leash before they get on the bus. Pretend it's yours. Call those kids aside and tell them that the dog doesn't like kids who pick on your boy. Tell them he'll eat them alive if they continue to pick on your boy. Last Edited by nutmeg on 11/28/2016 05:52 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 60682128 United States11/28/2016 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| NO NO NO... User ID: 73229834 United States11/28/2016 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | HAVE A "LAWYER" SEND A LETTER TO THE PARENTS AND/OR GUARDIANS ASAP!!! AND CC THE PRIN. SUP. MAYOR CITY COUNSEL...ETC.. BRING MEGA MEGA SHAME AND ATTENTION TO THIS ISSUE ASAP!!! ALSO, HAVE THE LAWYER ASK THE PARENTS AND SCHOOL DISTRICT FOR 'PROOF OF INSURANCE'..THIS WILLLET THEM KNOW THAT UR NOT FUCKIN AROUND...ALSO HAVE THE KID WEAR A CELL PHONE THAT IS ON CONSTANT RECORD AND LIVE FEED TO YOU AT ALL TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Tangy User ID: 51847734 United States11/28/2016 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 35744658  Canada11/28/2016 05:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Muay Thai traing ASAP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 60682128 1. Builds self confidence 2. Builds self disipline. 3. Most importantly, it will give him the ability to kick the living shit out of anybody, anywhere, any time. Best advice so far. Op ignore the liberals in here like Tangy. She will get your boy killed with her Bernie Sanders agenda. |
| Tangy User ID: 51847734 United States11/28/2016 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73325177 United States11/28/2016 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow some of y'all have some straight-up pussified way of dealing with bullies... (report it, document it, counseling, etc.) I happen to agree with the one's who say teach your kid to fight. Winning the fight doesn't matter. It's putting up one that counts. Now please don't misunderstand. Name-calling, pointing & laughing, these are things we ALL have to deal with & most of us just shrug it off. However, when push comes to shove, some of us like to skip straight to throwing punches which I wholeheartedly agree with. Oh, but don't do the quarter roll thing. Your kid will go to juvie and I doubt his lil fingers can even wrap around a roll of quarters. |
| Tangy User ID: 51847734 United States11/28/2016 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Muay Thai traing ASAP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 60682128 1. Builds self confidence 2. Builds self disipline. 3. Most importantly, it will give him the ability to kick the living shit out of anybody, anywhere, any time. Best advice so far. Op ignore the liberals in here like Tangy. She will get your boy killed with her Bernie Sanders agenda. Says the LIBERAL from Canada.  Yeah, sure OP.. You have a week to teach your kid how to kick 4 naggers asses. Good luck.. Fucking tards..   |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72217239 United States11/28/2016 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FIRST, do the "right thing". Tell the teacher(s) and/or Principal and give them ONE chance to fix the problem before it becomes a problem. If they fail, and the bullying continues, he will need to beat the bleeding dog shit out of one of them. Preferably the biggest one, but it really doesn't matter. I grew up around these....."people". They're all talk. As soon as you beat the shit out of one of them, no more problems. I could have saved myself a lot of grief if I had figured that out sooner rather than later. I hope your kid is OK, and I hope you've taught him a little something something about throwing a punch. |
| Truthserum User ID: 611290 United States11/28/2016 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So my son comes home today and tells me a kid in his 4th grade class was bullying him. The kids sit at assigned tables, the tables have 4-5 kids per table. Apparently this kid would slide over to other tables as he pleases and look at others work. My son asked him to go back to his table and thus began the name calling and bullying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69138825 Later that day my son gets on the bus and another 3 kids(I believe all brothers) sit behind him a commence to calling him names and calling him gay for the ride home. I have no idea how it so happened that he got bullied in the class and on the bus by basically 4 different kids all in the same day. My guess is they all know each other an are now targeting my son. My son is white/Asian. All 4 of the kids are black. I honestly think they are the only black kids in his school. We called the school, talked to the principal and the teacher and of course they told us what we wanted to hear. My problem is i KNOW this wont end here due to these kids aren't going to be like oh i learned my lesson and I'm sorry just like their parents wont swoop in and correct their behavior. Anyone have any advice or similar story? I feel so helpless. I'm sorry Last Edited by Truthserum on 11/28/2016 05:48 PM FACTS Don't Give a DAMN about your FEELINGS! |
ScrumpTheTexan Forum Administrator User ID: 73183063 United States11/28/2016 05:41 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to pick the biggest one and beat the living fuck out of him, teach him how to throw a solid right hook. Even better, give him a roll of quarters and tell him to keep it in his pocket until he is ready, then grab it and break the biggest ones nose, sucker punch, and then keep punching til a teacher pulls him off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54153377 That, or else move him to another school and tell him not to fuck with the kids who try to cheat, just let it go. Or you could find out the kids names and call their parents and threaten legal action if they don't keep their little idiots away from him. That probably won't work, but it is worth a shot. Regardless, don't let him be bullied. Kids kill themselves over that shit. ^ This ^ works every time. And as far as his being smaller than them OP, when my little brother was 10, he had this issue with a much older kid... he was no match for this kid either, & would've gotten beat up if he'd have stepped to him to duke it out. He equalized that inequality with a 2X4... caught the big kid that kept beating on him one day walking into a café & beat the shit out of him with it. He was never bothered again. I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800  The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70975244 United States11/28/2016 05:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| OldWhiteGuy User ID: 56380478 United States11/28/2016 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Give your son a can of pepper spray. Tell him to wait until he is threatened, then spray the fuck out of the bullies. They won't fuck with him again. Quoting: OldWhiteGuy Bad advice. Will lead to an arrest. Jeez. Self defense isn't illegal. Besides, he's a minor. At worst he gets a ride home. Get over it or die mad. |
| BrokenTech User ID: 51566510 United States11/28/2016 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Teach your kid to ignore the name calling. If however, one of the bullies lays one single hand on your boy, let the punches begin. Start swinging and do not stop until a teacher pulls him off. As a parent, if the school officials will not take any sort of action give them a warning. Warn the admins that your child will defend himself and if that means beating the living shit out of the bully then that will be the way it will go down. Force the admins to take some responsibility in the matter. If you talk to them and tell them the situation and they refuse do anything then you will be forced to take matters into your own hands. Then again, warn them that you will hold them responsible and will file lawsuits against them if your child is injured due to their inaction. Do not let that zero-tolerance policy bullshit scare you, if your child gets suspended for defending himself, don't worry about it. |
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| Solid Soul User ID: 73215690 United States11/28/2016 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Unfortunately the only language most bullies understand is violence. You need to teach your boy how to fight. Tell him to kick the biggest one in the balls as hard as he can then jump on top of him and beat him tell he's pulled off. Most other solutions only make him look weak and he'll continued to be a target. I had a dude in H.S. that fucked with me until 10th grade. One day he walked up to me at get into may face, but when he got close enough I smacked him in the nose and ran his fucking head into a metal pole which left him a bloody mess. I never had to worry about him or anyone else for that matter anymore in H.S. Bullies can't be reasoned with because they lack that capability. "Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them". ~ Dalai Lama |
