Maybe you guys are looking in the wrong places for great women

Thank you, was not something I desired.and was something I never would have imagined. But, life goes on. :D

Thank you for your thread.

Ahhhhh!!!

It's too much shit! I'm not afraid of anything, AT ALL. I'm no dummy either, so when I've heard every damn excuse in the books about why I get rejected, it's a little much.

TOO GOOD LOOKING??? I'm too good looking?? WTF does that even mean??

Can't even ask a girl out without her thinking I just want sex. Can't just have sex either, because she wants romance. Doesn't want romance though, she wants excitement. Doesn't want excitement, she wants stability. Doesn't want to watch a movie, but can binge watch Greys Anatomy for days.

If I was a afraid of failure, I wouldn't even try. But the game appears to be rigged.

Any guy who thinks he's winning the game is being ALLOWED to think that.

You are better off looking for the love of your life kin the library than the BAR..... You get what you pay for, if she's a whore, she will cheat on you..

Hot to trot means they like to stray a LOT!

Am sorry that is the kind of women you are attracting. We are not all like that.

since you don't like women just admit it that you are GAY!!

Try somewhere new A/C .. leave behind what does not work for you. Like Tinder. I gurantee 90% of these women are just looking for a quick hook-up. As far as commitment goes man , how do you expect to find a lady if commitment is out of the question? That is confusing as fck for me bro. Ladies will require commitment

*giggles* Lucky wife you've got...and I am sure vice versa. Nice to see people in happy and healthy relationships. Unfortunately, that seems to be a bit of a rarity.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed. But damn, it's a mess out here, I'd almost take my awful marriage over this. At least then I had some one to talk to and at least have sex once a month.

LMAO!!! Just saw this: "Fartimus Prime"

Not me, loser.

Not so much where I am from. I agree things have changed alot but some of us do not stray from our values. Or it would take a war to get us too.

I get how you feel. Hope you find her.

That is a gift from my 17 year old son.. lol

It is not too bad where I am from either (small place.) Guess I made that comment due to what I see a lot on here. Silly me. *giggles*

Ha ha ha! My 15 year old is like that, too! Gotta love the kids! *huge smile*

Oh, I see how I got a little confusing there for a sentence or two.

I DONT just want sex, but they think I do. I'll commit, no problem, I was married for 15 years, I can commit.

I used Tinder twice in one year, both for about a week, zero luck at all. No nothing. It's garbage.

I've approached probably 30-40 girls the last 7-9 months, I have nothing to show for it. Guess I'm too good looking?

While the one girl I really liked, whose ex husband followed us and he assaulted me one night then tried to kill himself, has a smoking hot chick who let him move in with her.

Something's not right out there, something is broken.

Nice guys finish last

I don't know that much about dating. I honestly thought that love was reciprocal, expressed in many ways and available to healthy relationships. Boy was that a wake up call after being married for 20 years. The first guy was completely a taker.

:thumbsDown:

*giggles* Hello??? I was married for 17 am in the same boat as you. LOL Have not approached that many, though. But, please at least see there are still some of us out there.

Yea I grew up in Savannah , Ga but live alot more rural now. Things are different in large towns and cities then in small towns cause people in large cities allow trends , politics and media control their life. Out in the country it is a complete different animal as I am sure you know

Would like to think that it is never too late.

You don't often see super hot guys with plain looking women with hearts of gold, or 50-60 year old mega wealthy men with women their own age.

Indeed. Spend 18 years travelling Earth and living in different countries. Seems that is the same in other places as well (city vs. country.)

When I decided to move back to the US, that was one of the reasons I moved where I did. ;) But, there is also a bit of a down-side to that as well. *giggles* Many are either happily married or way too young. *shrugs and laughs*

I wasn't going to reply on this topic. But here I am, my two dimes.
The social division between men and women has made women more self sufficient, and when they realized that they were doing everything a man does, then they felt they had the right to behave as men do, in the realm of sex...they slept around without a care or concern for the feelings of men. They realized men would often have secret affairs without consequence. So they followed suit. I'd say it's karma that will now plague all parties.
I can only speak for myself that I don't sleep with a man without a commitment and 99% of men will break it off if I even put that boundary down. I have morals. I have honor. Yet I am single because I have yet to even go out on a date with a man who behaves honorably, himself. The last date I went on, he was trying to snake his hand up my skirt and backing me into the corner because, "you just looked so stunning I couldn't help myself". Then he had the audacity to suggest I come to his house for lunch the following day. No. So, maybe the girls these days are still stuck in the perpetual motion of shutting off emotions like so many guys do, and whoring around. But I love and respect myself and I would rather be alone than be disrespected for a lifetime, or even a breath of time.

You think men choose their mates like women do?

Women hold all the power nowadays...So your point is out the window

Women want mens money/labor
Men want womens body/sex

Men peak at about age 40-55
Women peak at 22-26

Think about that

If you're older than 25, and a woman, better get pregnant and lock down a man soon - or else the wall will hit you like a pile of bricks and you'll be left depressed because you weren't smart enough when you were young

I am sure it is just a matter of time before someone finds the prize. You seem pretty damn down to earth cool too me

Too bad your in Arkansas. I have no business down there, except to maybe visit my fathers side of the family. Just outside of Little Rock somewhere.

After 17 years, I'm sure your both eager to date AND apprehensive to date. Such a crazy world....

You really are clueless.

How it is you deduced that I'm a self righteous ego maniac that treats women like property, is quite the stretch, assuming I can't keep or get a woman is even more hilarious. Your response is more telling about your own disposition. Project much? We all, now, know why it is that you haven't been with another woman in 19 years. You can't get any other women.

You assume that, because I've had these experiences and can cite them, whereas you've been dormant for the past 19 years getting cucked, that somehow it makes me a "loser." Sorry that the truth hurts, beta cuck. I'm content with my life and my relationships, the fact you made this thread shows how insecure you are with yours.

Yea alot of men hate to admitt that we are even bigger snakes. Well said