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Caught my wife cheating...what should I do?
Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
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She is fucking him for sure. Don't be blind. Start saving evidence and hopefully you will get custody of the kids. Good luck.
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ask if you can watch
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The look on her face would be priceless! LOL
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Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
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Op I went through this BEFORE we had a kid. Kids make things harder. I am agnostic, but hold my wedding vows sacred. I confronted, she admitted and then we got counseling. Been great ever since and I am glad I never listened to everyone (religious) to cut the cord clean.

Follow your heart and use common sense if you still love her..
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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
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Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
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Op I went through this BEFORE we had a kid. Kids make things harder. I am agnostic, but hold my wedding vows sacred. I confronted, she admitted and then we got counseling. Been great ever since and I am glad I never listened to everyone (religious) to cut the cord clean.

Follow your heart and use common sense if you still love her..
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That's awesome advice.
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To the curb she goes
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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
 Quoting: CountryWise


I agree about the mutual failure thing...

Thx for the prayer. As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another un-involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.

She's not really a "yes sir" person, but she was very contrite.

She keeps taking offense at the tracking, so I will stop, good advice.

We are getting counseling currently, just wanted to see what the conspiracy theorists here thought...for shits and giggles.

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Feels bad man. Wtf
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As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.
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You make it sound like the both of you picked up some kids at a kids r us store.

GLPtards ALWAYS have dysfunctional relationships.

Just watch the most fucked up Jerry Springer show you can find on youtube, then do whatever they do.

Relationships are really not THAT hard, but the level of fail that abounds in this place makes it seem like a nearly impossible challenge.

Good luck.
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texas divorce
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NOTHING DONT GET DIVORCED TRY TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE IF U CAN DIVORCE SUCKS
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Divorce. If that happened to me I would kick my wife out same day and all her belongings, and change locks. But I don't fuck around and I was born in Eastern Europe.
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Re: Caught my wife cheating...what should I do?
Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
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if u think they are having sex then this is what u should do....Wait in the cupboard and get naked; wait till they are doing the doggy position and come out and put ur penis in his backside and say "HOWDY"5a
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Just bypass the cheating whore you married and let the dude you in the ass.

You're getting screwed either way.
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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
 Quoting: CountryWise


I agree about the mutual failure thing...

Thx for the prayer. As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another un-involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.

She's not really a "yes sir" person, but she was very contrite.

She keeps taking offense at the tracking, so I will stop, good advice.

We are getting counseling currently, just wanted to see what the conspiracy theorists here thought...for shits and giggles.
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Well you got a good answer from both a male & female, ignore the rest! Please. Positive vibes only.
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Just bypass the cheating whore you married and let the dude *fuck you in the ass.

You're getting screwed either way.
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ask if you can watch
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That is what good cucks do.

They ask for permission first.
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Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
 Quoting: wharrgarbl


They say that emotional "cheating" is worse than sexual. Been through it, but not while married. I ended the relationship.

Wishing you the best.

Google, "emotional affair or emotional cheating"
hf

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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
 Quoting: CountryWise


I agree about the mutual failure thing...

Thx for the prayer. As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another un-involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.

She's not really a "yes sir" person, but she was very contrite.

She keeps taking offense at the tracking, so I will stop, good advice.

We are getting counseling currently, just wanted to see what the conspiracy theorists here thought...for shits and giggles.
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Well you got a good answer from both a male & female, ignore the rest! Please. Positive vibes only.
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will do! thx!
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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
 Quoting: CountryWise


I agree about the mutual failure thing...

Thx for the prayer. As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another un-involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.

She's not really a "yes sir" person, but she was very contrite.

She keeps taking offense at the tracking, so I will stop, good advice.

We are getting counseling currently, just wanted to see what the conspiracy theorists here thought...for shits and giggles.
 Quoting: wharrgarbl


Spouses who lie about their whereabouts or go places they shouldn't go always take offense to being tracked.

And I'm sure that criminals take offense to being jailed.

That's just too goddamned bad.
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Smooth it over for now, say you understand. Document your evidence. If it goes on, get a PI. Have him document every move she makes.
When it's done you get the alamony and child support.
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Look, marriage is hard work.

You've both failed. Stop tracking her. She needs to stop seeing him. Period, unless they have kids together. Period. And if she won't, then you need someone else and not GLP.

Are the kids just yours and hers, mixture of you & her and his & her or just his and hers? It makes a difference.

Sorry OP. Tough situation.

Question, did she say "yes sir" when you told her to go home? Did she have the kids with her?

Sending a prayer for you for direction.
 Quoting: CountryWise


I agree about the mutual failure thing...

Thx for the prayer. As for the kids, they were not with her. We have some of our own, and one is hers and not mine, but from another un-involved man to this particular situation. She does not have kids with this man.

She's not really a "yes sir" person, but she was very contrite.

She keeps taking offense at the tracking, so I will stop, good advice.

We are getting counseling currently, just wanted to see what the conspiracy theorists here thought...for shits and giggles.
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You married a ho. May as well learn to live with that fact.
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Backstory: Been married 7 years. Wife was going to visit an old flame from before we were married for a couple of months back in November/December, claims no sex, but some kissing and also emotional infidelity. Caught her (tracking her phone) going to visit him in the hospital after he was almost killed in an accident in January. She went to visit him once since then, to his house (I believe he was still really bad off and out of it) after I told her not to go.

Today: She went to his mother's house without my knowledge (I tracked her through her phone) and he happened to be there. I found this out because I left work and knocked on the door. She came out and I told her to go home, I had to go back to work. I don't think she's sleeping with him, just wanting to see him on the mend. I'm going home in a few hours. I have no clue what to do/say.

We have kids.

1dunno1
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If I was in your situation, I would pay him a visit, and make it clear that if I ever found out he came within 30 feet of my wife again, I would make him sorry he recovered from his health problems. I would stress that his life would be made miserable, his mother's life would become miserable, and that he would never have another happy, carefree day or night. I would make sure he lost his job, didn't get another one, and that his mother would share in his misery. I would calmly tell him that within 12 months, he would be living under a bridge, spending his days at traffic lights with a cardboard sign.

The key would be telling him this in a dead-calm voice, making no physical threats at all.

Or, you can tell him that you can't live without your wife, and that you will kill yourself, leaving overwhelming evidence that he murdered you. He will spend the rest of his life in prison, unless you live in a state with the death penalty, in which case, he'll be meeting Mr. Mayhem.
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Kick that bitch out. Typical american female. They are so worthless fucking ay. Get a foreign bitch.
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bragging you have a wife, what an ahole. the rest of us haven't even touched a girl.
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Make sure to leave a glove a couple size smaller than your hand at the scene of the crime!
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been there.
Divorce asap.
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One guy in similar situation shaved her head and pussy. Took a pic and threatened to post it on the internet . She stopped the shit.
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No shit, my wife cheated with a work male, Fuck the two but he is the aggressor/ cuck. Divorce for it all infidelity and child abandonment!!!
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The moment she fornicated/committed adultery you were divorced (spiritually).

If you were married spiritually (only real marriage in Gods eyes) she needs to repent and correct herself...she is also defiled now, so you cannot touch her physically or in sexual way without defiling yourself. Please understand she is polluted now, and another mans soul and semen has propagated onto her mind, soul and body. It is likely she has a soul connection to that another man, and is even thinking of breaking the one with you and going with the other!

Depending on the case (very complex, God will judge), you may be able to go back together.





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