Wife nervous as i prepare to sleep with another woman

How do you know it was a one off thing? She might be still doing the dirty with him on occasion..

Yep, balls a slappin' on her ass.

smh

I did this before, don't make the same mistake I did.

Kiss your marriage goodbye...two wrongs will not make it right! The ripple affect will be lasting. Forgive her and start building from there. It will go a long way.
She was afraid to tell you before marriage.

YOUR AN ASSHOLE!!

My 1st thought after reading your initial post was.

You ARE a pig. Oink, Oink.



Last Edited by Loup Garou on 06/26/2017 05:09 PM

Just a get fucking divorce like everyone else. Neither of you idiots understand what marriage means so stop it.

you are a complete dick wad and a troll


nobody, not even you yellow-toothed brits, could be this retarded.


Your wife should leave you - because you are an asshole

ITS FUCKHEADS LIKE YOU THAT FUCK IT UP FOR US GOOD GUYS!!! DONE IS DONE, IF YOU WOULD HURT HER LIKE THIS 6 FUCKING YEARS LATER, I FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND HOPE SHE LEAVES YOU!!! HOW SHALLOW!!!

By the way, I thought she cheated after you were married. She needs to document you and get everything you own in the divorce because you're an emotionally abusing shithead.

Maybe because she knew what a fucking retard reaction you'd have like thinking you have the right to cheat with some whore. YOU are the only one cheating. No one she with with before the ring went on is any of your fucking business.

Just get a divorce, you idiot.

Normally I would say, the only correct solution is to banish the guy, and to respect the marriage vows.

But I don't think you deserve marriage or family or a wife. Divorce her so she can be free to get somebody better than you.

It isn't a real woman.

OP is going to get the AIDS from a Tranny-gal.

Wife is not at friends house. She is at the lawyer working up the divorce papers.

OP wont be back. He likely went through with his idiotic plan and is now living at Motel 6. He cant post because his wife smashed his laptop.

Suggestion.. Get over her past.. Dork..

Why is this pinned??

Read up on Retroactive Jealousy.

It is a real thing and a legitimate feeling.

Considering the wife lied to protect the friendship with her old flame - and to keep him in her life "as friends", indicates that she knew that access to the old friend would be restricted if her husband knew. I presume she has slept with him multiple times over the years. The question is why is she revealing it now? I believe she knows this information will cause you to react impulsively with little thought as to outcomes - which she will use against you in the divorce. She is completely setting you up -AND- she will win everything she wants from the court.

You should speak with a divorce attorney pronto - without tipping your hand - get all your accounts in order - build a case, then methodically leave.

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Maybe Chad has nicer teeth than you..

Hey, hey, whatcha got against pigs???

It's okay, you should have kept it to yourself. Do not make that woman pregnant.

It's really difficult for men to not have sex, I understand.

Mmm, maybe you need to do some self esteem work OP. You gotta be a bit stronger and mature than the path you're suggesting.

Marriage at it's foundation is about trust. Love, lust, happiness, all of the rest of it is moot if you don't trust each other.

Your wife has told you something in trust about a situation she feels you might not be happy about, if you found out through anyone other than her. And it was before marriage.

I completely get the male ego driven path you've set, but it's not really a solution, not within a marriage anyway.

I've always had many female friends, but when I got married, I tempered that to be more acquaintances, and certainly no one on one contact, even for a coffee.

I think your wife needs to let this guy go, as a friend, as it will cost you both the marriage. If it is so important to keep this person around, then you have your answer.

I'm not saying you both need to be insular, but what is more important? Your marriage together and life ahead of you? or a friendship with a questionable past 'friend'. I would put money on it that this guy would do it again if the right circumstances arose, like a temporary split...

Get your head together, get your 'little head' together, and talk, talk, talk, talk, talk to each other.

But dont do anything that will forever 'link' back to this, unless its a nice thing.

Dont sleep with this other chick.

Get a divorce then. Sleeping with another woman accomplishes what?!?!

Best answer. I agree, she's setting him up to take the fall. Watch your back, OP, if you are telling the truth. Do not sleep with that other woman.

This is messed up, enjoy your future divorce.