Massive argument with wife after i wouldn't allow her to take kids to gay pride festival

I think you should start thinking of leaving her, and see how you can take custody of the children. I hate women who think like this, talk like this, as long as you cant stand it now, it will only get worse in the future.

This caused a massive argument last night. She only just started talking to me again just now. A few of them had been planning a "girlies day out" at the gay pride festival in my city and apparently it's the big trend on facebook (i don't know as i refuse to use facebook) to go along to gay pride and have fun and take selfies.

Well it turned out that her friends were going as families with husbands/boyfriends and taking all the kids along too.

I told her that SHE is welcome to go with her friends but the kids will not be going. She started screaming and going "you're fucking out of order you are mate" "wait until you want to take them to a football game cunt" then she started shouting in the street "cunt cunt fuck off cunt" etc etc. I threatened to leave her for a woman i had a 'fling' with last year. She says "fuck off and go to that slag then" and started slamming doors, kicking doors, saying she hates me.

All this because i care about what my kids are being exposed to.

The reason i objected? I did a little research and looked at some of the pictures from these 'parades' on the local news site. There are gay guys french kissing each other, slapping each others asses, grabbing each others dicks for the camera, pouring alcohol down each others boxers, etc.

Am i supposed to be okay with my 5 year old and 3 year old being exposed to that stuff?

and i am not even 'homophobic' i just think the kids are too young to be looking at some of that behaviour as normal

Are you in agreement or should i have allowed some leeway here?

Your response was correct - but your execution in delivering it was flawed.

You shouldn't have brought another woman and you should have calmly explained why you didn't want the kids going - showing her a few photos as well.

In addition you should have offered to babysit for the other couples if they were uncomfortable bringing their kids to the event.

She started screaming and going "you're fucking out of order you are mate" "wait until you want to take them to a football game cunt" then she started shouting in the street "cunt cunt fuck off cunt" etc etc.

Ask her if she would be okay with you taking the kids to a strip club, without actually planning on following through with it, of course, because a gay pride parade is basically an open air version of that. She's sacrificing her children's innocence for some hip points with her friends. Playing the strip club card neutralizes her "homophobia" card.

ignore the echo chamber in here for a moment my friend

you exerted unreasonable control over your wife and kids
and that wasn't cool or effective in the long run

-she's an adult who has she has an EQUAL say-50%- in their upbringing
and a 100% right to do what she pleases with herself regardless of what you feel or think.

Just as you clearly exerted your right to do 100% of what pleased you with old some old bint around the corner

classy


you then threatened to leave her for same old slapper because she rightly called you a cunt

and you think you've prevented your kids from seeing a bad example

I suggest you think again-it sounds like a horrible shit show of an event

and for what ?

you stoped you young kids seeing happy gays - something you don't like

and I'd predict those kids won't be growing up with you much longer

and your influence over their future experiences is currently dwindling at an accelerated rate of noughts




get your act together

apologise

apologise again for bringing the slapper up- miserable and very dangerous

and treat everyone to a lovely day out to say sorry

and hope you still get to decide shit about those kids in the future

You are absolutely correct. Gay pride parades are an adult affair only. I am more concerned though with you wife behavior, as she may be suffering from borderline personality disorder.

She needs counseling to deal with her abandonment issues. And, if she is not willing to deal, you better start working on a back up plan to protect your self and your kids. Start documenting her irrational behavior. Start storing up item brand new and store them in friend and families attacks. I have a very bad feeling about your relationship.

This caused a massive argument last night. She only just started talking to me again just now. A few of them had been planning a "girlies day out" at the gay pride festival in my city and apparently it's the big trend on facebook (i don't know as i refuse to use facebook) to go along to gay pride and have fun and take selfies.

Well it turned out that her friends were going as families with husbands/boyfriends and taking all the kids along too.

I told her that SHE is welcome to go with her friends but the kids will not be going. She started screaming and going "you're fucking out of order you are mate" "wait until you want to take them to a football game cunt" then she started shouting in the street "cunt cunt fuck off cunt" etc etc. I threatened to leave her for a woman i had a 'fling' with last year. She says "fuck off and go to that slag then" and started slamming doors, kicking doors, saying she hates me.

All this because i care about what my kids are being exposed to.

The reason i objected? I did a little research and looked at some of the pictures from these 'parades' on the local news site. There are gay guys french kissing each other, slapping each others asses, grabbing each others dicks for the camera, pouring alcohol down each others boxers, etc.

Am i supposed to be okay with my 5 year old and 3 year old being exposed to that stuff?

and i am not even 'homophobic' i just think the kids are too young to be looking at some of that behaviour as normal

Are you in agreement or should i have allowed some leeway here?

er uh..

I don't blame you. I wouldn't take my kids to a gay pride festival. What's wrong with her?