ex fiance who i havent been with in 8 years who got married and recently divorced in a year and a half keeps texting me

Why did you break up 8 years ago and are uou with someone now?

She is looking for something to make her feel better.

Why not just tell her how things are now, no reason to be mean.

She cheated , we split . I took her back 6 months later , wasnt the same

I really should just tell her to fuckoff.

Im looking to be no ones band aid.


We did have a strong connection though.


I just dont want to talk to her. I wish shed just take the hint.

I dont want to start dreaming about her again.

and im not dating anyone nor do I have plans to perhaps ever again.

Are you currently with someone? Did she break your heart in an unforgivable way? If so, just ignore and keep it that way.

If not, it might not hurt to get back in touch. Say hi. Catch up. She needs an ego boost, and possibly a rebound.

She cheated 3 weeks after we got engaged.


makes ya wonder why Im so reluctant to tell her to go away.
Why would anything in me want her around?


either way she just needs to stop.


im not going to be anyones rebound. Eff that

She is probably the typical selfish, emotionally vulnerable woman who can't stand being alone and so latches onto whoever she can to feel good about herself.

Just ignore her. She's not worth it if she did that to you. Could lead to a lot of trouble.

And if she keeps bugging you, politely tell her that you're sorry for what she's going through but you've moved on with your life, and that she should do the same and try to be happy.

Yea , I know. But having loved this woman so much makes it hard to do.

Its just effed she keeps texting every few years saying her cute words.

And being alone doesnt help either.


I dont even know why I made this thread. Just to vent I guess.


I wish shed just get married and stay married to some beta that will tolerate her selfish malcious behavior.

...and leave me to my hermit existence .

Fuck her right in the pussy then change your phone number it will feel goooooooddd.
Or be a cuck and take her back till she cheats on you.

Tell her to get a dildo.

Although...she would probably have trouble keeping it stiff and cheat on it in spite.

Tell her you are considering a sex change operation...something you've always secretly wanted but never told anyone about. You've started the hormones to shrink your penis and grow boobs, and the process is nearly complete. That should get rid of her.

ask her some money for some "special trouble"

she will never call you again

Don't take back women that cheat

If this is legit and you are not trolling, this is her chance to give you the honor she stole when she cheated. This is not, I repeat, not, a chance to resume your relationship. God brought her back to repay honor she STOL!e from you. That is all.

And she will cheat again.

Fucking brilliant!

This^ is the most sensible thing to do.

Broken egg unrepairable - move on!

this ^ !

do you like being played for a fool?

She's not even worthy of a reply. Best to forget, and I really do mean forget, about her. Like it never happened.

She's a ho'. Let it go.

If you had such a "STRONG CONNECTION"

Why did she fuck someone else?

Dont be a dumbass

Op is already hooked and will no doubt go groveling back and no doubt be chucked once again. Poor bastard.

This is your answer OP.

But seriously if you don't want to talk or text her, just figure out how to block her on your phone...

Alternatively you can declare your love for her on Facebook seeing as you had such a strong connection...

Op is been hooked ever since and will no doubt go groveling back and no doubt be chucked once again. Poor bastard.

Tell her you're broke.

She's a user OP.

Just send her a link to this thread.

Ugghh she called my phone again.

Why wont she goooo awayyyyy

She said she was scared of getting married and she didnt fuck this guy she had kissed him at a birthday party.

and I have been ignoring her texts and calls all week.


I refuse to be cucked. , I just wish she wasnt making it so hard.

I just wish shed stop.

I forgot my phone had a text and call block function. Am just about to add her number.


And we did have a strong connection.

one time I was in the fridge and saw hamburger relish and decided to go ask woman x if she'd ever tried it.

I walked in the room and got the frist half of the word have out my mouth. Litterally got the sound " ha " out and she interupted me with

" have I ever had hamberger relish before? Yea once but I didnt really like it "

My jaw was on the floor. I was freaked out for a number of days .

I could have literally been about to say or ask anything that started with the sound " ha " and she answered my never asked question like id already asked.

Run. She done you dirty, and probably did her ex dirty too. She is a cheater and will always be a cheater. Stay far, far, far away.