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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74903559  United States06/18/2017 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75035200  Australia06/18/2017 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol Oh, I think there are quite a few of us online to keep you company. |
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Phattus Cattus  User ID: 73812940 United States06/18/2017 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better to seek companionship outside of the workplace. You never know when someone might turn on you or a relationship might not work out. Then you have a relationship problem AND a work problem. Last Edited by Phattus Cattus on 06/18/2017 11:20 PM Goose Gossage |
| The Raleigh Jogger User ID: 45540830 United States06/18/2017 11:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rule #1: Never shit where you eat! Go to work to work. if you're not getting paid to do it, then don't spend time around those people. As someone who is also socially awkward I can attest that any unnecessary time spent with co-workers only increases the likelihood of making a major social faux paux that can cost you your career. If you're doing something with them that you're not getting paid for, like going out with the office crowd; then you're taking all that extra risk for no reward. It is lose, lose. This is why you never socialize with co-workers. You go to work to do a job and a lot of the time that job involves tasks that don't always have you in everyone's good graces. Find friends in circles outside of your work and maintain proper separation between your professional life and social life. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74903559 United States06/18/2017 11:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rule #1: Never shit where you eat! Go to work to work. if you're not getting paid to do it, then don't spend time around those people. As someone who is also socially awkward I can attest that any unnecessary time spent with co-workers only increases the likelihood of making a major social faux paux that can cost you your career. If you're doing something with them that you're not getting paid for, like going out with the office crowd; then you're taking all that extra risk for no reward. It is lose, lose. This is why you never socialize with co-workers. You go to work to do a job and a lot of the time that job involves tasks that don't always have you in everyone's good graces. Find friends in circles outside of your work and maintain proper separation between your professional life and social life. Quoting: The Raleigh Jogger 45540830 Good advice. But sometimes you do meet people of like mind. But there's always the group thing to poison it. Right now what I want to do is delete coworkers from my Facebook. But I think I'll wait, as it may create more drama. I'm really walking on eggshells around this female already, and I know she's extremely gossipy so I don't want to do anything that will stir her wrath. On the other hand, fuck her, she doesn't need to see what I'm up to on vacation. I am naive to think this could have worked out. With the two guys it would have been no problem. But as someone said, she is very immature and it's like kindergarten now. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75102693 United States06/18/2017 11:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol She sounds like a Glober. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74903559 United States06/18/2017 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol She sounds like a Glober. what's a glober? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75104323  Canada06/18/2017 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75097837 United States06/18/2017 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rule #1: Never shit where you eat! Go to work to work. if you're not getting paid to do it, then don't spend time around those people. As someone who is also socially awkward I can attest that any unnecessary time spent with co-workers only increases the likelihood of making a major social faux paux that can cost you your career. If you're doing something with them that you're not getting paid for, like going out with the office crowd; then you're taking all that extra risk for no reward. It is lose, lose. This is why you never socialize with co-workers. You go to work to do a job and a lot of the time that job involves tasks that don't always have you in everyone's good graces. Find friends in circles outside of your work and maintain proper separation between your professional life and social life. Quoting: The Raleigh Jogger 45540830 Good advice. But sometimes you do meet people of like mind. But there's always the group thing to poison it. Right now what I want to do is delete coworkers from my Facebook. But I think I'll wait, as it may create more drama. I'm really walking on eggshells around this female already, and I know she's extremely gossipy so I don't want to do anything that will stir her wrath. On the other hand, fuck her, she doesn't need to see what I'm up to on vacation. I am naive to think this could have worked out. With the two guys it would have been no problem. But as someone said, she is very immature and it's like kindergarten now. You can block these people without actually unfriending them. You can also keep yourself from seeing what they're posting. It's in the settings. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74903559 United States06/19/2017 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75038770 Netherlands06/19/2017 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol She was secretly bisexual and into you and you caused their friendship to end because of their infatuation with you. You need to have a 3 sum and mend their relationship otherwise it will haunt you |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75038770 Netherlands06/19/2017 12:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol She was secretly bisexual and into you and you caused their friendship to end because of their infatuation with you. You need to have a 3 sum and mend their relationship otherwise it will haunt you That is why she invited you out and her temper and anger are indicative of infatuation. I suggest a 3 sum with the 2 guys first so they can help you wingman her for the two 3sums between you and each male co-worker. Bring lube |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75076946  Hong Kong06/19/2017 12:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol Work is about $ not friendship. Don't have relationships at work because then everyone knows your personal business and it becomes gossip. You really want everyone gossiping about your GLP threads at work? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71666850 United States06/19/2017 12:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol Oh, I think there are quite a few of us online to keep you company. You'll never find anybody as interesting as glp |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 74903559 United States06/19/2017 10:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm in my 30's and don't usually go out, as I am socially awkward. But a few months ago I was invited out by a male coworker that I got along great with. I was to join him, another male coworker that i got along with, and a female coworker, that I was neutral with (I'm female). We had a good time. The female coworker and male coworker were like best friends. Then, there was some sort of fight between them. So they hate each other now or something, and she tried to gather up the group to go out, but without him. I didn't like the vibe of that. I don't know what they fought about, but now she doesn't talk to me at work, hates me, hates the male coworker, and has ruined my relationships with both male coworkers because they have to walk on eggshells because of her explosive temper. She invited me out with her one on one but I will not, because I sense her violent temper and explosiveness and I can't be around that quality in a person. I require calm, predictictable people. She craves conflict. So she took down the whole ship, which I am sad about, because I thought I finally made a group of friends. And these people are all in their 40's! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74903559 So I'm back to my GLP life. Alone again, naturally lol She was secretly bisexual and into you and you caused their friendship to end because of their infatuation with you. You need to have a 3 sum and mend their relationship otherwise it will haunt you Ummm..no. |
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| Deplorably Charlotte User ID: 75041925 United States06/19/2017 10:20 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rule #1: Never shit where you eat! Go to work to work. if you're not getting paid to do it, then don't spend time around those people. As someone who is also socially awkward I can attest that any unnecessary time spent with co-workers only increases the likelihood of making a major social faux paux that can cost you your career. If you're doing something with them that you're not getting paid for, like going out with the office crowd; then you're taking all that extra risk for no reward. It is lose, lose. This is why you never socialize with co-workers. You go to work to do a job and a lot of the time that job involves tasks that don't always have you in everyone's good graces. Find friends in circles outside of your work and maintain proper separation between your professional life and social life. Quoting: The Raleigh Jogger 45540830 Good advice. But sometimes you do meet people of like mind. But there's always the group thing to poison it. Right now what I want to do is delete coworkers from my Facebook. But I think I'll wait, as it may create more drama. I'm really walking on eggshells around this female already, and I know she's extremely gossipy so I don't want to do anything that will stir her wrath. On the other hand, fuck her, she doesn't need to see what I'm up to on vacation. I am naive to think this could have worked out. With the two guys it would have been no problem. But as someone said, she is very immature and it's like kindergarten now. Delete Facebook. If you must use that scourge on humanity, make a new one under a name they can't search, invite only family and very close friends. Problemo solved. Welcome. Occult Ritual Transformation and Coronavirus: How Mask Wearing, Hand Washing, “Social Separation” and Lockdowns Are Age-Old Occult Rituals [link to haveyenotread.com (secure)] |
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| TKC User ID: 24713820 United States06/19/2017 10:24 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rule #1: Never shit where you eat! Go to work to work. if you're not getting paid to do it, then don't spend time around those people. As someone who is also socially awkward I can attest that any unnecessary time spent with co-workers only increases the likelihood of making a major social faux paux that can cost you your career. If you're doing something with them that you're not getting paid for, like going out with the office crowd; then you're taking all that extra risk for no reward. It is lose, lose. This is why you never socialize with co-workers. You go to work to do a job and a lot of the time that job involves tasks that don't always have you in everyone's good graces. Find friends in circles outside of your work and maintain proper separation between your professional life and social life. Quoting: The Raleigh Jogger 45540830 Good advice. But sometimes you do meet people of like mind. But there's always the group thing to poison it. Right now what I want to do is delete coworkers from my Facebook. But I think I'll wait, as it may create more drama. I'm really walking on eggshells around this female already, and I know she's extremely gossipy so I don't want to do anything that will stir her wrath. On the other hand, fuck her, she doesn't need to see what I'm up to on vacation. I am naive to think this could have worked out. With the two guys it would have been no problem. But as someone said, she is very immature and it's like kindergarten now. Just post on ur fb that ur deleting anyone who hasn't graduated from kindergarten yet then delete her ur guy friends will be proud of you |
