Some concerns I have about dating this woman

Sorry if the post is long, I just don't want to be taken for some fool if there is advice that can prevent that

I am friends with this woman I met through her sister who I used to like also but the sister rejected me. This woman is older than her sister (33) and has 3 kids (2 by one guy, 1 by another guy) she has admitted to me that she has had fuckboys and friends with benefits and even told me she uses them for things such as buying her a new phone when she needs it.

Now she says she's ready to get serious with me and she can't believe someone of my quality came along. She said to me that me and this other one long term male friend she knows are in her view much more worthy of respect and to be treated correctly, whereas the fuck friends are to be trampled on and disposed of (she didn't use those words exactly but that's what she alluded to). She doesn't have any romantic feelings for the other dude she just used him as an example alongside me as men she views as better quality or more worthy of her respect type of thing.

However even though I like her I have several concerns:

She seems to have been very promiscuous and had multiple relationships (8 serious relationships alongside the hookups and fuck buddies)

Several of these hookups are still hanging around for favours and to be used even though she doesn't have sex with them anymore. They are on the hook and if she clicks her fingers will come running. She also has a ton of male friends

She is on medication for depression (seems like most women are though) but doesn't take it. Keeps saying her head is gone, her head is fucked.

With her second child she was on the verge of splitting with the dad and threw herself down the stairs, drank liters of vodka etc to induce a miscarriage. She said she regretted that after but it doesn't seem very maternal to me. It seems cold hearted.

She admitted again that she tires of men very easily. Once half a year is gone she is bored and wants her space. She hates clingyness in men. She hates when men leave items of clothing and such at her house, if it looks like they are trying to move in with her.

The oldest daughter has just started high school and is exhibiting aggressive behaviour towards her. The daughter keeps calling the mother a slut and slapping her face. She also says she hates her and wants her to die and wishes she could live her dad. Normal/puberty etc or not? I dunno. My kids are younger and male.

She continually says she wants to change her life and she wants my help to get more healthy and get in shape, yet the minute a friend comes round with some weed, cocaine, alcohol, junk food she jumps right in. Seems like a lack of self control.

Am I being too cautious here or is the fact she has told me all this stuff to be admired as honesty and I should take a chance? Keep in mind she wants a LTR with me. Neither of us are interested in fun.

Fucking run, dude.

P.S. she has already admitted to you that she's promiscuous and a druggie. If you expect that to bring you happiness, then more fool you. When it comes to bite you on your ass, you have only yourself to blame.

Fucking run, dude.

Sorry if the post is long, I just don't want to be taken for some fool if there is advice that can prevent that

You need to go to a Lab and steal a microscope and some petri dishes then finger her than put your finger in the petri dishes and observe the results under the microscope

-weed, cocaine, alcohol, junk food
-multiple lovers
-multiple men she uses for sex and to get her 'gifts' she can't afford
-one child increasingly out of control even though I think her daughter is right about her mother
-ex-husband around that might engage is a custody battle if the daughter pushes hard enough
-disposes of men if they are what she believes to be stepping on her turf

Does that sound like someone you want a long term relationship with?

If so go for it, if not, run away while you still can.

"I am friends with this woman I met through her sister who I used to like also but the sister rejected me. This woman is older than her sister (33) and has 3 kids (2 by one guy, 1 by another guy) she has admitted to me that she has had fuckboys and friends with benefits and even told me she uses them for things such as buying her a new phone when she needs it. "

Run. Away. Now. No one need read any further.

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My question for you is...why are you even considering it??

She's not a druggie so to speak, she just does weed and used to do a bit of coke. I am kind of desperate so that's why I keep hanging around her. No other women give me the time of day. The other day I just grabbed her and planted a kiss on her lips and grabbed a big squeeze of her ass in the middle of a packed pub and she loved it. Other women would be too awkward to do that. I like that part of it that she doesn't stop me when I do this stuff in public. One woman ages ago wouldn't even let me touch her ass until we were indoors.