Make a list of things that need your inmediate care; debts, near family if you are married and children college, look for a financial advisor, pick that check, run to a cooperative,you can help without been splendid to the rest of the family, if they need it, you know who and if he or she deserve the help. dont forget little donations to children and animals, dont give your name, after that ,i am looking to build a cabin in the mountains... im joking, maybe you will need to buy some land build a house with protection. be wise dont do anything in a hurry, bless you, good luck.