Big black coworker invited my wife to a barbecue

Don't let her go alone. It's just common sense that spouses go to events like this. Happens all the time.

there's a reason he didn't specifically invite you both, he has plans.

If she insists on going, go with her

She's a prostitute and he's her pimp...so yeah, I guess he's alright because he has a job.

She's obviously flirty with him and the way she talks about you at work to him he knows he's got a chance.

Show him he's not a threat and go eat his free food.

Avoid any area or event where negroes congregate! Most people know this...you should also OP.

No, not all black people 'know how to narbeque'. Wtf?!?

Op, the color doesn't matter. What matters is if the guy is hitting on her, or just a nice guy from work.

She should know!

If he's just a nice guy, you should go. If not, don't.

See how simple that is!

Fake.

You don't have a wife

or a job

BBQ is code for anal pounding

he invided both of you. just go. eat and have fun.

goodbye wife