My ewife is a Heroine addict...what can I do?

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

Best thing in the long run, unfortunately, is to forget about her.

If she's still dealing with heroin addiction, she'll only bring bullshit into your lives.

Your child is far more likely to have addiction issues if either parent is going through any stage of addiction.

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

Screw the methadone, get her Ibogaine treatment in Mexico.
92% success rate curing opiate addiction, yes, CURING, with one dose, NO WITHDRAWAL. Costs approx $3000. Cheaper than long term methadone maintenance treatment or a stint in rehab, and both have high return-to-addiction rates. Not to mention the hell one goes through to get off methadone. True methadone success rates (meaning getting off it and staying clean forever) are somewhere around 15%.

The pharmaceutical companies who make methadone have prevented ibogaine from being tested and approved in this country because it would kill their bottom line. Do the research, ibogaine is the way to go.

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

1. Change all the locks
2. Find a way to divorce her
3. Make sure she does not have any way of getting credit cards taken out in your name.
4. Get a credit monitoring service going
5. Change all your passwords to very difficult things and change them often.
6. Go to your bank and inform them of the situation. Suck it up, you did not fail, she did. Tell the manager the situation and find some safeguards to where she can never have access to your money.
7. If / when she shows up, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER. Call the police immediately.


I am dead fucking serious about these things. Get this shit done now before she really starts needing money. Heroin addiction is a nasty mother fucker and addicts will do everything / anything for their next fix. I've seen it. I was an active addict in my 20s, cocaine and booze. 13 years ago and will never go back. But I've seen it all man. You need to lock down the financial shit before she figures out a way to get a credit card and rack up 50K in a month. Ir drains your bank account. She will get crafty and if you are still married she will have some legal standing to get access. And don't think for a minute she won't be able to manipulate a bank or something into giving her access. But if you've told them she's a junkie and you haven't seen her in 4 years they'll not allow her to weasel her way into your money.

You need credit monitoring that alerts you to every credit line opened. You need to divorce her because being married means you are responsible for all the debt she's racking up while you are still legally married, if you know about it or not. This shit is very serious and you need to take action to protect yourself and your son. She will have not one fucking problem shooting your son's college money into her arm, not one fucking bit. I'm not even remotely joking. It's time for you to start building barriers to protect you from her.

WHEN SHE SHOWS UP DO NOT LET HER IN THE HOUSE, PERIOD. She will say she needs help or needs to rest or she's trying to break the habit or whatever... DO NOT FALL FOR THAT SHIT. She will stay the night and rob your ass blind and be gone in the morning. WHEN SHE SHOWS UP CALL THE POLICE. If she really wants help that's the beginning.

AGAIN, DO NOT FUCKING ALLOW HER INTO YOUR HOME.

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

I have our son living with me...

It's been years since she' been around...

Her connect contacted me and told me everything.

Is there anything I can do?

Suggestions?

The dealer probably has your wife's corpse at his crackden. He's trying to extort you for money, dumbass. Move on. Tell the junkie wife to Rest in Piss.

Get her started on Kratom. Its cheap, legal (for now) and gets rid of cravings so she can kick the heroin.

Geeze people. Did you all read his post? He has not seen her in years, so she is NOT even around him. He has their son in his care, that's all.

In his short post he said that someone (her connect) called him and informed him what was going on with her. Apparently OP did not know???? Sounds like this came as a shock to him to me.

OP, there are a couple good tidbits on this thread. One of them says make sure she has NO access to any of your accounts and assets. That's important if she wanted to use those resources to get what she needs.

The second one is Ibogaine. I have an adult son who needs to go through the Ibogaine treatment but is not gonna do it on his own unless something drastic happens. But from what I understand, it's a Godsend. It's illegal in the US of course as so many great therapies and treatments are, but Mexico and Toronto are two great options.

Since you have little to no contact with her, then none of that really matters to you since you are not the one with the problems, so I am just throwing the information out there.