I'm a (Female) Virgin and I have to ask: Is Sex Enjoyable for Women?

No, it isn't enjoyable. Good thing they were being honest with you rather than falsely getting your hopes up.

When you lose your virginity it is going to hurt like hell, it's going to bleed, it's going to be awkward and it will not feel pleasurable at all. In fact I can guarantee that you will not even come close to feeling like you're about to have an orgasm. The man will be having the time of his like, though. It sucks, I know.

It has to do with our anatomy. Women only receive sexual pleasure if their g-spot/nerves are being hit. Most of the time this does not occur. Men on the other hand just need friction in order to feel pleasure. You won't feel any physical pleasure from sex, you're going to have to mentally convince yourself into thinking that it feels good. Basically you're going to have to trick your brain into assuming that because the man is enjoying it that you must be enjoying it too. Sex is a mental game for women, for men it's all physical arousing. That's why they get aroused easier and faster than women.

Don't waste your time. Just masturbate. It will guarantee you an orgasm and you won't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, getting humped for a grand total of two minutes, etc.

And I've never understood the appeal of faking an orgasm. Let the man know that he isn't doing a good job or satisfying you.

Op is a maggot troll!

Why not get a Hitachi while you are having sex, getting anal or giving a blowjob? You will orgams everytime.

It is when it's with me ;)

Obviously these women have never been fucked by a man who knows what he is doing.

Its easy to hit the g spot. Its all about angle and pressure.

My wife always ends up screaming in uncontrollable pleasure every time.

Because...i KNOW what I am doing.

But then I do have an advantage. My mother was a nurse and I read all her medical journals and know exactly where the g spot is and exactly how to hit it.

So you guys out there...study up. Get the angle right. Dont just shove it in and expect results. You have to WORK it just right.

It's more enjoyable if you're getting paid to do it.

I can tell if a woman is faking it then I go into forcing her to orgasm mode it takes a little work but there is a trick and you can do it via actual penetration sex.
But then if a woman is on some medication like anti depressants nothing can make her orgasm.

Honestly, you're wife could very easily be faking those "uncontrollable screams". It isn't that hard to fake a moan. She's could be just trying to make you feel better about your performance or she's trying to get you to hurry up and climax. The main reason that women fake their orgasms is to boost the man's ego, and also because they aren't getting any pleasure out of it but want to make it seem like they are.

And most men don't know what they are doing when it comes to female pleasure and arousal. Men stick it up and gyrate. They don't give a shit about "angles" they just want to get an orgasm for themselves. Women do not experience sex like men do, men have to put in the work, effort, and find out what positions or things will get their women aroused. Women aren't stimulated nearly as easily as men are.

Jesus Fucking Christ.

What scares me is not OP being a troll (he is, and I abide by 'he') but that there are women who actually wonder.

Nearly all women can orgasm through both clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. Many can orgasm through labial stimulation alone. Some can even orgasm through anal or aureola stimulation.

I'd estimate less than 1% of women are physically incapable of orgasm.

Consider that you may be doing it wrong, and spend however much time you require with a phallic implement to figure out the particulars of your body.

Don't feed the fucking troll anymore. The dude is playing with you all!!

Not trolling, Ive heard from most of my friends that they dont orgasm during sex. They have to finish it off themselves. If orgasms were as common for women as youre saying then why do most women have to fake their orgasms the entire time???

It can be the greatest thing ever, if it is done right. Find someone that is kind and gentle, but adventurous, and you will never regret it.

if you contact doctor phil, you might make it on his show, I don't think GLP does sex therapy much. but we do have some sex talk.

No shit, you should get yours even if you lend a hand to get e done.
mine needs 3 things going at the same time, puston twists an rubs all in coordinated orchestration to pop but pop she does.
The clue?
She gets real quiet and lost in it and then blows big.


it takes effort talents nd a willing adequate partner to get to the promised land

Op needs to be rode hard and put away wet.

-just don't expect an orgasm.

Agreed

Learn about a woman's body and develop control of your own. It is Truly amazing to feel,watch & enjoy the pleasure of your wife,sig other etc

This goes for the Oral Arts as well. A few days ago actually I had primed my lovely just right (orally) and literally gave her between 40 & 50 orgasms... only stopping due to the fact that she was about to pass out from having too many Orgasms.

Yes, I have an incredibly happy wife and secure marriage.

My comments are true and sincere.

i think she he wants to know about fucking without a condom.

for starters we know you are a slut, not a virgin, but lets pretend you were a virgin.

all you have to do is get a vibrator, any porn site will welcome you. good luck you are being recorded already anyway

If OP is even halfway decent, she lost her Vcard by at LEAST 18 in this modern world.

Well for one, stop faking it. How is your partner going to learn? Show him your effective spots. Maybe take the lead and find a position that stimulates the right areas.

Also, you can't fake an orgasm with a man who knows what he's doing. You can make noise and buck around a lot but you can't fake the cascade of muscle contractions or the extra burst of wetness.

I don't know why you're having the experience you are, probably because more people these days are too chickenshit to give their kids a proper sex talk and their kids are trying to learn how to have sex by watching porn, not realizing it's just meant to look good to a camera and generally isn't all that enjoyable for the actors.

Just my theory. Ah well. Move to Canada I guess.

if you want to know about oral there is plastic dicks available for practice.

lots of glp dudes on here will tell you how to suck cock, that's all they have ever done so far

Its true, most never pop from the old in out.
Some do, but they are very few.

yes

OP are you saying you have never even fisted yourself yet?

most women have a vagina and you can tell by the way they have a vagina, sex happens all the time and orgasms too.

the next step is talk about your stds cause we don't wanna get your herpes, and then there is your hiv which you try and keep secret

Sex inside of marriage is most definitely pleasurable, and yes, almost all women achieve orgasms if their husband wants to pleasure them.

I'm not a woman, and I'm not a virgin, so what I can tell you is to wait until marriage and secondly, that most women do orgasm from male penetration.

Some in 15 secs, then want to make sure you orgasm.
Some, many, many times over several hours.
Some, want you to orgasm after them.

Maybe 10% of women don't orgasm without some sort of clitoral stimulation.

Get her off once or twice before insertion. They gave 'foreplay' its own word for a reason. Then even if you bust after a dozen thrusts she's still reasonably happy.

If I were her I'd use a hibachi or a Foreman grill. What's a hitachi?

blowjobs are most definitely a thing aswel.

if you havn't herd of blowjobs ask brief.