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Message Subject I'm making my daughter move out of the house because she's acting like a prostitute.
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem.
Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889




She may be hypersexual which is a symptom of a mental disorder.

Have you given her at least a decent amount of freedom and trust? I know some girls may do this because their dad babies and restricts them (be back before 9, no guys, etc) and that makes them want to do the complete opposite.

Yeah that is insanely bad...she probably needs your help but yet you threw her out. If you were truly caring and trusting, this isn't something you'd do. She probably has some issue going on but instead of talking about it, you just showed her you'd throw her away like a piece of trash. Now she'll never talk to you about anything. You created her, you have to be there for her. 18 isn't a magic number where she's suddenly no longer your daughter.

She's inevitably going to have sex. I mean, I bet you masturbate to women on video, so why hold her back? Just tell her to be responsible and remind her to make the right decision. You guys keep guarding your daughters virginity like it's the most valuable thing about her. It's creepy. And creates weird issues in your daughters lives. (Like op's post)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1458950


Clearly OP has given her TOO MUCH freedom and trust, which has the exact same effect. She had no foundation or boundaries. I have seen this firsthand. The female children of extreme liberals and conservatives end up the exact same way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71517325




I know parents who's kids started smoking cigarettes at age 13 because their piece of shit parents smoked. I agree it may be too much freedom. Set some boundaries, not too restrictive or lenient.
 
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