Parents won't STFU about me getting married

Maybe you should say no to them instead of being a pussy and posting it here. Second if you don't split soon that single mom your banging will get knocked up by you soon even if she has to squeeze jizz out of a condom like a pastry bag. 3rd if your mom dosent like this broad you should take a second look. Mothers are very good at spotting bad apples among women.

I tell them..listen, I love you and I know you're coming from a good place but I'm going to live my life the way I want to. But the badgering ensues the next time I see them.

I was shocked you were a dude after reading the first few lines. You sound like a fancy boy.

OP.

You do NOT have to by in to the INSTITUTIONAL MARRIAGE CONTRACT.

I went down that road....was married for 13 years....have 2 beautiful daughters. It was 6 years ago that I got divorced.

You can get Married in GODS eyes spiritually to your girlfriend without entering the Institutional Contract.

You ask her to Marry You, give her a Ring, and the two will become One Flesh in GODS eyes.

You will be husband and wife, NO INTITUTIONAL CONTRACT Necessary. The government and state have NO BUSINESS in ANYONES Marriage or with their children.

Just wanted to share this with you in case you want to Stop Fornicating so you will have life vs. risking death for your soul.

PEACE and GOOD LUCK

My mom especially. Every other week she tells me I have to get married and that time is passing me by. I love her but she needs to stop this foolishness before I go berserk on her.

I'm currently dating a girl with a kid. My mom knows about her but doesn't like her because she has a kid. I get where she's coming from but I enjoy being with this girl when we get together on weekends. Actually she's been pressuring me lately about marriage too.

To both my mother and girl I'm currently fucking, NO, I am NOT getting married. Now STFU about it. I like my life the way it is..in my own house, no kids and a job that gives me enough money to do the things I want to do when I'm not working.

Why fuck with that when the alternative could be disastrous?

I live in a big city and make $130k a year at a white collar job. With the changes in health insurance for 2017, and increases in my federal tax burden, I can no longer afford to live.

After child support, alimony, cheap rent (sub $800 a month), college loans, bills, but no budget for entertainment, eating out, or trips/games/anything at all, I will now be short $1000 a month. That includes already eating rice, beans, and cheap chicken cuts, and drinking only water or the free coffee from work.

Last month I was scraping by with nothing to save. Now I am in the red by default.
Maybe I can choose to scramble to get a part time job? Maybe I can beg for freelancing gigs? Maybe I can choose to not pay alimony or child support and wait for my inevitable garnishment or arrest? Maybe I can choose not to pay rent and wait to be evicted? Maybe I can try to score a better paying job, even though I am at my peak?
All for what?

Ten years ago I was just out of graduate school. I was single, saving money, and building a future. I went out and had fun. Life was good. So how did I get from A to B?
I got married and had kids.

The debt piled up from a big wedding and worthless purchases because I believe she "deserved" it. My wife wanted to be a stay at home mom, putting further strain on us, but I made it happen because it was "best" for the kids. Then last year she decided, after having two kids and becoming a social media zombie, that she no longer had the tingles for me. I gave her everything she wanted, and it was not enough.

All I had left was split between her and the lawyers.
I am definitely to blame for this fuck up. By being a believer. By assuming others were honest, and that society and its laws were fair. By not seeing the writing on the wall or listening to other men. By believing women were rational or honorable.

Now my ex-wife, the government, and the banks impatiently hold out their hands, waiting for their cut.
I'm done. I'm abandoning this failed existence, and all the accounts, numbers, IDs, and contact methods that go with it. If I have to sleep in a park or on a street corner, so be it. If I'm forced to go to jail, so be it. I refuse to do this anymore. I'd rather be a piece of human trash than a struggling serf.
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To the young men: don't repeat my mistakes.

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