How to get rid of daughters boyfriend without causing bodily harm

Did you speak to her and ask her what she wants to do now? My sister regrets getting preggers so many times by this bastard we know, but it still didn't stop her from making the same mistakes over and over and over and over.....

Basically, she knows very well that her life is changed. You can try helping her get section 8 (rent subsidy for low-income people), make her move into a shelter for women to then get cheap housing or see if she and you can bargain so that she can finish her education to get a better job later on. There are many options and it won't be easy. She's going to want to keep "her family" together no matter what because most women are nurturers. Of course she won't see that he's a lazy bum, but maybe you can talk to him too and ask him what he plans to do with his "new family". Whatever happens, if she gets the subsidized apt., don't let her put his name on the lease. At least if things go bad, she can get him kicked out and still have a place to live. The most important thing here is a stable life for the mother and baby (and sometimes it's the father that's more stable than the mother, so it could well be father and baby as in my family's case). She can always get an education later in life or work something out w/ someone. Everything should come together, albiet a bit slower.

Ignorance never helped anyone.

If you feel better for what you said then im happy for you.
Your comments are meaningless though.
Since you don't know this person, or their children, your baseless comment does nothing other than show the GLP community that you take pleasure in berating a total stranger.

My respect for you has dropped yet another notch, and Im sure it did the same thing for the majority the GLP community.

Comments such as that are on par with 3rd grade.
Perhaps you might actually graduate to 4th grade and make us all proud one day.

Agree entirely! GREAT ADVISE!
MOM....you're NOT BEING A MOM when you're busy beating up yourself....get a grip, stop whining, set those parameters, create expectations that are in your daughter's best interest, and stick to your guns.....or expect to feel the muddy feet that walk all over you playing the role of a doormat......

Well, I retract my statement. I know my husband would put any young idiot in his place if our daughter were pregnant, but we'll also keep them out of our apt as well as "sick" my cop brother after him if he was such an a-hole.

If she wants to see him, let her go. She's 20 and you can't stop her. If she gives you a hard time, you can always go to court to get her evicted from your place. I know it sounds horrible, but my sil did that to her son and he's 19 now, has his own place and his girlfriend left with him. He's acting much nicer w. his mother now and is doing very well on his own.

Figure out if the horrible treatment of you & your daughter would be considered abuse the by cops. If so, the next time he does it, report it & have him arrested.

She'll settle down then & be a good mother. At the rate she is going, her baby is going to suffer too.

Bingo.

I've just been thinking... I have a daughter. If any man came into MY home and mistreated her and cussed at her, I'd fucking kick his ass and he'd be hoping I called the police to come get him before I finished.

The only problem with this tactic is today you'd be imprisoned for teachin' him a lesson he surely deserves. Then you would be in no position to help her at all.

I agree with you though - one of the main problems with our society today is that fathers are discouraged from using the violence that might be necessary to protect one's family.

Now, if the shithead starts beatin' on her or your wife, or even threatens to, pound him into the shag carpeting.

And remember - those rose bushes always need fertilizer.

This is a free spell to banish someone from your life.

A MAGIC SPELL TO FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH YOUR EX-LOVER
OR TO CAST OUT A WORTHLESS FAMILY MEMBER FOREVER
(THE BLACK WALNUT SPELL)

Be sure you want to break the link completely.

This is folk-magic, and it works. It can only be worked in Fall, when the black walnuts are ready to harvest. Because it is performed naked, in the dark, it is not suitable for everyone.

You will need:

a piece of paper from a brown paper bag, freshly torn on
all four sides
a small pencil with no eraser on it
matches
1 black candle -- it can be a plain offertory candle, a
taper, or a figural candle of a human being or a devil.
black powder incense to which you should add Valerian
Root, Red Pepper, and Mullein Leaves. (If you cannot find
plain black powder incense and those herbs, use an
herb-based mixture containing them, such as Black Arts
Incense.)
a silver-coloured metal bowl.
9 black walnuts still in their green husks. You will
probably have to go into the country for these -- they are
not sold in stores (but see below for a substitute).

Place the walnuts in the bowl. Undress at midnight on a night when the moon is dark. Take all the supplies into your bathroom.

In the dark, with no light, write your ex-lover's name on the piece of paper, and say

[Name of Person],
this is the last time i will write your name!

Light the candle, use the candle to light the incense, look at the name paper and say

[Name of Person],
this is the last time i will see your name!

Fold the paper in half so the name can no longer be seen.

Draw a hot bath and throw the nine black walnuts into it. The water may turn brownish. Get into the bath with the walnuts. Pour the dark water over your head nine times and each time you pour it, say

[Name of Person],
i wash you out of my life.

Arise from the bath and pull the plug. As the water runs out, pick up the candle and hold it over the bath water. Take the person's name-paper in your other hand and set it on fire with the candle. As it burns, say

[Name of Person],
i burn you out of my life.

Drop the burning paper into the bath water, wait a brief moment, then plunge the candle upside down into the bath water to extinguish it while you say

[Name of Person],
i extinguish you.

Do not dry yourself with a towel, only let the air dry you. When the water has all run out, collect the nine walnuts (and the husk fragments) and place them back in the bowl.

Now, still entirely naked, walk outside carrying the bowl of walnuts and throw them away at a crossroads or street intersection or, if that is impossible, throw them against a tree -- but be careful to not drop any pieces of them in your own yard. As you throw away the walnuts, say,

[Name of Person], you are dead to me
And dead to me you'll always be

Wander the world both near and far
But touch me not, for dead you are!

Carry the empty bowl home without looking back, wash it out, and put it away.

As long as you never write or speak the person's full name again, he or she will remain out of your life and your former love will be broken.

NOTE: I have read that this spell can be satisfactorily performed with English or Persian Walnuts (the kind sold in stores, not in their green husks), if the walnuts are prepared first. To do this, get 9 Walnuts and boil them in 3 quarts of water until the water evaporates down to 1 quart in volume and turns brown. Then place the walnuts and their water in the bowl, as described above, and proceed as described except that when it comes time to throw the Black Walnuts into the bath with their husks, throw in the boiled walnuts with their quart of brown water. The reason that English or Persian Walnuts are boiled first is that without the green husks, and not being Black Walnuts, they are milder, so their essence must be concentrated before use.

After you have performed the Black Walnut Spell, immediately commence the Cut and Clear Spell below.

A MAGIC SPELL TO DESTROY YOUR PAST CONNECTION TO A LOVER OR FRIEND
AND DRAW A NEW AND BETTER LOVER OR FRIEND TO YOU IN THE NEAR FUTURE
(THE CUT AD CLEAR SPELL)

Lucky Mojo Cut and Clear Bath Crystals

Take a piece of lined paper and fold it in half the long way, then unfold it. You now have two columns side by side. In the left-hand column, make a list of the qualities this cheating lover or lying friend or bad seed family member had that you really loved and admired, whatever they are -- good looks, friendliness, humour, money, talents, sweet eyes -- WHATEVER it was you liked. Now, in the right-hand column, make a list of everything about him or her that you did not like, whatever that may have been -- the continual lies, immaturity, failure to come through on promises, fear of commitment, nasty language, alcohol or drug problems, whatever it was that disturbed you or turned your good moods to bad moods when you were around them. Try to make the lists about even in length.

Obtain the following items:

1 black Male or Female Figure Candle
1 bottle of Cut and Clear, Cast Off Evil, or Run Devil Run Dressing Oil
1 half-handful of Salt
1 pinch of red pepper powder
1 pinch of Graveyard Dirt
1 white Male or Female Figure Candle
1 bottle of Come to Me or Love Me type Dressing Oil
Dried flower petals (roses are best)
1 packet Cut and Clear Incense Powder
-- something that will really clear your thoughts.
King Solomon Wisdom, Clarity, pure Frankincense resin,
or Frankincense mixed with Copal resin will also do.
(Don't use a heavy incense like Myrrh or a sweet one
like Benzoin or Vanilla or Musk.)
1 packet of Cut and Clear or Van Van type Sachet Powder
A pair of scissors (optional)

Set up your altar space like this:

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incense burner
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white candle l black candle dressed
dressed with i with Cut and Clear Oil
Come to Me Oil n or Run Devil Run Oil
or Love Me Oil e or Cast Off Evil Oil
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dried your dirt and pepper
flower 2-column list: in ring of salt
petals good side | bad side (in small dish)
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First, lay down the line of Cut and Clear or Van Van type Sachet Powder where it says "line" in the layout and then arrange everything else. Dress the candles. Light the Incense Powder first, then the white candle, then the black candle. Center your thoughts and concentrate on clarity and wisdom. Say aloud:

Cut and clear.

Carefully crease the paper and cut or neatly tear it along the original fold, separating the two sides, and holding the "bad" side in your right hand and the "good" side in your left hand as you concentrate on your desire for clarity. When you feel the time is right, put both sides down in front of you and again say,

Cut and clear.

Then pick up the bad side of the list and say,

This is what i cast aside, cast out, and cannot abide and i will have no more

-- and read the list of unpleasant qualities aloud, slowly, with great feeling. When you are finished, place a small pinch of the red pepper in the middle of the paper and fold it into a packet. Hold the packet over the black candle and set it on fire. As it burns, drop it down onto the salt. When it is finished burning, grind out the ashes into the salt and red pepper, mixing them all together. Then blow out the back candle.

Now pick up the list of good qualities and say,

This is what i desire, call forth, and require, and this will come to me

Read the list of good qualities out loud, slowly and with warm feeling. When you are finished, place three of the white flower petals in the middle of the paper and fold it into a packet. Hold the packet above the white candle flame to warm it, but do not set it on fire. Say,

Cut and clear, cut and clear, i'll keep the things that i hold dear

-- and touch the packet to your heart, then place it atop the rest of the flower petals, in front of the white candle.

Let the white candle burn all the way to the end, then take the packet and put it away someplace among your private things where no one will find it. The next man who loves you will come to you with as many of these good qualities as he can muster and will be an all-around better person than the last one.

When cleaning up after this spell, bury all the left-over incense ashes, white wax, and unused flower petals from the white / good side in your own yard. Carry the left overs from the black / bad side to a crossroads, or running water and throw them away so that passersby will disperse the energy they hold. The ground-up ashes, pepper, and salt should be thrown over your left shoulder as you walk away from the disposal-ground -- and don't look back.

Wear Cut and Clear oil as a scent when you think you will have to see the person again, and you will not be drawn back into the relationship.

[link to www.luckymojo.com]

So now they have to wait almost a year to perform this and get results? The Fall is over. Lot of good this will do...

Do you have a little plot of ground? A few square feet?

Start working the soil in say, a 2x6 ft. rectangle.

Just scrape away the top layer, keep a big shovel nearby.

And a roll of black trash bags & duct tape.


Subtle.

Well I'm a mother. I won't hesitate to protect my family. I've kicked more than one male out of my house. None have dared come back.

would be much easier to bitch slap him.

Yep. Astronomical winter began a few days ago, and any good witch knows those are the dates to watch.

Forget the walnuts.

wow that magic stuff looks awesome.

See the Gardasil-miscarriage thread - if she's been vaccinated, she might be among the unfortunate statistics.

Get a personal protection order (PPO) against HIM to keep him away from your premises and you and your love ones.

Don`t let that loser destroy your health or your spouses health......and I know he is.

And he will, you owe him nothing.

If he threatens you, your spouse or your daughter...file domestic violence charges against him.

Everytime he threatens.

Don`t hesitate!!!


Have a gun in your house, that only you or your spouse KNOWS where its at..."""NEVER""" TO BE USED "UNLESS" YOU ARE IN "FEAR OF YOUR LIFE, imminent death, OR YOUR LOVE ONES ARE IN FEAR OF THEIR LIFE or imminent death".

REMEMBER IT IS BETTER TO BE JUDGED BY 12 THEN CARRIED BY 6

Remember you owe him nothing AND A MANS HOUSE "YOUR HOUSE" IS YOUR CASTLE.

As far as your daughter goes, if shes old enough to get preqnant, shes old enough to face the "hard edge of reality" LIFE ITSELF.

As far as her education goes, help her IF YOU CAN, ''BUT YOU DON`T OWE HER""..........make that clear.

The baby is innocent.......YOU KNOW THAT.

Again, you owe him nothing and don`t be ashamed if this trash gets arrested...ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.

However this turns out...ITS NOT YOUR FAULT, GET THAT IN YOUR HEAD RIGHT NOW!!!!

I`m sorry for your sadness...LEGION

about 40cc of KCL will make it look like he had a heart attack

look - we MUST make it clear in our society that having babies without being married is UNACCEPTABLE !!!!

I don't give a damn about your respect for me, I worry about parenting skills

someone didn't teach the girl to either keep her legs closed or use birth control

someone didn't teach the boy to ALWAYS use a condom

someone needed to know were their kids were

wasn't me - wasn't you ... it was THE PARENTS

pppppppp

i get down my knees and thank GOD....that hasn't happen....yet.

Children do not always turn out the way you plan or the way you have taught them. There are several factors that affect how a child develops and matures or dvisa versa. Such as their enviroment, their genes, their intelligence, etc. So do not be so fast to blame a parent for the way their child turned out.

Blaming a parent for how their child turned out is the same as saying that all adults can blame their parents for the person they have become. That is such a cop out. Maturity is taking responsability for yourself and not blaming your parents for how your life turned out.

You got that right!

Move away to Guam and tell not one single person... EVER...

Your grand-children are already going to be welfare cases... let your daughter reap the consequences of her stupid choices.

My daughter reminded me of this:

Start to like the boy a whole lot; way to much.

Then daughter will run from him.

First off, it's not your job to decide what's good for your daughter. She's an adult, she has to have that right to make that decision for herself.

As for the free room and board deal, you need to let her know the pariameters. What you expect from her. Such as bills, rent, or anything you deem necessary. Tell her to get a part time job at a store or something, and give you guys two hundred bucks a month. If not, she has to get out. All you can do is support her as best you can emotionally, and let her know what your position is on this guy.

Hope things work out for you. :)

time for tough love. Boot their asses out.

If they disrespect you, boot.
If he disrespects your doughter just boot him.

well .... I blame our permissive society for letting it be acceptable and support to have bastard children

it should as socially unacceptable to have several baby daddies or bastard kids as it is to smoke in public

ther will there be accidents, hell yes

but now days it is the accepted practice, not an accident