My girlfriend says she is not responsible for my emotional happiness

Happiness comes from within.

Happiness comes from within the girl. It can only be accessed through sex and nurturing. It's the only reason for men to bother with girls.

Nice new âge answer

Leave.

If you don't, then enjoy being controlled......leave glp...glp is not for cucks.

This is exactly my belief

The women nurtures the man

The man has the energy to achieve

The women benefits

Instead of receiving the love I need I substitute it with material (fake) stimulation that is negtive to the relationship

Why have women forgotten their true role

I feel so sad

YOU are not your emotions

YOU let emotions control you

She can be supportive and there for you

You choose how to respond

But she isn't supportive

I ask her for n emotional connection when stressed and met with silence or. Fight

Im lost

Where are the real women?

This

When you start to look outside the relationship for comfort it oandoomef right?

It is doomed (corrected)

You work 3 jobs and she sits on at home all day not doing shit?

That's your first problem right there. That's one to get rid of.

It's my belief that women should stay and home and nurture the family

I am happy to work hard so my partner has time to look after the home

But to get this response crushes me

Isn't this the role of women in a traditional family unit

Am I a relic of the past?

This isn't a bait thread btw

Honestly need different views

Maybe I am wrong

OP

AC's got a girlfriend & he hates that bitch, he tells me everyday
She wants more deniro just to stay at home, well my friend you've gotta say

So your girlfriend is also your wife?

I don't see the value of a women who can not nurture

What other role do they have?

I don't need money for happiness so a second income isn't required

What is her role?

If u love her... Take some time off work... It sounds like you 2 need to reset... Reconnect... How can she be supportive of u if ur never home... If it's one thing I've learned ... Women need to spend time gathering emotional support... From friends family... And a partner if they are around enough ... Letting her know how u feel is good... Now take some time and see how things workout... Don't be such an asshole... And if u are sometimes that's ok ... But own it... Learn to say sorry and learn to say "you are right".... Even if she isn't dummy

We have both been married before
The term Girlfriend seems to suggest our relationship is casual
I consider her my wife even if it's not legally correct

I work from home as self employed for two jobs

Always find to time to be with her

I want to be with her all the time

It has nothing to do with emotional support steakhead....she's telling you that only you can make you happy and that she doesn't want to be responsible for your happiness. She's 100% right and it has NOTHING to do with being supportive to you in any way. It is entirely possible to be emotionally supportive of someone and yet not be responsible for their happiness. It is best to go out and find happiness together and share in it and that goes for everyone.

I bet you still won't get it....

When theres kids involved yes.

OP is working 3 jobs with his GF sitting at home doing nothing at all.

Completely different situation.

But if she isn't going to do her part by being a stay at home wife then she needs to find a job.Women no a day's wants to stay at home and never do anything at all. Kids running wild,the house a disgusting mess because they are too lazy to get off the damn couch and do anything.My last neighbors were both in their early twenties and they were both lazy as hell. Kids nasty and unbathed,hair tangled sticky mess. When I found the one girls child up the street by himself and took him home I was terrified to move away from the door. Dog poop and roaches every damn where including on a recliner in the corner. She's telling the boyfriend to go pick up the food she had ordered and had no clue her three year old wasn't even in the freaking house.

I understand she can't make me happy that it comes from within

However she is partly responsible. How can constantly being rejected by the person you love lead to happiness?

My gf/wife was the reason I was happy

However when the emotional connection is lost then you seek happiness elsewhere (not an affair!)

My partner no longer makes me happy am feels no need to try to

Leave her now. If you stay, it will only get worse because she has set the tone that she is in charge and you shouldn't expect anything from her. If she is not a nurturing person now, give it 5 years and you'll really hate life.

Good luck.

Piss in her mouth.

Make her swallow.

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in general, she isn't. but your happiness should be a goal of hers. just as her happiness should be a goal of yours.

of course, if she went into the dumps, lets say she had a bad sickness or an emotional unwellness...

you would, just as ever, need to be responsible for your own mental health and happiness.

(and vice versa)

everyone has to be their own best friend.

in fact, when you have a loved one it is one of the responsibilities of relationship land. it's part of the deal.

i need to stay happy and healthy for my hubs, for instance. and he for me.

congrats on having a house person. i think every house should have a house person.

She's only responsible for accommodating her cellphone addiction. Little else matters to the modern American female.

Does she know this?

You should not expect emotional support from your wife. Demanding that will make her pussy dryer than the Sahara desert.

You should expect children from her. What is the point of paying for her and all that, and no children?

If you divorce her, you may pay some alimony for a little while, but it's a hell of a lot cheaper than if you had children together. It's sort of not really a marriage without kids. You can undo this, since it doesn't seem to be fruitful.

But you need to reorient your thinking. Try being a bit more demanding of her and see what happens. If she doesn't improve when she sees what you want, she is hopeless and you can divorce then. But you need to learn what to expect properly in a marriage, and you can learn this situation to learn, so if you have to switch, you will know what you're doing.