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Arm touching from female coworker

 
happy feet
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03/20/2007 12:58 AM
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Arm touching from female coworker
There's this lady at work that I've been talking to more and more recently. The other week I had to leave her a note to ask her to do something for me. It wasn't really anything special or anything, but she said it was "super cute" and stuff. Anyway, since then whenever she's spoke to me (and is within reaching distance) she touches my arm, strokes my shoulder or something like that.

What does the whole touching thing mean? I'm not a very tactile person. I never touch people and people never seem to touch me in general conversation. I do like it when she does it, but I wonder why she does it, and if I should try and touch her back? I say try, because I don't know if I can do it without looking really fake or forced!

Thanks :)
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03/20/2007 01:04 AM
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She's trying to trap you. Touch her and thats sexual harrasment. Goodbye job. Hope you dont really care about it
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You can't be a guy.
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Re: Arm touching from female coworker
She's trying to trap you. Touch her and thats sexual harrasment. Goodbye job. Hope you dont really care about it
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78392



Agreed.
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You can't be a guy.
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If he is, he's speaking Homo code
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Re: Arm touching from female coworker
congratulations...

she wants your johnson.........
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congratulations...

she wants your johnson.........
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Noooo! NO SHE DOESN'T!!!


The AC above was RIGHT!!!


She's TRYING to TRAP HIM!!!
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03/20/2007 01:07 AM
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Its called a step that needs reinforcement.

Look at her and smile next time... or just subtly nudge shoulders. Ask her to lunch... whatever feels natural... avoid that awkward uncomfortableness...

good luck... maybe go download an E-book called 'The System'

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03/20/2007 01:18 AM
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Well, all this 'harrasment' stuff going on in USA, makes it really hard to know intentions. I tend to think that she likes you and she is consciously or subconsciously seducing you.

Maybe you can touch her lightly on her arm and see how you feel and how she reacts.
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03/20/2007 01:20 AM
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Next time she does it - smack her hand.
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03/20/2007 01:21 AM
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You can't be a guy.
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Maybe he's one of those "metrosexuals"...
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Next time she does it - smack her hand.
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rofl
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Next time she does it - smack her hand.
 Quoting: 2XSecretAgent


no, just start sobbing uncontrollably
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no, just start sobbing uncontrollably
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laugh
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03/20/2007 01:28 AM
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Were you sheltered? God damn, fucking ask her to hang out sometime.
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Sue her for harrassment
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I like it when she grabs my leg...I want to grab her leg, both of them and...oh God.
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I like it when she grabs my leg...I want to grab her leg, both of them and...oh God.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 211366



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You haven't lived until one of them plants a boob on your hand.

[Worked in a medical office, and one of the 'stations' had a rather high counter-top, and while writing in a chart, the new female comes over to 'ask a question', and manages to come close enough to have her chest co-incide with my writing-hand. Hmmmm.]
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"Does this rag smell like chloroform?"
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03/20/2007 02:59 AM
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Jesus Christ, the world is beset by weiner boys!
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Jesus Christ, the world is beset by weiner boys!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4356

this made me laugh!
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You can't be a guy.
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03/20/2007 04:16 AM
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forget to zip up your fly around her and she if she keeps touching you! ,
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03/20/2007 05:03 AM
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sexual harassment...
what a sad sad thing

touching the arm can be considered sexual harassment over there? Can mean other thing besides human inter relationship (and i mean friend/coworker relationship)?

the 'evilness' of the actions are only and always on the mind. Don't let them control how you interact.
Control yourself from the futile actions and thoughts and everything will be alright. Fear is the thing that attacks us and others, not the laws.
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03/20/2007 05:10 AM
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Dude, I'm questioning right now the reason you're being so analytical of this whole thing. It's really not that big of a deal - and simple if you think about it. After whatever she read - she now sees you in another light, perhaps she is attracted to just what you wrote.. she probably believes that is an example of your character/personality. Her getting close to you is a good thing. You don't have to respond to it the same way she does - be yourself. If you're attracted to her in any way, it shouldn't be hard to decide what to do in response.

Honestly though? I think you're over analyzing her actions. Perhaps you should talk to her more often.
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Dude, I'm questioning right now the reason you're being so analytical of this whole thing. It's really not that big of a deal - and simple if you think about it. After whatever she read - she now sees you in another light, perhaps she is attracted to just what you wrote.. she probably believes that is an example of your character/personality. Her getting close to you is a good thing. You don't have to respond to it the same way she does - be yourself. If you're attracted to her in any way, it shouldn't be hard to decide what to do in response.

Honestly though? I think you're over analyzing her actions. Perhaps you should talk to her more often.
 Quoting: Sudel_Tekneeq

right on

this kind of over analyzing reflects a LOT of personal insecurity and/or some naughty thoughts :)
OP, do you have issues with that coworker or with human relationships in general?
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03/20/2007 05:30 AM
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reply to the shoulder touch by ejaculating on her leg.
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reply to the shoulder touch by ejaculating on her leg.
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03/20/2007 05:53 AM
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You can't be a guy.
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I know men, nothing homo about them, that have large personal spaces and are uncomfortable with such things.
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