If God is just he should let me or my wife die. She has borderline personality disorder and we are both in hell because of it.

Fuck...you are lucky.

At least YOUR bag of mental actually says sorry after one of her fits.

I was married to one for 10 years EXACTLY the same.

And she never ever EVER apolagised...for ANYTHING...big OR small.

You at least have one that loves you.

LOL, pretty sure this is business as usual for most long term relationships.

Its dark entities - ask AA Michael to remove them from her aura...

Divorce, not death is the answer. What is wrong with YOU??

YO MOMMA

Sounds like an excuse for bad behavior, just like PMS. I'm a woman and I literally cringe when women act like assholes and say it was PMS, really a bunch of bullshit.

Don't even get me started on the bipolar bullshit craze. You know there are people who are legitimately manic depressive (the old term for bipolar), but this bullshit I'm seeing now is people who are real ASSHOLEs then pawn it off as mental illness, sometimes even get disability, but really can flip a switch and act totally normal if they want to. Sorry, pal that is NOT true mental illness.

I have an ex who's "bipolar", treated our son like crap, ignored him, et cetera, funny how he treats his other kids just fine, funny how that "mental illness" works out. Nope, sorry pal that's not true mental illness. That's being a spoiled asshole.

Now like I said, there is definitely bonified true mental illness in this world and I've seen in, but it seems to have come in fashion now to be mentally ill and I am seeing a lot of just plain bad spoiled behavior classified as mentally ill.

As the previous poster stated sounds pretty normal in a lot of relationships unfortunately. At least you get a couple of good days out of the deal.

It was almost comical the first few times. Then I realized it was going to never stop.

I thought mine would grow out of it.


She didnt.

She grew into it and perfected it.

Ask her if she enjoys living her life on the hellish rollercoster that is her behavior.

Speak plainly and tell her she acts BPD.

Her behavior is a choice.

She should see a psychiatrist and get benzos or whatever if that's what she needs to get control of herself.

Marital separation if necessary.

Listen to this guy, people. This is what happens when you ignore red flags at the beginning of a relationship.

Your you, you made the choice to be together. Dont blame God.
You created it, you create your solution, it may be challenging, who knows?

Three different therapists, countless discussions when she is calm to try and stop it, both of us rational.

Then something trival happens and she is not herself whatsoever.

For those who say divorce, I think about it alot. We have a child and I shield him from it as much as I can. She says she will lie and say a bunch of crazy shit to take him away from if I ever leave. Then when she is being rational she takes it all back of course.

My life is constantly wondering when something will set her off again.

Don't go poking around in crazy

Borderlines don't apologize or take accountability for any of their bad behavior. However, there is help with the behaviors associated with all kinds of personality disorders here: outofthefog.website.

Its the 25 entities in her aura

Just ask AA Michael, or whoever you pray to, to get rid of them.

Bingo

This is bad, but not unfixable. If you ask me simple, direct questions. I will give you answers to match. Do what you will with them.

OP, found this link below in "related threads". Might help you to understand why she does what she does. Per the link scientists did a study and determined that bpd is caused by a brain dysfunction.

Maybe if you do some research you might find some drug/treatment to at least lesson it. Good luck to you. Hope it gets better for both of you.

Thread: Scientists Identify Brain Malfunction Linked With Borderline Personality Disorder.

Women are representative of the earth.

She does love you, which is why it will end in disaster because loving someone is to scary for her.

Few therapists are trained to recognize multiple personality disorder which is what you're describing as to shifting "moods". Although they appear as mood swings, they are actually personality changes. Chances are high that she was abused over a period of time (psychologically, physically, sexually). No amount of "discussion" addresses this problem without spiritual help.

They typically go through 4 basic stages (with some in-between ones sometimes)--a totally vulnerable childlike personality, contrite and broken, repentant and need of guidance, etc. This is perfectly designed to draw in and manipulate the naturally protective nature of the male. Once achieved and the male is "hooked", the manipulation deepens, the control widens--until inexplicable behavior emerges, a free spirit promiscuously changes moods, the male looses all control or understanding at to what "he" did wrong to bring "this" on--until darkness takes over, a mean-spirited vengeful creature emerges; again, a seeming mood change--but in actuality a personality construct designed by an incredible mind that has developed its own defense mechanisms.

This takes commitment of the highest order. Physical disease is easier to contend with than diseases of the mind. It is not hopeless, however. Educate yourself about the disease. Further realize that this comes from evil of the highest order. Be spiritually educated about this as well. You will need it. If you can both overcome this, your life will be a blessing instead of a curse.

People who ignore the red flag are usually helpful and kind people, having great compassion, but weak border.

Don't pat yourself just because you think you're kind since even with being kind, you can still have disfunctional personality that attracts parasite and maggot like the narcissist and any other disordered personality. To be balance, being kind should be tempered with having healthy border or limit which everyone should respect.

Asshole should know there's line they can not cross with you and you shouldn't just accept any "freak show" by the asshole without questioning it. If the freak shower refuses to explain their behavior or demand you have compassion for it, draw the strict line, demand them to get psychological help or separate if they refuse to change.

Kindness in this imperfect world where it can be taken advantage of, should have it's limit. In fact being assertive and demanding respect for ethical border, you are actually encouraging good behavior which is a true kindness since if people respect that border, they'll become a better person.

I spent 13 years in that exact same hell.
Don't try to make sense of it, of any of it.
They thrive on your misery, nothing good ever comes of it.
Borerlines are succubi.

Don't blame God LOL who the fuck is God?

Truth

She needs deliverance from Jesus Christ. She needs to admit to him her behavior isn't right and ask him to help her stop. When you set your mind to control something within your own power but cannot then thats the real problem and only God Jesus can help at that point.

This ^^^^

now ask that she be protected with White Light so it wont happen again.

Did she spend any time in a mental hospital?
or a religious place where they brought attention to demons?

She needs to become mentally strong and fit, because the mind gets out of shape without use just like the body and when it does all sorts of wonderful things can happen.

How do I know, I have delusional depression, similar to a schizophrenic with voices and delusions and all of that wonderful stuff. I take no medications, they aren't needed because I train around those deficiencies. And it's mainly about learning to control your emotions because the game is either to control them or be controlled by them. And well it's like anything the more you practice controlling emotions, they easier it becomes. But controlling emotions is in part about understanding, so one needs to honest with themselves and look for what influences certain emotions and what changes them as well.

It's long road, one most won't take as they will opt for the supposed quick fix "pop a pill" which only masks or obscures the issues even more, but it does help by sometimes diminishing the feelings until you build up a tolerance to the medications.

Either way good luck and stay strong on your journey with her.

Lol methinks thou dost project too much!