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deplorable but adorable davvi User ID: 12716342 United States 12/21/2016 09:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No different than losing a family member....know the feeling .... this piece by the writer Eugene O'neill I found very comforting ...hope it helps a bit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73319871 [link to www.eoneill.com] That is beautiful, thank you so very much! Oh dear, blurry vision. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65061276 United States 12/21/2016 09:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got two sweet terriers off Craig's list, this after trying to get one from the humane society. The society was so intrusive, wanting all kinds of information they don't need. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Also try Petco where they will let you adopt right out of the gate when they have rescue days. Also some elderly person may have gone home and their kids will give the dog away, may check into that. Hi I believe that The Humane Society is pretty political in its purpose. They only feature a few dogs and I had a pretty bad experience with one of their minimum wage employees. People really should think before speaking of writing things, as in the freak/hater that wrote that 'you can't afford a pet', etc. Hahaha. No idea of my finances. Shame on him. Thanks for your input, sweetheart. I'm sorry you are going through this sad time. I have been there several times. Where I live, Animal Control usually discounts the price of dogs they have had for a good while and are nearing to the top of the list in regard to being killed (usually will go all the way down to $30). They are good natured dogs, but are usually pits or pit mixes or larger mixed breeds who no one notices. The small, cute dogs and puppies go fast. I got a black pit mix on her last day of availability and adore her. She is precious. |
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Ms. Superduper (OP) User ID: 70651884 United States 12/21/2016 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For what it's worth, a lot of folks see their deceased pets during their NDE. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73624773 If it was a hallucination like a dream, they would likely also see pets that are still alive. But they specifically see deceased pets and/or deceased relatives. They are letting us know they will be waiting at the Rainbow Bridge! My big, old German Shepherd/Wolf, when he was still here, would come to the side of the bed when I would first lay down and nudge my upper arm and then give me a big, sloppy kiss on my cheek. And even now (he died a few years ago) I occasionally feel him nudge my arm and kiss my cheek. It's very comforting. So sweet. Greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world. Whatever feels good to your soul, do that. |
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pmb1 User ID: 73384109 United States 12/21/2016 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe check some of the FB groups in your area as well, we got us a new cat from one. Poor baby girl is so tiny and pregnant. I could do without her being pregnant, but she needed someone to love her, and we do. MY old cat has been outside now for the past 6 years and he is still going strong at the ripe old age of 16. But having one in the house is so relaxing for me. My old cat refuses to come in the house any more, it was his choice to be outside. However dogs, are another thing I got a Chiweewee off our local FB group and the lady I got him from told me all the wonderful stuff about him, house broken, crate trained, quiet, loves to play. Nope he was not house trained. I had to replace my blanket on my bed after he peed on it for 2 weeks, then had to replace the mattress. Yeah he loved playing, but would run away when he was outside, he also had no shots done. Vet bills galore. So watch it when getting a small dog. Hated baths, and chewed up the couch when he was left alone. Luckily he got a good home to an older lady that is now taking him to doggie school. We adopted a Chihuahua from our local shelter $125 and the spay/ neuter paper didn't even cover half the neutering bill. I would recommend checking FB, and Craigslist then check around in free papers, or in your local paper for something that is free, we already pay for vet bills for shots and spay neuter why pay for a dog when we can get them free or with like $20 adoption fee. |
Eggcellently Deplorable Re-Instate Smith-Mundt! User ID: 35536071 United States 12/21/2016 10:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This thread should be super pinned for support! Many feeling the pain. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29306870 I agree! I'm on page 4 and I've been crying during the entire thread. My sweet girl passed shortly after Mothers' Day, just 2 weeks short of 16. I miss her so much. I pass her grave every day on the way to the Chicken House and back. She was the last person to see my husband alive, she came to the house and got me when he collapsed in the yard but he was already gone when I got to him. I missed him of course, I still do and always will, but it was easier somehow having her nearby. This is my first Christmas without either of them, and it has been difficult to say the least. This thread has been very therapeutic for me, and has firmed my resolution to look for an adult dog rather than a puppy. I just have to try and save some money because the shelter charges at least $250, and rescues charge similarly. If I were Donald Trump and wanted to do something really nice, I would go to all the animal shelters and secretly pay for all the adoption costs so that people who didn't have much money but who have a lot of love to give could rescue doggies and kitties who need that love. "I have come to the conclusion that all news should be treated like 9/11, assume it is a psyop with actors participating in a staged event complete with props, until proven otherwise, in which case assume whatever is being recorded, reported, televised, is distortions/lying by omission/outright lies, until proven otherwise." - Anonymous, 4-13-12 |
deplorable but adorable davvi User ID: 12716342 United States 12/21/2016 10:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This thread should be super pinned for support! Many feeling the pain. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29306870 I agree! I'm on page 4 and I've been crying during the entire thread. My sweet girl passed shortly after Mothers' Day, just 2 weeks short of 16. I miss her so much. I pass her grave every day on the way to the Chicken House and back. She was the last person to see my husband alive, she came to the house and got me when he collapsed in the yard but he was already gone when I got to him. I missed him of course, I still do and always will, but it was easier somehow having her nearby. This is my first Christmas without either of them, and it has been difficult to say the least. This thread has been very therapeutic for me, and has firmed my resolution to look for an adult dog rather than a puppy. I just have to try and save some money because the shelter charges at least $250, and rescues charge similarly. If I were Donald Trump and wanted to do something really nice, I would go to all the animal shelters and secretly pay for all the adoption costs so that people who didn't have much money but who have a lot of love to give could rescue doggies and kitties who need that love. I am so sorry for your loss and I do hope that you find comfort in your memories and the spirit of the Season. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73343436 United States 12/21/2016 10:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My dog died in September. I am not one of a 'rebound' nature so I've been just trying not to think about dogs at all. Quoting: Ms. Superduper So, I'm going to go and get, or rescue a little dog. (Rules here for size of pets.) Unfortunately, the fee for a shelter dog is almost as much as for other dogs. Any ideas on getting a dog? (No. I'm not going to steal a dog off the street - unless they are being abused or something like that.) This is what did it for me. This video I saw this morning. Sorry to hear....I got a puppy (first dog I've ever owned) and 4 months in she is the best. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose her, much less a dog that I had a ton longer. Australian Labradoodle, awesome dog, but not cheap, $2500 |
Eggcellently Deplorable Re-Instate Smith-Mundt! User ID: 35536071 United States 12/21/2016 10:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No different than losing a family member....know the feeling .... this piece by the writer Eugene O'neill I found very comforting ...hope it helps a bit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73319871 [link to www.eoneill.com] Thank You! "I have come to the conclusion that all news should be treated like 9/11, assume it is a psyop with actors participating in a staged event complete with props, until proven otherwise, in which case assume whatever is being recorded, reported, televised, is distortions/lying by omission/outright lies, until proven otherwise." - Anonymous, 4-13-12 |
Gringo-Crackerº User ID: 72230890 United States 12/21/2016 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to put down my 6 year old American Bulldog, she was awesome, and totally loved me. I miss her so much. I have a couple small dogs now and they are old, and totally loving and loyal. I am looking at miniature Aussies now. Trying to get ahead of my other dogs deaths.....losing dogs sucks! I am sorry Mrs... "Life is tough, it's tougher if you are stupid." - John Wayne Settle down Francis! |
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the redeemable furry pete User ID: 73628420 United States 12/21/2016 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
ib6xmb User ID: 8141483 United States 12/21/2016 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am sorry for your loss. I know the pain that is felt and it is tough. I lost my chewy almost 2 years ago and it still hurts! I am tearing up now as I write this. He is the little guy in my pic. <============== I told him the night he died that he would always be with me and I promised him that I would speak his name everyday. And I do! I wrote little things in a notebook about him, little quirky things that he used to do that I would probably forget over time and its helped me. I take comfort in remembering something about him everyday. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72510151 United States 12/21/2016 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I am not one of a rebound nature"......OP was a previous small dog owner who humanized her pet. There's no such thing as rebounding with animals. They are not humans. If all of my male dogs were to die tomorrow, I would be very sad yet looking for a new one. Get a grip. My dog died in September. I am not one of a 'rebound' nature so I've been just trying not to think about dogs at all. Quoting: Ms. Superduper So, I'm going to go and get, or rescue a little dog. (Rules here for size of pets.) Unfortunately, the fee for a shelter dog is almost as much as for other dogs. Any ideas on getting a dog? (No. I'm not going to steal a dog off the street - unless they are being abused or something like that.) This is what did it for me. This video I saw this morning. |
the redeemable furry pete User ID: 73628420 United States 12/21/2016 11:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well Cloony is a lib idiot what can we say "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
Where Eagles Dare Metal-American User ID: 69718773 United States 12/21/2016 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any of you guys read dog books when you were kids? I found some old dusty ones at school in the library, by Albert Payson Terhune. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers 'Where the Red Fern Grows.' That story tears me up every time. Isaiah 40:31 - But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. “They’ve got us surrounded again, the poor bastards.” - U.S. Army Paratrooper at Bastogne |
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Ms. Superduper (OP) User ID: 70651884 United States 12/21/2016 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I am not one of a rebound nature"......OP was a previous small dog owner who humanized her pet. There's no such thing as rebounding with animals. They are not humans. If all of my male dogs were to die tomorrow, I would be very sad yet looking for a new one. Get a grip. Quoting: trutherchick My dog died in September. I am not one of a 'rebound' nature so I've been just trying not to think about dogs at all. Quoting: Ms. Superduper So, I'm going to go and get, or rescue a little dog. (Rules here for size of pets.) Unfortunately, the fee for a shelter dog is almost as much as for other dogs. Any ideas on getting a dog? (No. I'm not going to steal a dog off the street - unless they are being abused or something like that.) This is what did it for me. This video I saw this morning. Girlfriend, you really should work on getting a sense of humor. Last Edited by Ms. Superduper on 12/21/2016 11:16 PM Greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world. Whatever feels good to your soul, do that. |
the redeemable furry pete User ID: 73628420 United States 12/21/2016 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any of you guys read dog books when you were kids? I found some old dusty ones at school in the library, by Albert Payson Terhune. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers 'Where the Red Fern Grows.' That story tears me up every time. One of the great ones, also a little known favorite of mine is The Dog Crusoe, about a Newfoundland dog an explorer saves from Indians about to eat him. Delicious! pun intended "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
the redeemable furry pete User ID: 73628420 United States 12/21/2016 11:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Made me cry as a kid "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
Sunshyne User ID: 55303780 United States 12/21/2016 11:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any of you guys read dog books when you were kids? I found some old dusty ones at school in the library, by Albert Payson Terhune. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers Oh my yes! I loved all dog books, but especially collie ones. Will admit I read every horse book I could get my hands on, as well. ;) Loved Albert Payson Terhune!! I still have so many of my childhood books. ~ Keep on dancin' ~ |
the redeemable furry pete User ID: 73628420 United States 12/21/2016 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any of you guys read dog books when you were kids? I found some old dusty ones at school in the library, by Albert Payson Terhune. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers Oh my yes! I loved all dog books, but especially collie ones. Will admit I read every horse book I could get my hands on, as well. ;) Loved Albert Payson Terhune!! I still have so many of my childhood books. Well it is my great pleasure to meet another Terhune fan! I always wanted to go to New Jersey and find him, never did, lol and horses! Fury was my all time favorite, and here in my dotage I have a Fury! see pic Also I worked with an animal trainer that had worked with Fury, said he was a great great horse. Last Edited by Furrry Pete on 12/21/2016 11:21 PM "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
thinking... User ID: 73351733 United States 12/21/2016 11:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've had dogs all of my life and I miss every one of them who has passed on. I've also rescued many who I came to love but couldn't keep and I miss them, too. All the best to you and your new baby, whoever that turns out to be, Ms Superduper. May you have lots of love and many, many happy years together. In his poem Human Pride, Marx admits that his aim is not to improve the world, reform or revolutionize it, but simply to ruin it and enjoy it being ruined: With disdain I will throw my gauntlet full in the face of the world, And see the collapse of this pygmy giant whose fall will not stifle my ardor. Then will I wander godlike and victorious through the ruins of the world And, giving my words an active force, I will feel equal to the Creator. “Looking for consciousness in the brain is like looking in the radio for the announcer.” – Nasseim Haramein, Director of Research for the Resonance Project |
Sunshyne User ID: 55303780 United States 12/21/2016 11:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any of you guys read dog books when you were kids? I found some old dusty ones at school in the library, by Albert Payson Terhune. Quoting: the redeemable furry pete Collie stories, Lad, a dog, Thane, son of Lad, etc I read them over and over, especially in the summers Oh my yes! I loved all dog books, but especially collie ones. Will admit I read every horse book I could get my hands on, as well. ;) Loved Albert Payson Terhune!! I still have so many of my childhood books. Well it is my great pleasure to meet another Terhune fan! I always wanted to go to New Jersey and find him, never did, lol and horses! Fury was my all time favorite, and here in my dotage I have a Fury! see pic Also I worked with an animal trainer that had worked with Fury, said he was a great great horse. OMG!! I loved Fury!!! ;) I envied Billy Diamond big time! ;) And yes, I have always loved your Fury avatar. lol Special meaning now. ;) Always wanted a collie. ;) God bless Terhune for sharing his heart and love with us, eh? ~ Keep on dancin' ~ |