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I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..

 
Hayseed
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12/03/2016 01:13 PM
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I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
It's been a hell of a road...
I've learned a lot ...honestly I could write a book
I've had a lot of dates, met a lot of good women , some tand , I believe, found my life partner.

If I could sum it up:
1. The only sight worth a shit is ok Cupid. It builds a profile on you
personality ...more questions you answer, the better...yea it's a bit
invasive.
2. Be real ...this should actually be number 1..even if your a total deuce
bag , someone's looking for that..
3. .don't delay meeting, the longer you delay actual in your face interaction
the more your going to build a false narrative. ( got some experience
there for sure...I can laugh about it now....a little)
4. Get happy with yourself, realize your gonna get basically what you
give..if your fat, don't expect sexy....just sayin.


Anyway...it's taken a while but I've found a treasure, she freaking awesome , a total buddy, play partner and lover , ....and yea I can just hear some snide comments coming , but that just comes from the bitterness of doing it the wrong way. ..I understand , been there.

Hayseed
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12/03/2016 01:14 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
I rather wish I had proofed that before posting..sorry for the difficulty in reading

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12/03/2016 01:19 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Crazy bitches only good for fucking on those sites.

Stay away! Don't listen to OP.
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12/03/2016 01:21 PM
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Promoter!
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12/03/2016 01:24 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
I rather wish I had proofed that before posting..sorry for the difficulty in reading

Hayseed
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It's ok, I do that all the time
Hayseed (OP)
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Promoter!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46433481


You know, I anticipated this. How would a person say positive feelings about a business that worked well for him without appearing this way?

It could be that I just appreciated their service more than their competitors..

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12/03/2016 01:26 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Crazy bitches only good for fucking on those sites.

Stay away! Don't listen to OP.
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Or it might be that that's the only thing your looking for..that's the mirror bro.
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12/03/2016 01:27 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Good for you OP, thanks for sharing
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12/03/2016 01:31 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Good for you OP, thanks for sharing
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Thanks.
it really is pretty awesome ..I've never met a woman like her
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12/03/2016 01:34 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
So tell us about some of the crazy ones. And when you found out they were not what they said on the site.
Deplorable Factual Error

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12/03/2016 01:35 PM

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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
I found a good woman on Plenty of Fish.

We've been together three years now.

It is possible.
Not intended to be a factual statement.
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12/03/2016 01:37 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Good for you OP, thanks for sharing
 Quoting: Snow Kitty


Thanks.
it really is pretty awesome ..I've never met a woman like her
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


Typical cuck's assessment who hasn't realized AWALT.

They all file divorce the same way...
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12/03/2016 01:41 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
So tell us about some of the crazy ones. And when you found out they were not what they said on the site.
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That's happened two times..big crazy and little crazy
The first was epic...it wa shortly after my mentally devestaing divorce and I got basically what I gave ....bat shit crazy ...and no, I'm not gonna tell you more

The second was a four hour drive to Texas , surreal , and short lived .....approximately 15 minutes till I said I'm uncomfortable and left..
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Promoter!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46433481


You know, I anticipated this. How would a person say positive feelings about a business that worked well for him without appearing this way?

It could be that I just appreciated their service more than their competitors..

Hayseed
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


Fair enough! Enjoy your prize.
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12/03/2016 01:45 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Good for you OP, thanks for sharing
 Quoting: Snow Kitty


Thanks.
it really is pretty awesome ..I've never met a woman like her
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


Typical cuck's assessment who hasn't realized AWALT.

They all file divorce the same way...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72201429


Their thinking the same thoughts looking over the other field...it's true. Until you change your mindset, you'll repel the one you desire...it's a dance.
I've met many good women who's company I enjoyed, but I had come to the point that I was looking for something very specific and I just held on till I found it ..
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
So tell us about some of the crazy ones. And when you found out they were not what they said on the site.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46893394


That's happened two times..big crazy and little crazy
The first was epic...it wa shortly after my mentally devestaing divorce and I got basically what I gave ....bat shit crazy ...and no, I'm not gonna tell you more

The second was a four hour drive to Texas , surreal , and short lived .....approximately 15 minutes till I said I'm uncomfortable and left..
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


Come on man ....details.

Let us here the bat shit crazy story.
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12/03/2016 01:51 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
So tell us about some of the crazy ones. And when you found out they were not what they said on the site.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46893394


That's happened two times..big crazy and little crazy
The first was epic...it wa shortly after my mentally devestaing divorce and I got basically what I gave ....bat shit crazy ...and no, I'm not gonna tell you more

The second was a four hour drive to Texas , surreal , and short lived .....approximately 15 minutes till I said I'm uncomfortable and left..
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


Come on man ....details.

Let us here the bat shit crazy story.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71261836



How bout I just summarize my mistake...

I had endured a 20 year , sexually frustrating, marriage..upon exit I thought sex was the numero uno...it's not.
I basically got my ex type again...with lots of sex..
Same dance
Same drama
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12/03/2016 02:27 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Did you do a std check? She might be in this game her whole life. I'm praying for you.
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12/03/2016 04:17 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
Did you do a std check? She might be in this game her whole life. I'm praying for you.
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I did, who knows...I was so out of my mind then I just mark it off as temporary insanity.
Thanks.. I'm always greatful for prayers
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12/03/2016 04:25 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
When she leaves you for a black guy soon you can allways go back to Old Rosie.....
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12/03/2016 04:26 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
newspaper article this week mentions females have average of 5 or 6 guys on the line at any given time. Don't listen to OP stay right away from these sites and just learn how to communicate. Way better off in the long run. It is far to easy for the female to "always look for greener pasture"
Stay away as it will only drain your bank account and self worth.
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12/03/2016 04:29 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
When she leaves you for a black guy soon you can allways go back to Old Rosie.....
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Is that your story bro? How's that working for you?
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
newspaper article this week mentions females have average of 5 or 6 guys on the line at any given time. Don't listen to OP stay right away from these sites and just learn how to communicate. Way better off in the long run. It is far to easy for the female to "always look for greener pasture"
Stay away as it will only drain your bank account and self worth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 59404040


I'm sure that's sometimes true....everyone's story is different..
I personally don't see woman as deceitful money grabbers. I live in an Little motorhome , proudly buy my clothes from savers and usually drive a cheaper car..I don't find that as a real hindrance with women. I think most women just want someone real and are tired of cheese balls putting on acts.
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
newspaper article this week mentions females have average of 5 or 6 guys on the line at any given time. Don't listen to OP stay right away from these sites and just learn how to communicate. Way better off in the long run. It is far to easy for the female to "always look for greener pasture"
Stay away as it will only drain your bank account and self worth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 59404040


Actually I'm sure this is often true...and reading what you wrote again I don't see that you were really inferring that women are money grabbers.

I personally don't have a problem communicating with women..I'm just a bit unique in my lifestyle ...so I was looking for a real needle in a haystack type of individual...I also had many single dates and thought my way through it..
But I can see you caution as valid
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12/03/2016 04:50 PM
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
you just inspired me to update my pof account.maybe there is a lady out there for me? if any ladies are interested? personal message me for a link. thank you.

Last Edited by Fardy Schitz on 12/03/2016 04:51 PM
i have in my life judged people by what they say to others and how they go about it. many think shills are on this web site. i do not doubt that at all. i usually make my mind up with how people treat others. no matter what opinions they may have.
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12/03/2016 05:06 PM
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you just inspired me to update my pof account.maybe there is a lady out there for me? if any ladies are interested? personal message me for a link. thank you.
 Quoting: Fardy Schitz


Yea..I had a POF account at one time...it just struck me as the Walmart variety..the personality matching thing that both Match and ok Cupid use seem to let you start out with shared interests a main component. Ok Cupid was a much more in depth use of this, in my opinion.
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you just inspired me to update my pof account.maybe there is a lady out there for me? if any ladies are interested? personal message me for a link. thank you.
 Quoting: Fardy Schitz


Yea..I had a POF account at one time...it just struck me as the Walmart variety..the personality matching thing that both Match and ok Cupid use seem to let you start out with shared interests a main component. Ok Cupid was a much more in depth use of this, in my opinion.
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okay.ill have a look.i know what you mean by the"wal-mart" variety. lol.the dating sites are not a good place to find someone. it seems like its the only place to do so nowadays. i wouldn't even get noticed today. many women are looking at their phones.
i have in my life judged people by what they say to others and how they go about it. many think shills are on this web site. i do not doubt that at all. i usually make my mind up with how people treat others. no matter what opinions they may have.
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12/03/2016 05:13 PM
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The type of people who resort to online dating are the type who are there because it is the only avenue left to them. They lack the social skills, basic hygiene, and personality to meet people in person and build relationships.

Online dating is the last greasy truck stop on the road to getting a cat and giving up entirely.
Fardy Schitz

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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
The type of people who resort to online dating are the type who are there because it is the only avenue left to them. They lack the social skills, basic hygiene, and personality to meet people in person and build relationships.

Online dating is the last greasy truck stop on the road to getting a cat and giving up entirely.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71056255


not necessarily so my friend. not for me anyhow. women are very different today.20 years ago before i met my ex. it was much easier to find a date. you could actually approach women back then. i would not even dare do this today.
i have in my life judged people by what they say to others and how they go about it. many think shills are on this web site. i do not doubt that at all. i usually make my mind up with how people treat others. no matter what opinions they may have.
Hayseed (OP)
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12/03/2016 05:19 PM
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you just inspired me to update my pof account.maybe there is a lady out there for me? if any ladies are interested? personal message me for a link. thank you.
 Quoting: Fardy Schitz


Yea..I had a POF account at one time...it just struck me as the Walmart variety..the personality matching thing that both Match and ok Cupid use seem to let you start out with shared interests a main component. Ok Cupid was a much more in depth use of this, in my opinion.
 Quoting: Hayseed 72211123


okay.ill have a look.i know what you mean by the"wal-mart" variety. lol.the dating sites are not a good place to find someone. it seems like its the only place to do so nowadays. i wouldn't even get noticed today. many women are looking at their phones.
 Quoting: Fardy Schitz


just remember it's just a 1st impression...don't waste to much time chit chatting. If you like her , tell her she "seems" pretty cool and invite her to some different type of experience....be totally you...some chick out there is looking for exactly that
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Re: I've walked through the mine field of online dating ..
The type of people who resort to online dating are the type who are there because it is the only avenue left to them. They lack the social skills, basic hygiene, and personality to meet people in person and build relationships.

Online dating is the last greasy truck stop on the road to getting a cat and giving up entirely.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71056255


Oh get the hanky out of your butt crack Thurston .,take off your powdered wig and breath.

There is that element and there is an element where people have taken great time in building essays showing wisdom, wit, and passion.

Kind of like GLP. , there is a lot of bull shit here, but if you take the time to read and search you find individuals of great skill and depth





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