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The Deplorable Tricky Bigguy User ID: 56638406 United States 12/11/2016 05:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | when i was 40 i had a 20 YO hottie. her father still does my taxes. WTF would i hang out with a 40 YO when i could hang with a 20 YO? YOLO.... Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. ~ Life is about choices, you get to make them each and every day of your life. ~ Capitalization is the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse and helping your uncle jack off a horse.~ Only in America... do we use the word 'politics' to describe the process so well: 'Poloi' in Greek meaning 'many' and 'tics' meaning 'bloodsucking creatures'.~ “When a government is dependent for money upon the bankers, they and not the government leaders control the nation. This is because the hand that gives is above the hand that takes. Financiers are without patriotism and without decency.” If you're not a liberal at twenty you have no heart, if you're not a conservative at forty you have no brain. Winston Churchill |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73547733 United States 12/11/2016 05:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My BF is 26 and I am 43 Quoting: Snow Kitty It doesn't even seem like their is an age difference when we are together Yeah until 10 years from now when you're 53 and he's 36 and able to pull young 20 somethings. He can't get 20 something now why would that change? Lol |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 65257742 United States 12/11/2016 06:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You better get a gameplay together to nail her. Otherwise, you're heading towards friend-zone certain doom. You.must impress her early, women love older men because of maturity. Hope you've been working out, you need to be lifting like three weeks ago. Don't be her gay friend unless that is what you actually want. Best of luck, you got this, brother! Confidence!!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71417606 ^^^ THIS ^^^ i naively made this mistake many times when i was young before i fully realized what was going on you have to make that go/no-go evaluation early on as to whether or not it is leading somewhere or else you can look forward to listening to her complain about her boyfriends |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 38072350 United States 12/11/2016 06:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I havent gotten details on what " spending time " might be yet but assuming this girl just looking to watch some netflx or go for a ride on my bike or bust up some ps4 or something as benign with no sexual anything implied or expected. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45294633 is that ok? Why is it any of your business? The better question would be is it appropriate for you to be stalking this woman? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71571656 United States 12/11/2016 07:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I havent gotten details on what " spending time " might be yet but assuming this girl just looking to watch some netflx or go for a ride on my bike or bust up some ps4 or something as benign with no sexual anything implied or expected. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45294633 is that ok? Need more context OP. How do you know her? What are your feelings toward her? What's her story? Well , Im sick of hanging out with my current manic depressive alcoholic friends. Ya know , the life sucks every 10 minutes crowd. And so I was on craigslist and was looking in the strictly plutonic section and I saw this adorable black girl. I mean CUTE and so I wrote her just to say I thought she was pretty. I wasnt expecting her to want to chill as the age gap was pretty big. But she said age is just a number after i sent her a picture and she asked if I want to hang out sometime. ofcourse internet land is catfish supreme territory so a picture with the current date and lets chill written on a piece of paper to make sure im not going to see some big fat sweaty dude. but if she passes that test I was thinking about it. Maybe take her for a ride on my bike and maybe netflix and dinner or something. Take her for a bike ride and maybe netflix or something shes a fucking craigslist whore dude, the fuck you think she wants from you, an emotional connection? Jesus fuck I hope you're not serious |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71571656 United States 12/11/2016 07:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My BF is 26 and I am 43 Quoting: Snow Kitty It doesn't even seem like their is an age difference when we are together Yeah until 10 years from now when you're 53 and he's 36 and able to pull young 20 somethings. He can't get 20 something now why would that change? Lol It'd change because you'll look old as fuck. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 9642824 United States 12/11/2016 07:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I havent gotten details on what " spending time " might be yet but assuming this girl just looking to watch some netflx or go for a ride on my bike or bust up some ps4 or something as benign with no sexual anything implied or expected. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45294633 is that ok? When I was 25 I dated a 52 year old man. Nothing wrong with it at all. The relationship didn't work out, but it was the first non-drama-filled parting of ways I'd ever had. We are still cordial to each other even now, a decade later. I agree with the above poster, don't expect to marry this girl though. |
Just Trina User ID: 26709456 United States 12/11/2016 07:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I havent gotten details on what " spending time " might be yet but assuming this girl just looking to watch some netflx or go for a ride on my bike or bust up some ps4 or something as benign with no sexual anything implied or expected. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45294633 is that ok? Need more context OP. How do you know her? What are your feelings toward her? What's her story? Well , Im sick of hanging out with my current manic depressive alcoholic friends. Ya know , the life sucks every 10 minutes crowd. And so I was on craigslist and was looking in the strictly plutonic section and I saw this adorable black girl. I mean CUTE and so I wrote her just to say I thought she was pretty. I wasnt expecting her to want to chill as the age gap was pretty big. But she said age is just a number after i sent her a picture and she asked if I want to hang out sometime. ofcourse internet land is catfish supreme territory so a picture with the current date and lets chill written on a piece of paper to make sure im not going to see some big fat sweaty dude. but if she passes that test I was thinking about it. Maybe take her for a ride on my bike and maybe netflix and dinner or something. OP-- Please be careful. Our friend was set up and murdered when he hooked up with a young black girl . She had a bf. And they shot and killed him, stuffed him in the trunk of his car.After tenants of an apt complex noticed flies buzzing around a car in a large amount. The FBI found his body and notified his family on his sons senior prom. 2 months after Phillip Troutwine went missing . They stole his laptop , money, credit cards, and it's a known theft ploy. I'm just giving you a heads up. You can research and read about it. He lived in Ohio and worked at Vandalia airport. PLEASE... IF YOUR SMART, RUN A BACKGROUND CHECK ON HER AND ANYONE SHE ASSOCIATES HERSELF WITH...IT'S WORTH THE $35 a pop!! Just sayin... Last Edited by Trap’d in a Phone on 12/11/2016 07:44 AM |
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