95% of men regret marrying

Better keep her around. You will need someone to clean out your sex robot.

Meh.

Link is *probably* statistically worthless.


Family is the strongest human social bond of all.
If that can be broken, and it is, social control becomes much easier.


We get hit from all sides and just swallow it now, I guess. Its easy to jusrify your own actions that way, rather than examine the self.

Jesus things are fucked up.

yeah, marriage is the "strongest social bond" until a 22 yr old slut sticks her hole in your hubby's face.

I really hope that these wife bots will become a real thing so I don't have to take care of myself.

Married to my wife for ten years now. She's my best friend, and is the most loyal person I've ever met. Would do anything for me. Does everything for me. If it weren't for her, I wouldn't be the man I am today.

She married me when I had nothing. Supported me through school . Takes care of the kids and everything else so I can focus on work. Now I make 100,000 a year and I insisted she stay home with the kids and follow her own dreams of starting her own photography business. She's the reason I get up in the morning and the motivation that keeps me working hard. She's my biggest cheerleader when the grind gets me down. She's a unicorn of a woman, and all you bitter old closet fags should be jealous.

We have two kids and one on the way. We obviously still have sex lol. I love being with my husband and I'll say I look quite cute good even preggers..Ladies act like you're still dating your husband does not want to hear about you pooping,farting or your period. It kills any vision of perfection you've given him😂 been together 12 years, kids definitely change everything but you should still keep moments for each other.

This is why men dont bother with marriage anymore, notice how the poster says once married, the man doesn't feel like he has to do anything anymore. This is implying that she is one of those people that believe the man's job is to put out all the effort and the female just passively await for him to surprise her every weekend with gifts, vacations, and other exciting plans. Men are too busy with our jobs for this crap, it's too emotionally draining to be married to one of these passive women who expect the man to plan everything in life.

Healthy Relationships are supposed to be 50/50. That means you get what you give when it comes to effort. And sometimes men will try to be old fashioned and do all that courting nonsense but it's not natural and will surely fade away once married. So your choices are to live with it and put effort in like the guy does, or keep dating new men every few months because the new guy is ready to invest a drastic amount of effort into you until he gets burnt out on your passive, draining, lifeless female self.

You just proved my point.
Hit from all sides.
Its a fucking free-for-all.

Haha I joined Ashley-Madison for 1 day just to see what was up. Really, really sad, from my pov.

Fuck.

Truth be told....
I just want my husband to come home.
He is out thete all alone.
But I realize that may never happen.

Fixed it!
that price is sometimes more than we can beer.

The "men are all selfish" statement from women again. Let me fix that for you, "the men that women are attracted to are all selfish".

It's well known that women are attracted to the narcissistic shallow self centered man. Look at the kind of man you see women flock to, extremely well groomed, like he gets a haircut every week. Expensive shoes, namebrand clothes. Goes to the gym to get bigger muscles to show off with.

It goes deeper than looks, women are attracted to self centered men because of their personalities as well. Name any movie that has one character who is noble, honest, and self sacrificing, and another character who is a selfish rogue, and as long as both actors portraying the two characters are both good looking then women will always fall for the selfish rogue, every time. All of their romance novels they read for female porn feature the selfish rogue personality who takes what he wants and breaks the rules.

The selfish rogue makes up a minority of men in a civilized society (otherwise civilization would collapse), but women are only attracted to this kind of man. So they only pursue selfish men, and then cry that "all men are selfish" when they get older. Funny isn't it?

Bill Burr!

"I'm at that age where everybody is getting married. Let me ask you question. Why do people keep on getting married? You know what I mean. Anybody looking at the stats? I mean 3 out of 4 marriage go right down the shit hole, right. If you were going skydiving, and they told you 3 out of 4 parachutes were not going to open, yo f this. I'm not going. I don't like those odds. I have a 75% chance of splatting on the ground. But there is something about getting married, people just have to do it, right? They are like, "Is this the one, to lose half my shit? Awesome. This is gonna be great."

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The other 5% were afraid to answer in front of their wives!!

:bigcruise:

Not only that but having a family is not what it's cracked up to be. You'll be lucky if your kids aren't completely fucked up.

Getting married was the best choice I ever made. 29 years and counting. We have the best kids that I could ever imagine. It's just us two... again, just like the first 3 years of our marriage. Menopause? A breeze. And she's even more "frisky" than she ever has been. Gain weight? Nope. In fact, I'm in better shape than my entire life and weigh the same as I did when I was 23 (155). Our house, which is a darn nice one, is paid for. We make more money than ever after her quitting work to raise our kids.
We have so much fun together!
We did not sleep together before we got married. She is my one and only. We lived in separate houses until we got home from the honeymoon. She moved in with me they day we got back.

I can be done.

I have the best kids ever. Both adults now, and very successful. One, at the age of 25, bought a house at 22 (just like I did) and paid it off 3 years later with no help whatsoever from anyone but his hard work. Neither has any college debt. They are smart and both have a huge amount of common sense. Both have tons of friends. We taught them to RUN from bad kid who were bad influences. And they did. They both have a work ethic. One travels the world on his vacations. One is currently in Central America helping some friends run an orphanage, like she does every summer since she has summers off and doesn't want to waste her time lounging around and goofing off. She does this on her own, not with an organization that handles all the details of the trip.

They come over frequently because we still have so much fun together.

We are not lucky. We are very blessed, and we are smart.

Yes it can!!

And you are reaping the rewards of all of the work and thought that you put into the relationship. Good for you. Yoy are truly blessed.

Married men live longer, but are more willing to die.

My husband and I have been married for 45 years. It has not all been pretty or easy. I have hated the way he chews and he has hated the way I breathe. These things come and go. Life is hard, alone or together. But we struggled through because we came from a different time where convention was stronger than it is now.

Our relationship now is a grown up one. We have learned to be polite, considerate, kind and forgiving. Without learning those things, you won't be happy. Have only those expectations and you will be happy enough to use your energy to enjoy what you can of life.

Life is easier shared. Economically, emotionally and meeting the physical day to day efforts of living and keeping your home.

Some people are better off alone. And at times, everyone wants to be alone or to be with someone different. That's just life.

Another person can't make you happy or miserable, that's your own choice. You and you alone choose how you feel.

No5 so much any of that. Its the hypocrite bullshit. She can do and say things but you cant. Spin shit around too. They need to see themselves as who they are, but they are blind to it

I have been with my wife for 30 years, we met when we were both 19 years old and it is my one and only marriage.

I do not regret a single day, I love her more now than ever!

The problem with most couples is that they can't get past the little arguments. All relationships have ups and downs.

This. ^^^

how are the stats collected ? 30% maybe are liars ?

Nope.

LOL.

I agree with you. Its none of his business what you do unless he was an investor and then it should be proportional to the actual investment.
Generally the system is used as a weapon against men but when women have the money, they get fucked too.
The system is designed to loot anyone that can be looted and usually its the men with the money and potential.

The system has been arranged to encourage exploitation of the working partner. It was intended to destroy family cohesiveness and promotes and rewards bad behavior whether male or female.

You may have noticed how the family courts are doing their best to destroy tha actual family structure and leave the least capable and responsible with all the power.

You mean like western society in general?

The courts do a winner take all thing. The concept or shared responsibility goes out the window.
Their ideal client is one that needs management and consumes social services because they are incapable of responsibility or understanding what their role in the relationship was.

The winner is generally the weakest and least capable partner or conversely the most manipulative and destructive personality and is showered with what they generally cannot handle responsibly whether its custody or property.
It's intentional because they usually waste or destroy what's given them and the extended family of the members of the court apparatus have lined up to exploit this situation for their own benefit. Support is extorte, property transferred an fees and taxes are collected all along the way.

Guess in in the 5%, love my wife, love my children she gave to me. I personally dont regret getting married, but I know I have a 1 in a million wife. I do feel for some of these younger ones due to how rampant social media has become, but they are out there.

Hint, you wont find a good wife/mother in a club with a skimpy outfit twerking.

Last Edited by H. Rorschach on 07/17/2017 10:56 AM