If they say they don't try to recruit they lie! They tried to recruit my daughter and soninlaw. Tolk them to their lodge for a dinner telling they how wonderful it wound be to join. They could make friends and all that roit.
Then they asked me about it, I told them they had friends and could make all they want without a secret oath. Also it was about not making secret oath, it's against her faith.
Secrets, like that's weird can't tell your own family the secret, what fun is that.