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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1458950 United States 05/19/2017 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. She may be hypersexual which is a symptom of a mental disorder. Have you given her at least a decent amount of freedom and trust? I know some girls may do this because their dad babies and restricts them (be back before 9, no guys, etc) and that makes them want to do the complete opposite. Yeah that is insanely bad...she probably needs your help but yet you threw her out. If you were truly caring and trusting, this isn't something you'd do. She probably has some issue going on but instead of talking about it, you just showed her you'd throw her away like a piece of trash. Now she'll never talk to you about anything. You created her, you have to be there for her. 18 isn't a magic number where she's suddenly no longer your daughter. She's inevitably going to have sex. I mean, I bet you masturbate to women on video, so why hold her back? Just tell her to be responsible and remind her to make the right decision. You guys keep guarding your daughters virginity like it's the most valuable thing about her. It's creepy. And creates weird issues in your daughters lives. (Like op's post) Clearly OP has given her TOO MUCH freedom and trust, which has the exact same effect. She had no foundation or boundaries. I have seen this firsthand. The female children of extreme liberals and conservatives end up the exact same way. I know parents who's kids started smoking cigarettes at age 13 because their piece of shit parents smoked. I agree it may be too much freedom. Set some boundaries, not too restrictive or lenient. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74708504 United States 05/19/2017 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then this.. a lot of ppl just dont want to admit it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1458950 United States 05/19/2017 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my daughter was a whore id throw her down the stira or out the window. take her in hand you fucking idiot sort her out before she brigns up a black baby Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74885715 You need to be sterilized ASAP. Not because of the black thing but because if she comes out a "whore", it was most likely your fault. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74885715 United Kingdom 05/19/2017 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my daughter was a whore id throw her down the stira or out the window. take her in hand you fucking idiot sort her out before she brigns up a black baby Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74885715 You need to be sterilized ASAP. Not because of the black thing but because if she comes out a "whore", it was most likely your fault. Raise your kids, learn them respect and to respect themselves and she won't go fucking every thing that passes including the local jungle bunny. If anyone needs sterilizing it's the whore daughter. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67848085 United States 05/19/2017 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then Give any 10 you 12 year old "tweener" girl a Smartphone and see how quick she's sexting and sending naked pics of herself to strangers. Its bad out there. How the Heck would you know that?I know adults do but?????? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74919333 Brazil 05/19/2017 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. If I had a daughter I would educate her to understand that if she wanted to have sex with someone for me it would be okay as long as this person came to support her and if I found out that she was no longer a virgin without getting married Would put her out of the house. You took too long to do this. |
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NotStarvingActress User ID: 74700299 United States 05/19/2017 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I hope you will really listen to what I have to say. Sadly your daughter has a mental block so anything you try to tell her will not work. However she is in danger, and bringing total strangers who do not respect her or you into your home. The only way to really save her is to find a counselor who will truly listen to her. WHY is she "acting out?" She's showing signs of someone who was somehow abused as a child (maybe she couldn't tell you about it for some reason?) Or a young woman who has extremely low self-esteem possibly from a hurtful break-up with a high school beau? Or she mistakenly thinks sexual addiction is the way to get popular in high school? I've even seen bisexual and lesbian girls become promiscuous with men and multiples to convince themselves their "normal." In our culture so many young women suffer from an extremely low sense of self-worth for much of their lives. You need to find a counselor who can relate to what your daughter is experiencing, and then work with her to set realistic life goals for herself. Please try to find someone caring who can get through to your child. Rather than throw her out on the street I'd recommend she take a semester off from college so she can get her life together, and learn to make better choices on her own. Sadly you can't do it for her. She needs to learn how with help from a professional counselor who has helped other young women. It's so hard today to find quality young men who do not take advantage of women who are vulnerable. That's especially true of those in college who usually cannot support themselves leastwise anyone else. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59048853 Czechia 05/19/2017 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then LEGIT^^^^^^ Story of my fucking life Me too. College was a horrible experience for me. I was so depressed I was really hoping a comet or planet would wipe us all out in 2012 LOL. If you're living a miserable life, college will just magnify your patheticness tenfold. You're struggling to just have a good conversation with a girl yet an average girl (I'm assuming she's average OP) is getting gangbanged by 20 mothafukken CHADS Chad or no Chad, it still wouldn't help your college life. I know that feeling bruh. Brutal as fuck. still pains me to this day |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74850278 Puerto Rico 05/19/2017 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Kick her out. Your house, your rules. If you don't want to be exposed to her lifestyle, which you have no obligation to put yourself through, you are within your moral and legal rights to kick her out. Make it clear that she is welcome to return if she needs help, but that you won't subsidize a lifestyle you don't approve of. Don't get mad, don't shout, don't lecture. She is an adult. Tell her that, as an adult, she may life as she pleases, but not on your dime or in your presence. If she won't move out, call the cops. College did not "make" her like this. College doesn't force anything on students. Rather, it provides an opportunity for students to behave in certain ways, for certain aspects of their personalities to come out. Your daughter was already like this - you just didn't know it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67193667 United States 05/19/2017 08:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we had to kick our daughter out, she actually straightened up, but there is a risk it may go the other way instead. One has to wonder if the younger generation doesn't understand that they have no future. They are certainly living as if there is no tomorrow, and i have to agree. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1458950 United States 05/19/2017 08:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I hope you will really listen to what I have to say. Sadly your daughter has a mental block so anything you try to tell her will not work. Quoting: NotStarvingActress However she is in danger, and bringing total strangers who do not respect her or you into your home. The only way to really save her is to find a counselor who will truly listen to her. WHY is she "acting out?" She's showing signs of someone who was somehow abused as a child (maybe she couldn't tell you about it for some reason?) Or a young woman who has extremely low self-esteem possibly from a hurtful break-up with a high school beau? Or she mistakenly thinks sexual addiction is the way to get popular in high school? I've even seen bisexual and lesbian girls become promiscuous with men and multiples to convince themselves their "normal." In our culture so many young women suffer from an extremely low sense of self-worth for much of their lives. You need to find a counselor who can relate to what your daughter is experiencing, and then work with her to set realistic life goals for herself. Please try to find someone caring who can get through to your child. Rather than throw her out on the street I'd recommend she take a semester off from college so she can get her life together, and learn to make better choices on her own. Sadly you can't do it for her. She needs to learn how with help from a professional counselor who has helped other young women. It's so hard today to find quality young men who do not take advantage of women who are vulnerable. That's especially true of those in college who usually cannot support themselves leastwise anyone else. I agree with your response. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74885715 United Kingdom 05/19/2017 09:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As long as she's not acting like a liberal, let her stay... just make sure she doesn't get knocked up and avoids the groids. Quoting: Jella Good chance she's already engaging with groid. Even non-lib women engage with them. It's the barebones truth nobody likes to talk about Then these daughters need beating to within an inch of their worthless lives |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74919333 Brazil 05/19/2017 09:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As long as she's not acting like a liberal, let her stay... just make sure she doesn't get knocked up and avoids the groids. Quoting: Jella Good chance she's already engaging with groid. Even non-lib women engage with them. It's the barebones truth nobody likes to talk about What she needs to do to act like a liberal? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70015265 United States 05/19/2017 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good for you OP. If she wants to whore, let her do it at her own expense. The trolls that tell you you're an asshole obviously do not have kids of their own. Likely they still live with their own parents and do the same thing. Disrespectful brats. What she will do with her life is her choice. Why should you support what you do not believe in? She is simply using you just like she uses everyone else. |