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My boyfriend say's he is not responsible for my emotional bitchiness
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I was stunned at this comment and a little lost
For me the very minimum I expect from my partner is emotional support
I work three jobs while he is a stay a home husband without children
What is his role if it isn't to support me as role as breadwinner?
Are there any men left who haven't been infected by the poisonous ideology that is sexism or am I expecting too much?
Male comments definitely welcome !!
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9066334 ----------------------------- Why expect ?? That is the source of your problems or anyone for that matter. Expectations. Love is unconditional which is not what is happening. More like a barter. That's not love. So love is an illusion. I am not saying you are wrong or right. It is the expectations and demands we put on someone and when we don't get what we want we suffer. No expectations no demands no suffering. You may say he should do this or that but what is happening is that he is not. He is not capable. Yes you are working the 3 jobs and he is not giving you emotional support. Why do you need it ??? Just do your jobs and full stop. If he appreciates it or not is besides the point. So if you leave him you will find the same problems everywhere. As Buddha said the wanting is the suffering. Everyone wants something and the mind cannot be satisfied so if it gets what it wants it can never be happy. Only excited. Once understood one stops chasing the illusion.
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