My 7 year old son and my 29 year old girlfriend aren't getting along

ya love this advice from a useful idiot, date another whore... people are a fucking joke

Do you want your son raised by a Daddyof5 type woman? You got a choice to make OP.

most people have the communist schools and tv raise there kids

The Brady Bunch did.

I grew up in a similar situation
Step mother and myself battled for 42 years
Everyone was miserable

Why are you taking the girlfriends point of view ?

If this where true you are a cunt of a father and should burn for your sins against that child who you should be making your priority number 1 rather than your stupid dick in some dumb whore

dump her.

She needs to be mature and take the high road, even if she is hurt or frustrated by your son's behavior. And calling him a brat (even if it isn't to his face) hurts you so she should stop. I wouldn't marry a woman who can't deal that you have a child and a past unless something drastically changes. She doesn't sound like she is mentally healthy or mature if she responds to a child this way. But I don't know anymore. A lot of children these days act so much worse and disrespectful than we ever did.

Either that or in 10 years he'll be banging that shit.

Be a Man, Drop the Hag.

If you are more than 10 years older than your 29 year old girlfriend than send your son to go live with his mama.

You will never get another girl as young as your girlfriend, but you can always have another kid.

Dump both of them.

Dump that cunt. If some split tailed sow called my son a brat, she'd get much worse.

This ^^^^^^

He is you. No him no you, simple as.
If you think otherwise then your a sh1t dad and don't deserve children..

I've never called a child a brat that wasn't one. If you tell your fiancée the person you truly suppose to love their child is a brat it most assuredly is true.
It's a sign of bad parenting. A lot of people think that a well disciplined child which is polite,courteous,shows respect and proper manners is an unhappy or unloved child. That's complete bullshit.
If the child was raised accordingly his behavior would have never been an issue to come between the two adults. Regardless of his first feelings of dislike toward her he still would have been respectful,polite, and courteous because that's how he was raised and over time he would probably become to like her and eventually love her as a second mom.
If I find a woman that love and I believe will make me happy for the rest of my life and believe that she would be a good mother to my son. I don't give a flying fuck about a 7 year olds feelings in the matter and to do so gives a child control over you as an adult. It will be a cold day in hell before I let a child have direction over what I think is best for me and him.

You're a fucking loser.

Your child is blood.

And I'm 47 and I've dated 4 women in the last 2 years that were under 30, so there goes your dumbass theory.

It comes across like you're dating someone that has a poorly behaved child and you're resentful about it.

THIS ^^^^

Yes your child is first priority... I'm also 29 and he's also 7...

I would never ever choose a man over my own son.. to me, he gets all my attention and time that he needs until he's old enough and mature enough to understand that I can lead a life in a relationship..

He probably sees that he's now being neglected op, over her..

You have a choice though..

Biggest reason for security nd divorce - kids and second wife don't get along... And the guy just wants some PEACE

YOU are the problem here

She is NOT and will NEVER be "his new mommy"

You can't toss out his REAL Mom like a used Kleenex

Tell him he does NOT have to like her!!!!

But he does have to be respectful like he treats any other adult!

Affection grows over time and you can't force it .

And this babe had better start being an adult and stop calling NAMES (brat)!

She is competing for your attention like an attention whore instead of playing a positive role in the kids life. She isn't even fit to be a babysitter with that attitude.
When the kid reaches pre-puberty - LOOK OUT - he will get you back about age 11 -13 if you don't fix your relationship with him now .

Tell him he has ONE Mother and you know he loves her - and that she is a good person even though you aren't together ( whether she is or not)
Stop trash talking the Mom - he will do that himself and judge you BOTH plenty harshly when he is older. Let him have his MOM - he's a little kid!!!

Tell him the babe is a FRIEND - NOT HIS MOM


Maybe if you become the adult and she becomes an adult - the kid can be a kid and grow up to respect and love you ALL over time

Thinking with your dick is what got you into this situation. Grow up, ape.

This fucker must be a van owner with free candy spray painted on it. Who's been posting pure nonsense and hate towards kids. And will reply something pussy like " you're vile"
Sorry POS instigator.
Bet he will go buy a highlighter yellow spray can after this.

Any woman that would say that to you is pure trash. I'm sorry, but she's immature and is in no position to provide family love. The only brat is her, unfortunately.

Oh no not at all.

I have dated women with really terrible kids (small children) and I had to bail quickly. The OP has a 7 year old that's a small child, that plays with GI joes. To take a 7 year olds feelings into consideration is just foolishness.
An older teen would be a little different as they might be able to point out faults that you don't see.
I'll admit it's different with teenagers than with small children.

OP, fuck these judgemental whackjobs. They don't know anything about you so take their attacks with a grain of salt. You do need to recognize the reality of the situation though that you will lose one of them when they despise you for your inaction. In my experience it is usually your child. Don't try to convince yourself it wont happen though. If you stay with this woman you will lose your child when they reach adulthood.

this happened to me as a child. it has afectet my life ever since im nearly 50. the hatfull woman who got my dad to send me away used to act nice infront of him and very hatfull when he wasnt there which made me be resentfull towards her. so i acted up. women wrap men round there fingers and get there way. send her away not your son.
im a step mom now and id never tell my husband to send his kids away ever!! his daughters a pain as shes a daddys girl but id still not do it ever.
find out why he acts up around her. talk to him alone and dont be forcing him to like her and telling him shes his new mommy. plus weres his own mommy?

Throw them both out.

Well, the kid may be intentionally trying to shit in the punch bowl.

Who knows what mom-x is feeding into the kid's brain too.