Wife nervous as i prepare to sleep with another woman

how can you get even when she did him before you were together?

must be trolling cuz that doesnt even make sense

so now youre going to ruin your marriage because she had sex with someone before you were together?

If you really want to even the score you have to fuck her male best friend.

Get a room and fuck the shit out of her if you must, but keep your marriage bed sacred.

Your wife ought to smash a brick down on your balls, hard.

My wife recently confessed that she'd fucked one of her male best friends before we were together. She said it was just a one-off fling 6 years ago and they have been friends for 12 years with nothing else sexual happening....

I said well i'm not going to leave you but you know what i am going to do is find another woman to sleep with so i can even the score kind of thing. She agreed at the time but now it's the time for me to meet this woman tomorrow and bring her home while my wife stops at her friends and now my wife is putting up some resistance saying she's nervous and what if i decide i 'like her better' or want to stay with her instead etc. I assured her it will be just a fling, just sex like you had with your male friend but still she is fussing asking what sheets will be on the bed, will she stay the night after the sex and stuff.

I never interrogated her about the male friend (who is still very much around and part of her life by the way) now i feel like i am answering questions and dealing with too much stress about this....

your suggestions?

My wife recently confessed that she'd fucked one of her male best friends before we were together.

your suggestions?

If you really want to even the score you have to fuck her male best friend.

To be fair to the OP, ladies, keeping a guy in your life that you previously had sex with, without being honest with your husband, is a really shitty thing to do.

Why do you think that?
My husband is still friends with his old lovers and I am not 'nervous'. They tried, it didn't work last time why would it work any better the next?
The good and bad of a persons past is what makes them who they are.
I would much rather marry someone who is still on friendly terms with their old flings than someone whose breakup was ugly and the parties never want to see each other.

Because the guy is STILL AROUND Constantly. He comes over to the house for tea and dinner about 3 fucking times a week. It's like they are rubbing it in my face. I can't stand for that.

My wife recently confessed that she'd fucked one of her male best friends before we were together. She said it was just a one-off fling 6 years ago and they have been friends for 12 years with nothing else sexual happening....

I said well i'm not going to leave you but you know what i am going to do is find another woman to sleep with so i can even the score kind of thing. She agreed at the time but now it's the time for me to meet this woman tomorrow and bring her home while my wife stops at her friends and now my wife is putting up some resistance saying she's nervous and what if i decide i 'like her better' or want to stay with her instead etc. I assured her it will be just a fling, just sex like you had with your male friend but still she is fussing asking what sheets will be on the bed, will she stay the night after the sex and stuff.

I never interrogated her about the male friend (who is still very much around and part of her life by the way) now i feel like i am answering questions and dealing with too much stress about this....

your suggestions?

Because this guy is always there and i said to her, you know what's the deal with this dude? she says oh he's just one of her bitches that she can chat to about bullshit and they are just good friends but then she left out that part about sleeping once with him until recently. I felt like if i do not get my revenge and stick to it she will think i am a walkover and she can bang any of the male friends whenever she wants without consequence

so from now on any type of sexual moves or flirtation with any of the male friends and i will go out and sleep with a fresh woman for each time she does it.

Fair or not?

That's beta cuck behavior. What's this revenge shit? You tell her that this asshole must go or else she goes. That's how an actual man handles this. Sex or no sex, you've been being cucked by this guy for years. I would never let my wife have this kind of relationship with any guy ... even if sexless. Plus, if you do this, it'll just escalate and she'll start screwing this guy again.