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NowIhavetothinkofaname User ID: 75240236 Australia 07/17/2017 03:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sure you may not have lifelong friends, but you don't have to be lonely or find a magical connection to someone special. Just be amicable and be prepared to laugh. NowIhavetothinkofanameohnoithurts It's all bull! Nevertheless, the ruler is not truly wise who cannot discern evils before they develop themselves, and this is a faculty given to few. Niccolo Machiavelli Karma is funny, people who kick dogs usually get bitten. If someone doesn't add value to your life, then that someone shouldn't be a part of it. You can always trust people to do whatever is in their own interests. It is certain wastelands will be brought under cultivation. |
hankie Everything User ID: 74874587 United States 07/17/2017 03:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have a lot of family, you don't always have friends outside the family. That true, does not mean you do not have friend but the close one would be a family member, at least that my experience and seeing it. I also know people lose friends a lot, and they live on. If they did not try, maybe they have other ways, see some people has a problem understanding others, or maybe it others do not understand them. Sorry I got a headache These are the times that tries men's and women's souls! May we come though it victorious! |
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Maiya It's kind of fun to do the impossible. User ID: 75240493 United States 07/17/2017 05:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I understand completely OP. I am on my own too. I had friends, different groups through the years. I always had cash, weed and a ride so that helped in the teens too. Then I moved far away. I began learning the truth about this 'place'. The people I met in real life found me strange (I am empath and can feel and sort of 'hear' thoughts at times, not at will- yet I guess). My life choices based on what I know are too hard for them so they shun it, vis a vie- me. Quoting: truthie Like for instance, people drink aspartame and that's a poison. Well, no one wants to know. They think I am the bad guy since i am the messenger, yk? So I keep my mouth shut. I tried for many years to find at least one friend since moving out here 13 years ago. I am female but think like a male in many ways. A therapist long ago told me if I could only read what you said, without gender references I would think you are a man lol... but i am very feminine in looks... anyway- women can't stand me mostly and men generally want to have sex with me. My husband was supposed to be that best friend. I showed him the movie they live on one of our first eves together. I thought he understood, he said he did... anyway 3 years later and i realize he does not want to know the truth unless it is in his face and he must do something in the now about it. Like he doesn't want to follow all my (troop movements, pedo gate, yellowstone, flat earth, nibiru, time travel, tesla) watching, but if its erupting he would spring into action. that still leaves me with no one to talk to IRL. I had to move to a different room since he still watches tv and I choose truth instead of the signal. If I bring about the quantum effect he can't stand it- he sees it but it baffles him too much... Its tough I agree. Especially for me, a high IQ leo. I used to have whole gangs of people staying at my house, partying, back in the day. Playing guitar... anyway he is too jealous and I get along with men, so no friends for me unless I happen to meet a perfect woman lol... I did make a list that brought him to me, maybe i should make a list of what is good in a female friend. I have non family social interactions in brief, online and at the checkout stand. I am a hermit. mostly due to the empath part. Crowds or away from my house is less pleasant than at my house lol. my family I grew up with is very far away I have seen them once in the last 10 years for a day. So we in this thread, let's keep each other company as best we can. This sounds just like me. Except divorced!! They never thought she would lose. Now they all lose. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71596941 Italy 07/17/2017 05:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73618088 I haven't found that to be true, I have amazing, lifelong friends that are really good people. Welp... Don't go poking around the skeletons in their closets then. Ur rosy views will change. It's ok either way tho. I don't demand perfection from my friends, I don't condemn them or judge them...that's the Christian way. Ya I suspected u were gonna say something like that. Maybe you should try it? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75240492 United States 07/17/2017 05:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75021185 Welp... Don't go poking around the skeletons in their closets then. Ur rosy views will change. It's ok either way tho. I don't demand perfection from my friends, I don't condemn them or judge them...that's the Christian way. Ya I suspected u were gonna say something like that. Maybe you should try it? I have way too many times. Every single religious person I've ever met or heard of talks a good game with that kinda bullshit but fails to actually do it. All of them hypocrites. So I avoid y'all like a plauge. If it wasn't for this site I wouldn't even know u exist. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75240183 Australia 07/17/2017 05:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't miss em, am very happy spending time alone and enjoying doing things by myself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74522744 But at the same time, you want to leave a little something behind for others to remember. It's kind of sad thinking no one would even notice if you were gone. it doesn't say anything, some people just outgrow others, and cannot be bothered with most people and they love In a fake Kardashian type world |
bad mojo User ID: 75226491 Serbia 07/17/2017 05:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a blessing to have someone you've been around since you were a kid. My best friend is a guy I started training karate with. I was 5 years old, he was 6. Still to this day, 32 years later, we're best friends. The other friend is with us since teenage years, and 3 of us have been through thick and thin together. Our kids grow up together, and it is a beautiful thing to experience. Modern way of life tends to make people more and more isolated and alone. “You are a divine being. You matter, you count. You come from realms of unimaginable power and light, and you will return to those realms.” Terence McKenna |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71596941 Italy 07/17/2017 05:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73618088 I don't demand perfection from my friends, I don't condemn them or judge them...that's the Christian way. Ya I suspected u were gonna say something like that. Maybe you should try it? I have way too many times. Every single religious person I've ever met or heard of talks a good game with that kinda bullshit but fails to actually do it. All of them hypocrites. So I avoid y'all like a plauge. If it wasn't for this site I wouldn't even know u exist. I'm not even that extreme, just a run of the mill one. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69649358 United States 07/17/2017 05:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Says you're an asshole and extremely unlikable. Or you're a nosey controlling bitch. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71111630 Just the facts. I'll bet you have lots of friends. This. Most friendships are based on shallow interactions that result in constant favor requests. Can I borrow your truck, your trailer, can you help me move a fridge. And so forth. Lets have a beer and watch a game. Lets gossip a bit to make ourselves feel better, and when you're gone they gossip about you. Nailed it. |
Wondering Mind User ID: 73265267 United States 07/17/2017 05:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To me it says: They were born between 1975-1987. Their surroundings dissolved as they lived in them year by year into unrecognizable surroundings and unfamiliar is most of what they see out of it. Rapid changes in social behavior, labor sectors, culture, economy and government that never retains anything as a solid ground wire point, erodes away home town, home, family and friends, carries that off like caff in the wind. They do not want the problems or trouble that comes from the instability of the social era. They just like living solo. Last Edited by Wondering Mind on 07/17/2017 05:35 AM The most precious things are the simple things in life, always present in the simplest of minds. |
curry nosher User ID: 75240687 Nepal 07/17/2017 06:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't miss em, am very happy spending time alone and enjoying doing things by myself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74522744 But at the same time, you want to leave a little something behind for others to remember. It's kind of sad thinking no one would even notice if you were gone. I dunno man, you would be surprised who remembers you and family always does :-) It is no biggie imo, i have no life long friends as such, plenty from my 20 plus era but non before as family split so moved around etc TBH it's for the best considering my teen friends as they all ended up crooks when youths so i guess it all worked out. Now i am in Nepal with maybe one or 2 friends but have a great little family so it's great man I guess in a few yrs i will get more but in the end of the day my close friends are still in UK, i feel kinda bad i have left them behind but everyone has their journey mate and their are no rules to follow so what will be will be - if you are happy it really doeasent matter one bit |
MONSTER User ID: 72799302 United States 07/17/2017 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most people get friends at their workplace, when you quit you seem to move away from them. As for friends from school we are to busy finding a job and working 9 till 5 keeping our bills paid and raising a family. You take you family places not your friends. My cousin and I were raised together, she would know everyone in the room in 10 mins and I would be sitting in the back row not talking to anyone.Doesnt bother me even now dont like to sit on the phone talking and dont have time to meet them for supper. KINGDOMS, NATIONS AND KINGS HAVE BEEN BROUGHT DOWN TO THEIR KNEES WITH ONE GLANCE FROM A WOMAN. I WEAR MY SKIN OF ARMOR SO NO ONE CAN GET IN AND NO ONE CAN GET OUT. HOW CAN I MOURN YOU, WHEN I HAVE NEVER LET YOU GO, monster 1991-2008 RIP |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75240770 United States 07/17/2017 07:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I used to think people who were alone,were weird; now I understand why. I think when you're young, you have a lot of flexibility; and a lot of negativity from people can bounce off; and you more easily "move on". When you're older, you see time is shorter and precious, and you lose tolerance for bullshit, sarcasm, personal insults, or physical assaults. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75188771 Canada 07/17/2017 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of my friends have screwed me or trashed me in one way or another so I really only have 2 friends, maybe a couple more but most I consider acquaintances. A friend is someone you can call and they'll help you right now. Now I consider myself a friend to lots of people, meaning if they needed me I'd help them no questions asked. People suck, most people but there's still plenty of decent folks too. Finding them takes effort. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69649358 I was going to ask,'depends what you mean by friends?' You nailed it more or less, AC. My long and painful experience tells me that about 90% of people are users/evil/have no moral code or decent principles/will sell you out for a mess of potage. The remaining 10% or fewer are beyond precious. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73367754 United States 07/17/2017 11:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Says you're an asshole and extremely unlikable. Or you're a nosey controlling bitch. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71111630 Just the facts. I'll bet you have lots of friends. This. Most friendships are based on shallow interactions that result in constant favor requests. Can I borrow your truck, your trailer, can you help me move a fridge. And so forth. Lets have a beer and watch a game. Lets gossip a bit to make ourselves feel better, and when you're gone they gossip about you. This is absolutely the truth. Everyone is simply out for themselves and I've grown tired of it. When I would hang out with a group of "friends", all we would do is just BS talk... nothing meaningful and we didn't produce anything meaningful either. It was really just a waste of time and energy. At this point in my life, I really don't want any "close" friends... because everyone is so fake and politically correct. I can't stand being around these types of people and conversations for more than a few min at best. I keep everyone at a distance, including my own family. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67210219 United States 07/17/2017 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Says you're an asshole and extremely unlikable. Or you're a nosey controlling bitch. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71111630 Just the facts. I'll bet you have lots of friends. This. Most friendships are based on shallow interactions that result in constant favor requests. Can I borrow your truck, your trailer, can you help me move a fridge. And so forth. Lets have a beer and watch a game. Lets gossip a bit to make ourselves feel better, and when you're gone they gossip about you. This to a tee. Life is simple with today's friends. Friends cost too much time and money. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75241191 Finland 07/17/2017 03:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When i started to learn the truth about the world and found the rabbit hole i have been becoming more loner. Other people just seem to be sheeple and live in some fantasy land of celebrities and pop music, very shallow people or thats what it looks like to me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 37104132 United States 07/17/2017 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I understand completely OP. I am on my own too. I had friends, different groups through the years. I always had cash, weed and a ride so that helped in the teens too. Then I moved far away. I began learning the truth about this 'place'. The people I met in real life found me strange (I am empath and can feel and sort of 'hear' thoughts at times, not at will- yet I guess). My life choices based on what I know are too hard for them so they shun it, vis a vie- me. Quoting: truthie Like for instance, people drink aspartame and that's a poison. Well, no one wants to know. They think I am the bad guy since i am the messenger, yk? So I keep my mouth shut. I tried for many years to find at least one friend since moving out here 13 years ago. I am female but think like a male in many ways. A therapist long ago told me if I could only read what you said, without gender references I would think you are a man lol... but i am very feminine in looks... anyway- women can't stand me mostly and men generally want to have sex with me. My husband was supposed to be that best friend. I showed him the movie they live on one of our first eves together. I thought he understood, he said he did... anyway 3 years later and i realize he does not want to know the truth unless it is in his face and he must do something in the now about it. Like he doesn't want to follow all my (troop movements, pedo gate, yellowstone, flat earth, nibiru, time travel, tesla) watching, but if its erupting he would spring into action. that still leaves me with no one to talk to IRL. I had to move to a different room since he still watches tv and I choose truth instead of the signal. If I bring about the quantum effect he can't stand it- he sees it but it baffles him too much... Its tough I agree. Especially for me, a high IQ leo. I used to have whole gangs of people staying at my house, partying, back in the day. Playing guitar... anyway he is too jealous and I get along with men, so no friends for me unless I happen to meet a perfect woman lol... I did make a list that brought him to me, maybe i should make a list of what is good in a female friend. I have non family social interactions in brief, online and at the checkout stand. I am a hermit. mostly due to the empath part. Crowds or away from my house is less pleasant than at my house lol. my family I grew up with is very far away I have seen them once in the last 10 years for a day. So we in this thread, let's keep each other company as best we can. Are you Rh negative or is one of your parents? You sound very much like one of them. |