Gripped by throat during argument with husband. Thoughts?

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If my husband punched or kicked holes in the wall, then put his hand on my throat......that would be a HUGE red flag for me. I couldn't live with that fear at all. That's just me.

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And bingo was his name-o

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Ok, so you are supposedly married for 10 years yet still in contact with an ex-lover from 10 years ago????

WTF!!!

Who does this kind of crap and expects that its ok with their husband?

Lady, you are the f@cking problem.

If you truly loved and respected your husband you would not be talking to ex lover about your marital issues.

You are a poor excuse for wife.

Thats cause youre a bitch. A woman punches me in the face ill hit that bitch like her name was frank.

Fuck that. Tell him even the toughest man has to sleep and if he ever tries that again you'll take a knife to him and he'd better sleep with one eye open from now on.

Or better still chuck him out.

as soon as that glass flew. the husband should have called the cops on this cunt of a so called wife.

violent psychopathic woman.

But the red flags of the "wife" throwing objects, talking to an ex and even using it to get a response are to be ignored?

I'm convinced this is a cleverly designed data mine post to gauge psychological health. Almost got me, OP.

this.
abuse of another person isn't legal.
and it hurts, years and years down the road.
no one deserves violence against them.

are you a lawyer?
I could use a lawyer.

Lmao, nope.

You threatened betrayal. That is the number one sin a women can commit in a relationship.

You should be begging him for forgiveness.

You don't love your husband and this marriage is effectively over.

You probably did marry him for less than honorable reasons.

Until you both get immediate Christian counseling, repent and BOTH of you begin living under the commandments and will of God and not your own will, I don't see this union being blessed.

Please take my advice before someone gets irreparably harmed.

Its women like this, that make the idea of Sexbot a reality.

You may laugh, but either women will need to change or face not being needed anymore.

Women have to feel needed and wanted. They are biologically created to be used. A man just wants to feel love.

A) Troll thread or you're a mental case

B) Most guys would have punched your lights out. You're lucky.

C) Piss off.