What Happened to All the Nice Guys?" | |
another (formerly) NiceGuy User ID: 339578 Austria 12/13/2007 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 339288 United States 12/13/2007 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got a nice guy, and have been keeping this wonderful treasure very happy for over 30 years. But he was more interested in me as a person than in my rather homely face and body. Nice guys get found by smart women, and we marry them. They make awesome (and snuggly) husbands. |
Banshee Tiger User ID: 158854 Canada 12/13/2007 12:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Saxon User ID: 194696 United States 12/13/2007 12:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Sireen-reborn User ID: 335827 United States 12/13/2007 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ALL us women have had a man or two in our lives that fit the bill of "Nice Guy" that we just didn't see as a romantic possibility. It's true, we have no right to bitch if we were given the opportunity and turned it down for whatever superficial reasons seemed to fly at the time. anything after 'but' is bullshit! [link to www.myspace.com] "Once you open your mind to the possibility of conspiracy, you then see conspiracy in everything." [link to deadbydecember-sireen.blogspot.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 329231 Germany 12/13/2007 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 260371 United States 12/13/2007 12:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 308340 United States 12/13/2007 01:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
LukeAtMyDik User ID: 330407 United States 12/13/2007 01:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | im one of the nice guys who,s in this video can i melt yur heart ladies :-) [link to video.google.com] LKXXON |
Just A Thought User ID: 93768 Lithuania 12/13/2007 01:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And as a disclaimer of course I do not think this applies to “all” women just the majority of them. |
LukeAtMyDik User ID: 330407 United States 12/13/2007 01:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 276543 United States 12/13/2007 01:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 325976 United States 12/13/2007 01:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One girls nice guy, is another girls asshole. Men are just as guilty of this. They dont want nice girls. They dont want to be "mothered", "helped", "taken care of." Oh sure, sleep with them, buy them gifts, cook for them, drive them around, pay for dinner-but that's not the girl that turns you on. You men want a "challenge". You fawn all over the bitches, the slutty girls, the ones that DONT act like the pathetic female. And worse-at least us women wont sleep with the nice guy platonic boyfriend.....whereas the men will, thereby sending an even WORSE mixed message. Face it-people just don't want nice people anymore. Sad world, indeed. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 337116 Sweden 12/13/2007 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 260371 United States 12/13/2007 01:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One girls nice guy, is another girls asshole. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 325976Men are just as guilty of this. They dont want nice girls. They dont want to be "mothered", "helped", "taken care of." Oh sure, sleep with them, buy them gifts, cook for them, drive them around, pay for dinner-but that's not the girl that turns you on. You men want a "challenge". You fawn all over the bitches, the slutty girls, the ones that DONT act like the pathetic female. And worse-at least us women wont sleep with the nice guy platonic boyfriend.....whereas the men will, thereby sending an even WORSE mixed message. Face it-people just don't want nice people anymore. Sad world, indeed. big difference. we'll fuck the sluts and marry the nice ones. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 290624 United States 12/13/2007 01:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 339603 United Kingdom 12/13/2007 01:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow! So many people on this forum who are dead set on an all out sex-war. Why so much hatred of women? An occasional bit of hurt feelings in the dating game doesn't need to turn into 'all women are scheming bitches', nor does the occasional dead-beat father need to become 'all men are irresponsible callous bastards'. Individual behaviour needs to be acknowledged as just that - particular to that individual of whichever sex. Where's the co-operation people? We're all stuck in this together you know, so best to make the most of it. |
caligirl9 User ID: 339604 United States 12/13/2007 01:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Saxon User ID: 194696 United States 12/13/2007 01:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think it's also true that women compete with their circle of female friends for the "status boyfriend" which will make them a sort of "alpha female" in their little group of friends. as time goes by and their girlfriends gradually pair off with less-than-alpha males, or 1 of the girls ends up with a wealthy guy (lawyer, doctor) and it's more of a "game over, i can't compete with that" type of thing, she feels less pressure to impress. don't mean all women are like this, but i've seen it quite a bit. of course, people can point the finger and say that men do this too, in their group of friends when it comes trying to get the best looking girlfriend. thing is though, that both groups are shallow and deserve each other. forces them to keep hurting each other until they grow the hell up, finally. that's the only way some people learn. Quoting: caligirl9Wow, they still have girls like you out in California? Who'd a thought. LOL True and insightful. p.s. The saddest part of all that "gaming" you're describing is that it minimizes the possibility that any of the "players" will ever find/develop Real Love. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 290624 United States 12/13/2007 03:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | TAKE what you want, that is the problem with parents these days, they don't teach their kids to TAKE what they want as rightfully theirs. People say there is no entitlement, but oh yes, there certainly is, you are entitled to whatever you desire. The fact is, if you take what you want, you will get sex. I'm not talking about rape but owning yourself, you will get sex. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 290624 United States 12/13/2007 03:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you want sex? Well stop whining and be a MAN. Boys do not get sex because they don't know how to be men, they are still children. It is not in our code to be kind people. If you want sex, you will stop whining and be a MAN. As long as you keep whining you will remain a baby and you won't get sex. |
Evil Twin User ID: 77197 United States 12/13/2007 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 287398 United States 12/13/2007 03:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow! So many people on this forum who are dead set on an all out sex-war. Why so much hatred of women? An occasional bit of hurt feelings in the dating game doesn't need to turn into 'all women are scheming bitches', nor does the occasional dead-beat father need to become 'all men are irresponsible callous bastards'. Individual behaviour needs to be acknowledged as just that - particular to that individual of whichever sex. Where's the co-operation people? We're all stuck in this together you know, so best to make the most of it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 339603Sad how so many have been psychologically manipulated by the propaganda and don't even realize it. They probably wonder why they feel so angry. American society is so screwed, and purposely so. When the women-hating movement started I really didn't think it would take off because it's so ingrained for men and women to be attracted to one another and to seek out a mate. But it's worked all too well, maybe they want the guys to turn gay. Maybe those who are the worst women-haters, who have really gone for it ARE gay but don't want to recognize it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 339377 United States 12/13/2007 03:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice guys don't want the drama and accidental pregnancies so that you might have to garnish their wages after you break up with them and use them as an ATM. Nice guys don't want bitches who are 'high maintenance bitches' who think that their man needs to kneel down before them without the threat of leaving them for that other guy over there. Nice guys are just tired of being used, is all, but thank for the offer, girlfriend. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 328849 United States 12/13/2007 03:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Kalah User ID: 333428 United States 12/13/2007 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i hear what you're saying. i don't date, but i have watched my sister take up with flashy lookin, dramatic guys, who all have turned out to be some or another kind of loser. she actually says she likes the bad boys. i've seen the ones who adore her, the actual nice ones, they don't look so flashy, but i think if given a chance they would be way deeper, more interesting, and sexy than the flashy ones. at her age, she still hasn't learned. i suspect if she gave one of the lesser flashy ones a chance, she would be pleasantly surprised, and wouldn't end up in the disaster zone like she does at the end of of her ill begotten affairs. the "emperors" have no clothes! |
Sireen-reborn User ID: 335827 United States 12/13/2007 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I idea of a perfect man is one that is MANLY by all means, knows what to share with his woman and what NOT to share, is someone that seems unconquerable, yet will allow himself to melt in the arms of a woman that truely loves him. He doesn't cry easily He doesn't whine He knows to leave work at work He takes charge as head of the household but considers SERIOUSLY his woman's opinion on the issue. He's a bad ass, his woman can feel confidently safe with him anything after 'but' is bullshit! [link to www.myspace.com] "Once you open your mind to the possibility of conspiracy, you then see conspiracy in everything." [link to deadbydecember-sireen.blogspot.com] |